Hi Jordan,Originally Posted by JordanMang
By "truth" that is exactly what I mean. No bull. No brainwashing, etc. like religion (which is man-made) likes to do. I stand completely behind what I said to you.
As with the color of a person's skin so too is their Sexuality, as born, and a Gift from God along with all the other things He gives each of us. A person does not chose their Sexuality. Someone could say "I tried it and now I like it" but that is only really saying they WERE who they now "realize" " they are", as born. Some people take a long time to realize who they truly are.
As for good looking Men - I see them every day and I even work with them in construction . And in my everyday travels. Most Men I know do not go around flaunting what they have because what they have, and that they earned it honestly, speaks for itself. Men SEE other Men as they truly are.
If you masturbate you are a Man having sex with a Man even though you are one and the same Man and technically speaking (and in the final analysis it IS about the technical which decides and ends the controversary). Sure masturbation is a form of self-pleasure but you are still having Sex with a Man and so it follows that if you also masturbated your best Buddy the same applies as well. But that does not mean that both of you can not truly understand and appreciate - and ultimately enjoy - the help given whether given to yourself by yourself, help given to your Buddy by you or help he gives to you - everyone benefits as long as it is done with total respect, honor and dignity which is the only way I would ever do that speaking for me specifically. I never use others and they do not use me. Sex in any form is sacred and those I am involved with Sexually KNOW that is absolutely true - they have even told me that not because I asked them but they freely said that themselves.
You example of a blow-up doll - it depends on the Gender of the blow-up doll. And any labels placed on anyone for any reason are all man-made anyway. People are Sexual - period. Probably many are actually BiSexual and do not even realize or admit that at least to themselves. That men have made the decision to label people is something entirely man-made. All people are Sexual beings regardless of who it is they are having Sex with - even themselves.
Masturbation is a variation of Sex because you are touching a Sexual part of you or your partner. Rubbing your/his neck or even a total body massage could also be considered Sex because this is something people do to themselves which could though not initially planned or does if that is their initial intention cause them Sexual release. Just massaging a part of yourself or someone else of couse does not mean that Sex will be the end result however it certainly could mean that depending on how long it is done and what methods are utilized and what one person's real intentions are whether planned or designed along the way to the "end".
If you will read this book for example: FORBIDDEN FRIENDSHIPS, by Michael Rocke (Oxford University Press) (it discusses Sex between Men in Florence Italy circa 1400-1500 A. D.) (since this did happen in this one town and it is documented that nearly 50% of the Male population was involved with each other Sexually, and consider this also was more than likely prevalent throughout the world as well) or this book by Bruce Bagmihl (which discusses Homosexuality and BiSexuality in the Animal Kingdom) you will see that "creature(s)... (do)....have Sex with the same gender" as well.
I am not confusing anything.
"Peace & love" (it is possible that love is Sexual love) to you too - see it depends on the persons and whether everything "clicks" between two people who are of age and ability of consent and give that consent freely.
"Propaganda"? No, I certainly am not spreading propaganda. I speaking totally truthfully. Religions which are Man-made spread propaganda - and brainwash. Study religions and their history with an open mind objectively. Learn and see for yourself. From history and even from present practices. Real learning looks at all sides of every subject and continues to do so throughout a persons lifetime because additional and new information becomes available all the time that at the time may not have been.
Take Care, John H.



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