Men aged 18 to 30 on Viagra to keep up with Sex And The City generation

min0 lee · 06-15-2008, 11:35 AM

Men aged 18 to 30 are taking Viagra to keep up with Sex And The City generation | Mail Online

It used to be that men had the upper hand when it came to confidence in the bedroom.
But health experts say ever-younger men are increasingly turning to Viagra in a bid to keep up with modern women inspired by the strong female characters in films such as Sex And The City, starring Sarah Jessica Parker.

Relationship therapists are also seeing a rise in the number of men in their 30s asking about the impotence drug, traditionally prescribed to those more than two decades older.

Experts believe the men feel increasingly emasculated by today's women.

They claim that women, following the example of television and film characters, are more vocal about their desires and demand a higher level of stamina and imagination in the bedroom.

The pressure is causing an increasing number of men to experience 'performance anxiety' and, in extreme cases, is leading to diagnoses of erectile dysfunction, requiring specialist treatment. Dr John Tomlinson, a former GP and trustee of the Sexual Dysfunction Association, said he was hearing from an ' enormous' number of 18- to 40-year-olds worried about sexual problems.

He suggested advertising - such as David Beckham's Armani underwear campaign - glamorises the well-toned male body, which men find daunting because they assume it is what women expect.

He said: 'Men may feel emasculated by modern women and feminism has taken its toll. But most of the problems are psychological. I'm sure many of these men are fuelling the counterfeit drugs industry by buying their Viagra online, so the real picture is likely to be bigger than GPs are reporting.'

There are no official figures for the number of young men taking Viagra because it is not routinely recorded by doctors. Many also opt to seek treatment privately. BUPA said it could not provide data on consultations. However, health experts agreed the average age for men seeking the drug is falling.

Dr John Dean, a specialist in sexual medicine, said when Viagra was introduced ten years ago, it would have been unusual to treat men in their 30s. Now, however, it is common, he said.

Peter Baker, of the Men's Health Forum website, said it is 'well-known' among health professionals that younger men are turning to Viagra.

Relationship experts said the prevalence of pornography in society also left men with unrealistic expectations.

Sex therapist Denise Knowles, of counselling service Relate, said: 'Pornography affects how men see themselves and how they think women will see them. Further pressure comes from the myth that men should know what to do in the bedroom and that women are difficult to satisfy.'

Nearly 6.5 million tablets of Viagra - launched by drugs firm Pfizer in 1998 - were issued in England in 2007, costing the NHS £35million. Research in 2004 found that taking the drug recreationally could affect fertility.

AKIRA · 06-15-2008, 12:42 PM

I have been fucking and cumming over 2-3 times a night without shit. Its all in your head!

(I wouldve done more, but she was tired)

goob · 06-15-2008, 01:13 PM

I've heard of folks that have all night parties over the weekend taking all sorts of drugs and booze and then popping viagra at the end of the night to pair off with various girls in their group. Almost like an wife swapping amongst their friends.

Sounds fucking excellent. Why don't I know any of these people.

min0 lee · 06-15-2008, 01:15 PM

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Originally Posted by goob

Sounds fucking excellent. Why don't I know any of these people.

You do....their just not into goat sex.

goob · 06-15-2008, 01:17 PM

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Originally Posted by min0 lee

You do....their just not into goat sex.

Hmm....you might be right. I got swiftly thrown out when I turned up with the goat. Goats need love too.

AKIRA · 06-15-2008, 04:26 PM

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Originally Posted by min0 lee

You do....their just not into goat sex.

I guess thats why Goatse left early.

Crono1000 · 06-15-2008, 08:58 PM

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Originally Posted by AKIRA

(I wouldve done more, but she was tired)

u give your toilet a gender?

Hoglander · 06-15-2008, 09:23 PM

In the olden days she would suck your dick, then you would lick her clit, then you would have lasting intercourse and every one was happy. Later on you would toy with some porn and a vibrator. After that you would urinate on each other and have her put on a strap on while the guy puts on a high heels and stockings. I just don't get younger people these days.

