Thread: what do men really mean?

u should prolly be able to tell by his attitude or the way he acts..there isn't a one size fits all model for that type of situation..gotta go with ur gut instinct

Originally Posted by AnnaDTX

Do men really say nice things like, "there is plenty of time to get to know each other" or "we dont have to have sex everytime we see each other, theres plenty of time for that?" to actually get a woman in bed faster? how do we know if a man is REALLY just being nice??

hahahaha, no guy would say that, or maybe like 3% of the population would

Originally Posted by AnnaDTX

Do men really say nice things like, "there is plenty of time to get to know each other" or "we dont have to have sex everytime we see each other, theres plenty of time for that?" to actually get a woman in bed faster? how do we know if a man is REALLY just being nice??

All men want is to bang a hot chick, if you really think he likes your personality think again....gain 100Lbs and see how many dates you get.

Originally Posted by ForemanRules

All men want is to bang a hot chick, if you really think he likes your personality think again....gain 100Lbs and see how many dates you get.

WRONG! not all of us guys just want to bang a hot chick. some of us are still respectful, well-manered gentlemen who actually want more then sex, or sex is the last thing on our list. there are some of us who want a long term relationship, and not for sex. that is the problem with the world today sex, sex, sex. only to "get some" or "get laid" that is so stupid sex makes money so that is pushed so much in society. gain 100 lbs? yeah its called childbirth/ pregnancy.
"hey did you get some... man that is so dumb"-DC

so please do not speak for "all" or "any" guy(s) when you are mistaken. thanx

Originally Posted by AnnaDTX

Do men really say nice things like, "there is plenty of time to get to know each other" or "we dont have to have sex everytime we see each other, theres plenty of time for that?" to actually get a woman in bed faster? how do we know if a man is REALLY just being nice??

so your answer to your question is no, anna. NOT all of us are like that. maybe most of the guys are, but there are still a few real nice guys left. and we are dieing off because most women any more only want a "bad boy" or a "tough guy".

Originally Posted by mustangdan

WRONG! not all of us guys just want to bang a hot chick. some of us are still respectful, well-manered gentlemen who actually want more then sex, or sex is the last thing on our list. there are some of us who want a long term relationship, and not for sex. that is the problem with the world today sex, sex, sex. only to "get some" or "get laid" that is so stupid sex makes money so that is pushed so much in society. gain 100 lbs? yeah its called childbirth/ pregnancy.
"hey did you get some... man that is so dumb"-DC

so please do not speak for "all" or "any" guy(s) when you are mistaken. thanx

Homo

thanks mustangdan! Where are all these good guys?? Sorry to post another dumb question but hey, my 2 interests are the gym and men!!!

I am a respectful man, well except for those one times. anyway. lol

I am a man no way round it, but I am respectful, and have the up most respect for women. I grew up with , my aunt, mom, gramma, sister, and 7 girl cousins around . And an uncle that was working all the time. I am glad I aint gay. But I have learned to respect females.

Foreman is right. I treat them like queens, but all men want the same thing. They're full of shit if they say otherwise. Now if you were married for many years and your wife blew up 100 lbs thats different. But no one goes looking for pie wagons unless they have a fetish.

Nice guy= passive aggressive controller. No woman wants a nice guy. Especially a hot woman, they will get bored FAST! There is a huge difference between a respectful man and a nice guy.

If a guy really really means that shit, then he's a pussy and you'll end up dumping him anyway. Ask me how I know. Im a little older and wiser now, but my heart had to take a beating to stop the programming my mother instilled in me when i was younger.
Go Leykis!

Originally Posted by mustangdan

WRONG! not all of us guys just want to bang a hot chick. some of us are still respectful, well-manered gentlemen who actually want more then sex, or sex is the last thing on our list. there are some of us who want a long term relationship, and not for sex. that is the problem with the world today sex, sex, sex. only to "get some" or "get laid" that is so stupid sex makes money so that is pushed so much in society. gain 100 lbs? yeah its called childbirth/ pregnancy.
"hey did you get some... man that is so dumb"-DC

so please do not speak for "all" or "any" guy(s) when you are mistaken. thanx

gay

Originally Posted by nsimmons

Foreman is right. I treat them like queens, but all men want the same thing. They're full of shit if they say otherwise. Now if you were married for many years and your wife blew up 100 lbs thats different. But no one goes looking for pie wagons unless they have a fetish.

