3Somes

AnnaDTX · 03-07-2006, 09:44 AM

So I was on the phone with this guy I have been seeing for 4 months and we start talking about 3somes. at first I told him I wasnt opposed to the idea, then a guy friend of mine was telling me if we did that, then my guy wouldnt respect me and he obvisously isnt happy with me if he wants to bring someone else to the bedroom. So now I am going to tell the guy 4 get that idea. I was for it but i guess my other friend is right.

Plus my guy and i were planning on going to the strip club for fun, but I guess I am going to nip that idea too! Shit, I have a wild streak but it seems that my friend makes a good point about respect.

**Dale Mabry** · 03-07-2006, 09:47 AM

Your friend is an idiot and is cockblocking another guy, he should be killed in a very inhumane manner.

PreMier · 03-07-2006, 10:01 AM

skanky

AnnaDTX · 03-07-2006, 11:16 AM

thats right, SKANKY!!! no way I cant bring myself to do that and I am going to tell him!

PreMier · 03-07-2006, 11:22 AM

Well, some people are into that stuff, and thats great! Me, I couldnt do it, and definately wouldnt want to be with a girl that does. We are all entitled to live our lives to how we feel is best, so have fun, but be safe

largepkg · 03-07-2006, 11:24 AM

The truth is you were never going to do it anyway. You found your excuse and are using it. You my dear are a TEASE! Simple as that.

AnnaDTX · 03-07-2006, 11:28 AM

well i was thinking about it, i have did it before when i was 22. its no big thing, i just thinki have moved on from that bs.

MACCA · 03-07-2006, 11:32 AM

AnnaDTX, have you done this sort of thing before with previous partners? if so how did it work out.If it works for you both goodluck, but friends of mine have tried this and it has all ended in tears.

MACCA · 03-07-2006, 11:52 AM

If you say you you did it at 22 and it was bullshit why even think about it?

TJ Cline · 03-07-2006, 01:35 PM

My brain just exploded......again

Pepper · 03-07-2006, 01:38 PM

KentDog · 03-07-2006, 02:05 PM

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Originally Posted by largepkg

The truth is you were never going to do it anyway. You found your excuse and are using it. You my dear are a TEASE! Simple as that.

I agree. No offense, but you sound like kind of a prude if you're going to buy what your other friend said about your boyfriend losing respect for you. Don't you think you should weigh your own opinion in more than what others think? You know him best, right? If not, perhaps you shouldn't have had sex with him to begin with. It should really be your call and your call alone. How serious is your current relationship if I may ask? And do you see it going much further down the line?

AnnaDTX · 03-07-2006, 02:17 PM

MACCA - the 3some i had long ago was fun, and it did not hurt my relationship at all. that guy and I were together for 10 years. we broke up because we fought all the time. the only reason why i was thinking about now was because he brought it up and so I was thinking what harm can it do?? But then my other guy friend was telling me about respect blah, blah, blah. so i got to thinking he was right.

KentDog - the guy and i have been dating for 4 months. i dont know the exact status but we both like the situation. we see each other 2-3xs a week and we call and text but we dont talk every single day. we keep our distance and i like that. we both go out and have fun. we are not seeing anyone else, we have discussed that. we are both just taking things slow, because we have been in bad relationships. we are both alike and i dont know if thats a good thing? but for the most part i like him and i am just gonna see where it goes. i dont want to see too much in to the future but i can see him sticking around a while

MACCA · 03-07-2006, 02:27 PM

AnnaDTX only you yourself know if feels right or not, good luck which ever way you go......and by the way keep us updated with all the details.....