**Prince** · 06-15-2008, 09:32 PM

I use Cialis.

KelJu · 06-16-2008, 12:17 PM

I also use Cialis. I admit that I got sucked into the notion that I had to be a beast in bed to even satisfy woman of my age group. It is a huge bummer, because now I have it in the back of my mind that I will not be able to perform at par level without them, so I now have to carry one around in my wallet at all times just in case.

I hope that once I find a chick that is cool enough to settle down with, it will not be a problem anymore, but I am just enjoying playing the field again.

AKIRA · 06-16-2008, 01:24 PM

Can someone explain to me in blatant terms what women are doing these days that they werent ages ago?

I fucked 2.5 times last night, while she came...I dont know how many times. I dont have treadmarks on my dick from a dried up pussy either, so I couldve kept going had she spent the night.

I hope I dont come off arrogant or even rude. I mean, this girl wont last. Shes moving.

So, Ill be back at square one again for a while, so believe me, I am not picking up girls at bars every night.

However, when I am comfortable, I can fuck a lot and can usually hold off cumming for a while as well. This isnt good enough for the girls today?

I also know that this might fade away as I get older, but....still, should I be doing MORE?

KelJu · 06-16-2008, 02:01 PM

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Originally Posted by AKIRA

Can someone explain to me in blatant terms what women are doing these days that they werent ages ago?

I fucked 2.5 times last night, while she came...I dont know how many times. I dont have treadmarks on my dick from a dried up pussy either, so I couldve kept going had she spent the night.

I hope I dont come off arrogant or even rude. I mean, this girl wont last. Shes moving.

So, Ill be back at square one again for a while, so believe me, I am not picking up girls at bars every night.

However, when I am comfortable, I can fuck a lot and can usually hold off cumming for a while as well. This isnt good enough for the girls today?

I also know that this might fade away as I get older, but....still, should I be doing MORE?

Simply put, freedom. Women are demanding much more. I think a lot of it has to do with sociological dominance or social status . In the past, guys always fucked women. That was the mindset. Now women want to fuck too. Not only that, but there is a constant game of who in this relationship has the power. Both parties are jocking for position for the lead role in the relationship. If a woman is hot, most likely she had a good push up the social status ladder, and hot girls are the ones we are interested in.

As a guy now, you can't show any weakness, or it is a direct turnoff to women in many situations. To go limp is the all time ego killer. Its tough to bounce back from. If it happens even one time, it will be in the back of your mind forever.

So, you go to bed with this chick and now you are worried. I better perform good or I might lose the chance to fuck her again, or worse she tells all of her friends in her social circle that you are a bad lay, then you lose the chance to fuck all of the hot girls in that social circle unless you have other attributes to compensate for it (money, looks, high social status, position of power).

That is a shit ton of pressure, and that was never there before. It is a direct result of freedom to express yourself sexually with anybody and as many people as your choose. If you aren't good enough, she will find someone else. It is better this way, but young men need to be taught the mental tools to deal with our current culture. I didn't have the tools at first. I had to dedicate a good chunk of my life to learning how all of this works, and just like calculus, one day all of a sudden, it all makes sense.

I know many people look down on this type of thinking, but I don't care. Knowing this, and not knowing this was the difference between getting laid and not getting laid.

Witchblade · 06-16-2008, 02:59 PM

I'll take Viagra the day she learns to deep throat.

**Prince** · 06-16-2008, 07:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by KelJu

I also use Cialis. I admit that I got sucked into the notion that I had to be a beast in bed to even satisfy woman of my age group. It is a huge bummer, because now I have it in the back of my mind that I will not be able to perform at par level without them, so I now have to carry one around in my wallet at all times just in case.

yup, same here.

TexanTA1996 · 06-17-2008, 11:20 AM

Women are just as bad in bad as any guy who needs work. Keeping a man hard is 50% of the woman's job, if not more.

AKIRA · 06-17-2008, 11:52 AM

Agreed, but convince them of that.

Either way, if a girl cant get me hard (if I am not already), then shes useless to me.

...which I already am to her. Hah!