Nice guy= passive aggressive controller. No woman wants a nice guy. Especially a hot woman, they will get bored FAST! There is a huge difference between a respectful man and a nice guy.

If a guy really really means that shit, then he's a pussy and you'll end up dumping him anyway. Ask me how I know. Im a little older and wiser now, but my heart had to take a beating to stop the programming my mother instilled in me when i was younger.
Go Leykis!

TRUE STORY

Originally Posted by AnnaDTX

Do men really say nice things like, "there is plenty of time to get to know each other" or "we dont have to have sex everytime we see each other, theres plenty of time for that?" to actually get a woman in bed faster? how do we know if a man is REALLY just being nice??

What's not nice about trying to have sex with you? It just means he likes you.

i am not going to argue my point on this, especially when im right. and im not going to act like a little boy and say " i am not gay, youre gay". that was my point about todays society. if you dont agree with someone or like what they have to say all of a sudden theyre gay. how immature. i am a certain type of person, who believes a certain way. you feel differently and thats great, but dont go saying things on other peoples behalf.

Originally Posted by mustangdan

i am not going to argue my point on this, especially when im right. and im not going to act like a little boy and say " i am not gay, youre gay". that was my point about todays society. if you dont agree with someone or like what they have to say all of a sudden theyre gay. how immature. i am a certain type of person, who believes a certain way. you feel differently and thats great, but dont go saying things on other peoples behalf.

queer

people quit HATIN'

if all the man wants is sex, he must be very shallow and one-dimensional...

dam anna, how the hell do you have a hard time gettn guys, u look like a shorty in your pics

sHIT, i SEE THIS PIECE LIKE THIS YO...
iF you like the boy and he like you back, I dont see what the problem is when it comes to sex. If you dont want to have sex with him, then you should'nt be with him in the first place. Now what you think guys are gonna think bout you? Dressing in tightass clothes and shit... You know what you're doing and you're doing it for a reason so quit that fucking crying yo.

Word yo.

Originally Posted by mustangdan

i am not going to argue my point on this, especially when im right. and im not going to act like a little boy and say " i am not gay, youre gay". that was my point about todays society. if you dont agree with someone or like what they have to say all of a sudden theyre gay. how immature. i am a certain type of person, who believes a certain way. you feel differently and thats great, but dont go saying things on other peoples behalf.

This post = 0 pussy gained....
True story

maybe they just lose interest ine?? or they decide they just cant keep up with me?? or they cant handle my friends, most of them are guys? could be a lot of things, but I will just keep asking questions.

Originally Posted by AnnaDTX

maybe they just lose interest ine?? or they decide they just cant keep up with me?? or they cant handle my friends, most of them are guys? could be a lot of things, but I will just keep asking questions.

or you can come to RI and get some love put in ya

When a girl/woman has only "guys" for friends....that is = to 0 friends.

i have 2 girlfriends, the rest are guys. Right now, BOTH my gal pals have bf's.

just my 2 cents worth.. some guys are dicks, some aren't. If you think a guy is just tying to be nice, give him a chance, he probably is. There are still a few of us nice guys left out there. And I'll agree, in the long run, we probably don't get laid as much as the "bad boys" but I bet we have much better relationships with women, either as friends or lovers.

If a person is really interested in you he will ask direct questions
not "softball" date questions...

And if he is really interested in you, he wont bring up sex... and neither
will you because you will have so much else to talk about first

Originally Posted by AnnaDTX

Do men really say nice things like, "there is plenty of time to get to know each other" or "we dont have to have sex everytime we see each other, theres plenty of time for that?" to actually get a woman in bed faster?

SHort answer = HELL YES

Originally Posted by AnnaDTX

...how do we know if a man is REALLY just being nice??

he's not talking about sex.