TJ Cline · 03-07-2006, 02:35 PM

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Originally Posted by largepkg

The truth is you were never going to do it anyway. You found your excuse and are using it. You my dear are a TEASE! Simple as that.

or she is

largepkg · 03-07-2006, 03:14 PM

AnnaDTX · 03-07-2006, 03:32 PM

thanks everyone. dont worry i have no prob discussing the details. actually i have been holding back but i can save some details for a later date! i just love this place for letting me be so open! My 2 interests fitness and MEN!

gr81 · 03-07-2006, 03:49 PM

if you want a future with this guy then don't do it, but if you are just casually dating and its just an unimoirtant guy for you then its not that big a deal. I don't think its about respect though. if guy guy wanst a 3sum it doesn't mean he doesn't respect you, it just means that he wants to respect two of you at once...lol. it can defn do harm though with a serious relationship, trust. some sort of feelings always stem, whether it be jealousy or interest in the other partner or whatever, thats what makes it a bad idea for serious couples. my two cents

WOLFSENT · 01-06-2008, 11:11 AM

Maybe you should tell him you want 2 men worshipping your body, giving you pleasure, putting all their focus on you. 2 girls/guy is so cliche'

usamarshal · 01-06-2008, 03:26 PM

Man Law

Crono1000 · 01-07-2008, 11:47 AM

I think you've gotten some great advice here. Only you know if it's appropriate. Don't let someone else tell you what your values are. And I agree I don't think it has anything to do with respect. I respect a girl that's open with her sexuality. You can be skanky about it or respectful about it, it's about how you portray yourself.

min0 lee · 01-07-2008, 12:08 PM

Is it 2 girls and 1 guy or 2 guys and 1 girl?

Crono1000 · 01-07-2008, 12:10 PM

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Originally Posted by min0 lee

Is it 2 girls and 1 guy or a devil's 3some?

haha, been watching too much Scrubs lately

min0 lee · 01-07-2008, 12:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Crono1000

haha, been watching too much Scrubs lately

DontStop · 01-07-2008, 12:37 PM

Threesomes arent great anyways's. I was close to having once ONCE with two guys but it never involved any intercourse. Just being there knowing there was a chance of it happening made me feel guilty

I love the guy Im with now, he doesnt want to share me and I dont want to share him...do it if you want. LOTS of normal couples do it. I just know Id feel really guilty.

IRM · 01-07-2008, 01:31 PM

Does a girl + jar of peanut butter + willing K-9 = Threesome?

A Black Guy · 01-07-2008, 01:53 PM

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Originally Posted by DontStop

Threesomes arent great anyways's.

Quote:

Originally Posted by DontStop

I was close to having once ONCE with two guys but it never involved any intercourse.

I fail to see how you qualify to offer an opinion on something you have yet to experience.

DontStop · 01-07-2008, 01:59 PM

i did however say i know id feel guilty if i did it
thats my input

A Black Guy · 01-07-2008, 02:35 PM

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Originally Posted by DontStop

i did however say i know id feel guilty if i did it
thats my input

I used to feel the same way about rape...

03-07-2006, 09:44 AM	#1
AnnaDTX Registered User Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Houston Posts: 503	3Somes So I was on the phone with this guy I have been seeing for 4 months and we start talking about 3somes. at first I told him I wasnt opposed to the idea, then a guy friend of mine was telling me if we did that, then my guy wouldnt respect me and he obvisously isnt happy with me if he wants to bring someone else to the bedroom. So now I am going to tell the guy 4 get that idea. I was for it but i guess my other friend is right. Plus my guy and i were planning on going to the strip club for fun, but I guess I am going to nip that idea too! Shit, I have a wild streak but it seems that my friend makes a good point about respect.

03-07-2006, 09:47 AM	#2
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03-07-2006, 10:01 AM	#3
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03-07-2006, 11:22 AM	#5
PreMier happy sumo Elite Member Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 21,088 Photos: 2	Well, some people are into that stuff, and thats great! Me, I couldnt do it, and definately wouldnt want to be with a girl that does. We are all entitled to live our lives to how we feel is best, so have fun, but be safe
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03-07-2006, 11:32 AM	#8
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03-07-2006, 11:16 AM	#4
AnnaDTX Registered User Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Houston Posts: 503	thats right, SKANKY!!! no way I cant bring myself to do that and I am going to tell him!