**Gazhole** · 06-17-2008, 04:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by AKIRA

Can someone explain to me in blatant terms what women are doing these days that they werent ages ago?

I fucked 2.5 times last night, while she came...I dont know how many times. I dont have treadmarks on my dick from a dried up pussy either, so I couldve kept going had she spent the night.

I hope I dont come off arrogant or even rude. I mean, this girl wont last. Shes moving.

So, Ill be back at square one again for a while, so believe me, I am not picking up girls at bars every night.

However, when I am comfortable, I can fuck a lot and can usually hold off cumming for a while as well. This isnt good enough for the girls today?

I also know that this might fade away as I get older, but....still, should I be doing MORE?

I sometimes think the same thing, like you i have problem both keeping it up for most of the night and holding off the money shot untill shes satisfied (or sore

).

I dunno, i think this is the opposite of what porn has done to us.

I mean, some guys i know expect every girl they meet to deepthroat them, let themselves get facefucked then get slammed from every angle as hard as possible, take the same treatment in the ass, go ass to mouth, mouth to pussy to mouth to ass and back to mouth, then take a facial while they squirt all over the kitchen floor while all their friends watch.

It doesnt happen.

Much like this, i think some women expect the bedroom to be all about them, they expect several hours of preparatory planning including candles, a bath with bubbles, rose petals everywhere, an assortment of toys for their satisfaction, an unquenchable hard on and an equally unquenchable desire to fulfill their every sexual whim, a full range of perpetually varying and exhaustive sexual technique, and cuddling afterwards.

It doesnt happen.

We're both only human! Sometimes its great, sometimes its fantastic, sometimes for some inexplicable reason youll mesh with somebody for that night in the bedroom and the electricity in the air will create a few hours of such incredible fucking you cant stop laughing afterwards because it was so crazy and caught you a little off guard...

Yes, this happens...but mostly its just straight up good sex. You both come, hopefully more than once for her but no biggie. Then you finish watching that movie you started watching and fall asleep.

This isnt a bad thing. I think both men and women should realise this before this whole issue spirals out of control and the human race dies out because everybody is too goddamned terrified to fuck eachother!

**Gazhole** · 06-17-2008, 04:03 PM

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Originally Posted by goob

Sounds fucking excellent. Why don't I know any of these people.

Hey, it's not my fault that you're too much of a fucking prude to go ass to mouth with barnyard animals. Next time i wont bother asking you...

06-15-2008, 11:35 AM	#1
min0 lee Senior Member Elite Member Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: The Bronx, NYC Posts: 38,735 Photos: 542	Men aged 18 to 30 on Viagra to keep up with Sex And The City generation Men aged 18 to 30 are taking Viagra to keep up with Sex And The City generation \| Mail Online It used to be that men had the upper hand when it came to confidence in the bedroom. But health experts say ever-younger men are increasingly turning to Viagra in a bid to keep up with modern women inspired by the strong female characters in films such as Sex And The City, starring Sarah Jessica Parker. Relationship therapists are also seeing a rise in the number of men in their 30s asking about the impotence drug, traditionally prescribed to those more than two decades older. Experts believe the men feel increasingly emasculated by today's women. They claim that women, following the example of television and film characters, are more vocal about their desires and demand a higher level of stamina and imagination in the bedroom. The pressure is causing an increasing number of men to experience 'performance anxiety' and, in extreme cases, is leading to diagnoses of erectile dysfunction, requiring specialist treatment. Dr John Tomlinson, a former GP and trustee of the Sexual Dysfunction Association, said he was hearing from an ' enormous' number of 18- to 40-year-olds worried about sexual problems. He suggested advertising - such as David Beckham's Armani underwear campaign - glamorises the well-toned male body, which men find daunting because they assume it is what women expect. He said: 'Men may feel emasculated by modern women and feminism has taken its toll. But most of the problems are psychological. I'm sure many of these men are fuelling the counterfeit drugs industry by buying their Viagra online, so the real picture is likely to be bigger than GPs are reporting.' There are no official figures for the number of young men taking Viagra because it is not routinely recorded by doctors. Many also opt to seek treatment privately. BUPA said it could not provide data on consultations. However, health experts agreed the average age for men seeking the drug is falling. Dr John Dean, a specialist in sexual medicine, said when Viagra was introduced ten years ago, it would have been unusual to treat men in their 30s. Now, however, it is common, he said. Peter Baker, of the Men's Health Forum website, said it is 'well-known' among health professionals that younger men are turning to Viagra. Relationship experts said the prevalence of pornography in society also left men with unrealistic expectations. Sex therapist Denise Knowles, of counselling service Relate, said: 'Pornography affects how men see themselves and how they think women will see them. Further pressure comes from the myth that men should know what to do in the bedroom and that women are difficult to satisfy.' Nearly 6.5 million tablets of Viagra - launched by drugs firm Pfizer in 1998 - were issued in England in 2007, costing the NHS £35million. Research in 2004 found that taking the drug recreationally could affect fertility. How To Do The Perfect Bench Press Rep Bodybuilding and Lifting Weights, the Difference ironmagazine-frapper

