Mystik

ok so I went on a date and she came home got in my bed but we didnt have sex is this good?, I like to be respectful. We just layed next to each other all night and cuddled ... Do ladies like this better then just doin it right away?

min0 lee

Dear lord, did you just say cuddled?

What happened to you?
I hope she doesn't think your gay.....cuddled...dear lord.

DOMS

A chick got in bed with you and all you did was cuddle?

I'm willing to bet you missed a single or two. She was probably throwing out all sorts of positive body signals that you simply didn't pick up on.

For future reference: if a chick crawls in bed with you, she probably wants to have sex. Or, at least, she wants some decent oral.

Oh, and just how old are you?

BoneCrusher

Not that one. She want you to plow her hard and deep. This is how you become "friends".

Did you kiss her? A real kiss not like you kiss your grandma.

BoneCrusher

Ticking away the moments that make up a dull day
You fritter and waste the hours in an off hand way
Kicking around on a piece of ground in your home town
Waiting for someone or something to show you the way

Tired of lying in the sunshine staying home to watch the rain
You are young and life is long and there is time to kill today
And then one day you find ten years have got behind you
No one told you when to run, you missed the starting gun

And you run and you run to catch up with the sun, but its sinking
And racing around to come up behind you again
The sun is the same in the relative way, but youre older
Shorter of breath and one day closer to death

Every year is getting shorter, never seem to find the time
Plans that either come to naught or half a page of scribbled lines
Hanging on in quiet desperation is the english way
The time is gone, the song is over, thought Id something more to say

Home, home again
I like to be here when I can
And when I come home cold and tired
Its good to warm my bones beside the fire
Far away across the field
The tolling of the iron bell
Calls the faithful to their knees
To hear the softly spoken magic spells.

Mystik

Lol I'm 24 yea we kissed alot.

BoneCrusher

Did she like push you away, hold you back or what?

Vieope

bio-chem

Twigz

to answer the original question....What did she think?

He's gay!

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(don't let the bastards grind you down)

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Mista

Be honest, by the time you were in bed the beer was wearing off and she was fugly.

Delusional

ive had times where i get a girl in bed, throw in a movie and then start to get to work.
usually get real close to them, put an arm around them, rub their shoulders, back, neck, etc.
obviously if a girl is in bed with you you can at least get some kiss action going no matter what or who it is. i mean theyre in your fuckin bed for fuck sakes so yea.
but ive had moments where i try to take it further than kissing and they actually get kinda pissed, and dont wana do anything more than just kiss. but at least you threw it out there you know.
then there's girls that kinda get nervous or a little shy or whatever and wana back down and just "cuddle" and kiss i suppose, but with a little work you could at least get somethin more going.

so i duno, if you at least did some damn good macking then it counted for something. maybe you left a good impression and she'll wanna come back for more..and i dont just mean more "cuddling" and kissing, i mean she'll wanna DO MORE =D

and uh..did she stay with you in bed all that night? if so what was the next morning like?

min0 lee

Your delusional.

Delusional

quite often yes, indeed i am
=D
i manage to get by tho :]

Mista

How do you know?

Delusional

eh, well..
im still alive

Mista

Are you sure?

Delusional

alive..healthy..yet delusional
youll see some pics of meh here in the next couple days =D

Hoglander

First off everyone that posted before me is gay. This is after all a body building forum. I can hang around all kinds of people even gay people like BoneCrusher and Minopeepee.

However, I'm here to help. Now.... Other things were said by you that you left out. These are just examples, "I'm REALLY buzzed" "I kind of have a girl etc etc etc (i.e. some lame I have reservation crap)" In which case she was being very cool and is likely a keeper.


Or ... : ( she said it out of the blue. This is very very very very very very very very BAD!!!! All I can say is RUN!!!! She is going to fuck with your head and dominate you in the end. You lose your SOUL!!!!

min0 lee

You have to try this slick move.----->

min0 lee

She must gave you signals which you missed. Did you see any like this?

goob

I can't say I'm overly attentive, but sometimes, occasionally I pick up the signs my girl gives off....

Delusional

damn dude your girlfriend is smokin hot.
id have to say this is the only time id ever pay attention to road signs, too..

AKIRA

Jesus, what a bunch of stock answers.

This one night doesnt mean shit. Get another night and see where it goes.

I had a girl sleep over one night with the same shitty shit. "Youre a bad cuddler." Next night she pulled the same thing! Only when I wont up hung over, Ihad her hand rubbing my SURPRISE! hard dick and wha-la, sexy time.

...she was a real psycho though. No..you read that right, I said REAL psycho.

...with the best sex.

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min0 lee

Does she come in braile?

Mystik

well I'm a virgin still ya, I wasn't really looking to do the one night stand I just never believed in them. I mean I prolly could've we were real close and my legs were wrapped in her legs and I was rubbing her back and everything for a long time. She opened her eyes and we kissed, then shed shut them and open them and wed kiss. Romantic yea probably how many woman wouldnt love that?

Little Wing

i think it sounds sweet. before i left nevada i spent a similar night with a guy. he didn't even try sex but he took my sweater off, rubbed my back n held me. it was better than any night of sex would have been cuz i was lonely, homesick n sad. it was nice that he saw how i felt and not just a chance to get laid. if she wants, or needed, more than to bump nasties then you probably made a very good impression

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fistmehard

this is good

min0 lee

Awwww....why didn't you say so. That was cute.

I guess you did the right thing for now. But let me warn you....once you tasted beaver there's no turning back.

goob

Well, she does scream a little louder when i put on my blindfold and feel my way about with the white stick.

Draws the line at the dog though..........much to Rover's displeasure.