03-07-2006, 11:24 AM	#6
largepkg Senior Fucknut Join Date: Jun 2004 Location: S FLA Posts: 3,044 Photos: 2	The truth is you were never going to do it anyway. You found your excuse and are using it. You my dear are a TEASE! Simple as that.

03-07-2006, 11:28 AM	#7
AnnaDTX Registered User Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Houston Posts: 503	well i was thinking about it, i have did it before when i was 22. its no big thing, i just thinki have moved on from that bs.

03-07-2006, 11:52 AM	#9
MACCA Registered User Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: on the tarmac Posts: 545	If you say you you did it at 22 and it was bullshit why even think about it?
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03-07-2006, 01:35 PM	#10
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03-07-2006, 02:17 PM	#13
AnnaDTX Registered User Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Houston Posts: 503	MACCA - the 3some i had long ago was fun, and it did not hurt my relationship at all. that guy and I were together for 10 years. we broke up because we fought all the time. the only reason why i was thinking about now was because he brought it up and so I was thinking what harm can it do?? But then my other guy friend was telling me about respect blah, blah, blah. so i got to thinking he was right. KentDog - the guy and i have been dating for 4 months. i dont know the exact status but we both like the situation. we see each other 2-3xs a week and we call and text but we dont talk every single day. we keep our distance and i like that. we both go out and have fun. we are not seeing anyone else, we have discussed that. we are both just taking things slow, because we have been in bad relationships. we are both alike and i dont know if thats a good thing? but for the most part i like him and i am just gonna see where it goes. i dont want to see too much in to the future but i can see him sticking around a while

03-07-2006, 02:27 PM	#14
MACCA Registered User Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: on the tarmac Posts: 545	AnnaDTX only you yourself know if feels right or not, good luck which ever way you go......and by the way keep us updated with all the details.....
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03-07-2006, 03:32 PM	#17
AnnaDTX Registered User Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Houston Posts: 503	thanks everyone. dont worry i have no prob discussing the details. actually i have been holding back but i can save some details for a later date! i just love this place for letting me be so open! My 2 interests fitness and MEN!

01-07-2008, 12:08 PM	#22
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03-07-2006, 03:49 PM	#18
gr81 You Lack Intensity!!!! Elite Member Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Just below our civil disguise Posts: 6,378 Photos: 10	if you want a future with this guy then don't do it, but if you are just casually dating and its just an unimoirtant guy for you then its not that big a deal. I don't think its about respect though. if guy guy wanst a 3sum it doesn't mean he doesn't respect you, it just means that he wants to respect two of you at once...lol. it can defn do harm though with a serious relationship, trust. some sort of feelings always stem, whether it be jealousy or interest in the other partner or whatever, thats what makes it a bad idea for serious couples. my two cents
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01-06-2008, 11:11 AM	#19
WOLFSENT Registered User Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: BNR in southern Cali, now reside in texas Posts: 1	3WAY action Maybe you should tell him you want 2 men worshipping your body, giving you pleasure, putting all their focus on you. 2 girls/guy is so cliche'

01-06-2008, 03:26 PM	#20
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01-07-2008, 11:47 AM	#21
Crono1000 Peelosopher Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 5,772 Photos: 11	I think you've gotten some great advice here. Only you know if it's appropriate. Don't let someone else tell you what your values are. And I agree I don't think it has anything to do with respect. I respect a girl that's open with her sexuality. You can be skanky about it or respectful about it, it's about how you portray yourself.

01-07-2008, 12:37 PM	#25
DontStop pappy Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Edmonton Posts: 2,592 Blog Entries: 1 Photos: 33	Threesomes arent great anyways's. I was close to having once ONCE with two guys but it never involved any intercourse. Just being there knowing there was a chance of it happening made me feel guilty I love the guy Im with now, he doesnt want to share me and I dont want to share him...do it if you want. LOTS of normal couples do it. I just know Id feel really guilty.
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01-07-2008, 01:31 PM	#26
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01-07-2008, 01:59 PM	#28
DontStop pappy Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Edmonton Posts: 2,592 Blog Entries: 1 Photos: 33	i did however say i know id feel guilty if i did it thats my input
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