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AKIRA I am Rollo Tomassee.. Elite Member Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Outside the box Posts: 8,747 Photos: 3	Can someone explain to me in blatant terms what women are doing these days that they werent ages ago? I fucked 2.5 times last night, while she came...I dont know how many times. I dont have treadmarks on my dick from a dried up pussy either, so I couldve kept going had she spent the night. I hope I dont come off arrogant or even rude. I mean, this girl wont last. Shes moving. So, Ill be back at square one again for a while, so believe me, I am not picking up girls at bars every night. However, when I am comfortable, I can fuck a lot and can usually hold off cumming for a while as well. This isnt good enough for the girls today? I also know that this might fade away as I get older, but....still, should I be doing MORE? 6' 209lbs (8/16) Bench 365 (12/3) Weighted Pullups 80lbs 3x3 (3/19) Squat 370 Deadlift after herniation 385lbs 3x3 (3/17) NASM certified 2/06 Journal

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goob Smartass anthropologist Elite Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Anywhere, everywhere, nowhere.... Posts: 5,999	I've heard of folks that have all night parties over the weekend taking all sorts of drugs and booze and then popping viagra at the end of the night to pair off with various girls in their group. Almost like an wife swapping amongst their friends. Sounds fucking excellent. Why don't I know any of these people.

06-15-2008, 09:23 PM	#8
Hoglander Cleaner Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Washington Posts: 1,484 Photos: 10	In the olden days she would suck your dick, then you would lick her clit, then you would have lasting intercourse and every one was happy. Later on you would toy with some porn and a vibrator. After that you would urinate on each other and have her put on a strap on while the guy puts on a high heels and stockings. I just don't get younger people these days.

06-16-2008, 12:17 PM	#10
KelJu Thats Dr. Keke to you! Elite Member Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: In my imagination. Posts: 10,125 Photos: 2	I also use Cialis. I admit that I got sucked into the notion that I had to be a beast in bed to even satisfy woman of my age group. It is a huge bummer, because now I have it in the back of my mind that I will not be able to perform at par level without them, so I now have to carry one around in my wallet at all times just in case. I hope that once I find a chick that is cool enough to settle down with, it will not be a problem anymore, but I am just enjoying playing the field again.

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TexanTA1996 Registered User Join Date: May 2008 Location: uptown Posts: 366	Women are just as bad in bad as any guy who needs work. Keeping a man hard is 50% of the woman's job, if not more.

06-17-2008, 11:52 AM	#16
AKIRA I am Rollo Tomassee.. Elite Member Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Outside the box Posts: 8,747 Photos: 3	Agreed, but convince them of that. Either way, if a girl cant get me hard (if I am not already), then shes useless to me. ...which I already am to her. Hah! 6' 209lbs (8/16) Bench 365 (12/3) Weighted Pullups 80lbs 3x3 (3/19) Squat 370 Deadlift after herniation 385lbs 3x3 (3/17) NASM certified 2/06 Journal

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