soxmuscle

I'm no 60 second chump, but if I don't masterbate on my own before having sex, I can't make it past ten minutes in the manner I want to.

Usually around 3 minutes of passionate sex, I'll start to feel as if I could bust a nut at any time..

She'll always say that our best sex is the first 3 minutes of the first session and it makes sense. It's during those three minutes that I'm not thinking about anything but her... However, in my head there's no way I'm going to nut that fast, so for the final 5-7 minutes or so I'm trying to think about anything and everything other than what I'm actually doing in an attempt to delay my ejaculation.

Other than masterbating numerous times, what other ways to help you last longer have you found to work?

Age: 20 | Height: 5'7" | Weight: 150 lbs | Penis: 12 inches

soxmuscle

The last time I had sex which was before she left on Sunday, my mind was racing out of control. The things that popped into my head were:

- Fantasy Football: Was I going to win? Should I start Brandon Jacobs, Marion Barber, or Derrick Ward as my 2nd running back?
- Mark Teixeira: Will he sign? If he signs with the Nationals or Orioles, what does it say about his character?
- C.C. Sabathia: Why would I ever believe that he was "above" the money? I rooted for this guy harder than anybody last year and really took him on his word that he wanted to be sign with a West Coast team to be closer to home and to stay in the National League.

I'm forgetting some others, but you get the jist of whats going through my head when I'm trying to keep the jizz from coming out of my other head...

Age: 20 | Height: 5'7" | Weight: 150 lbs | Penis: 12 inches

IainDaniel

Just blow your load. God.

Obstacles don't have to stop you. If you run into a wall, don't turn around and give up. Figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it.

Michael Jordan

soxmuscle

I always blow my load and then go again. That's not the problem.

Everything's fine with my sex life, but it would be nice to have that passionate fuck session for longer than three minutes without having to revert to C.C. Sabathia's fat ass...

Age: 20 | Height: 5'7" | Weight: 150 lbs | Penis: 12 inches

Triple Threat

You could imagine she's your grandmother.

soxmuscle

Are you trying to help me last longer or assist in my suicide?

Age: 20 | Height: 5'7" | Weight: 150 lbs | Penis: 12 inches

IainDaniel

You should probably move on to another chick.

Obstacles don't have to stop you. If you run into a wall, don't turn around and give up. Figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it.

Michael Jordan

soxmuscle

Eh, I really like this one.

Age: 20 | Height: 5'7" | Weight: 150 lbs | Penis: 12 inches

highpockets

Multiplication tables in your head like you had to learn in about 4th grade, or try long division.

IainDaniel

Just don't tell her..... are you really this new?

Obstacles don't have to stop you. If you run into a wall, don't turn around and give up. Figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it.

Michael Jordan

soxmuscle

I wouldn't be able to live like that.

It would eat me up inside and I'm not just saying that to better my reputation in hopes of knockin' boots with LittleWing one day

Age: 20 | Height: 5'7" | Weight: 150 lbs | Penis: 12 inches

Little Wing

just go down on her first then she won't care if you're done in 3 minutes and you can actually enjoy yourself not wander off to i'm thinking of guys while i'm getting my groove on land.

"MUSCLE IS TRULY GUARANTEED IF YOU WILL HONESTLY work out to BE YOUR VERY BEST -

GO FOR IT!!! BECAUSE YOU CAN!!!!!!

Take Care, John H."

IainDaniel

You may have caught the gay.... go straight to the hospital.

Obstacles don't have to stop you. If you run into a wall, don't turn around and give up. Figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it.

Michael Jordan

Little Wing

I have ways of showing up just at the right time it seems.

Seriously lasting a long time isn't what she's after probably. she likes those first three minutes best because you're with her mentally and enjoying yourself. there's a saying

"A man's desire is for the woman, but the woman's desire is rarely other than for the desire of the man"


she'll be happier if you're not off somewhere in your head playing baseball. football whatever.

"MUSCLE IS TRULY GUARANTEED IF YOU WILL HONESTLY work out to BE YOUR VERY BEST -

GO FOR IT!!! BECAUSE YOU CAN!!!!!!

Take Care, John H."

highpockets

If all else fails have her try this on you:

I'll make your NUTS hurt like HELL, BOY!! -- Ball BustinG Girls Go Crazy on Balls

I know this would keep me from shooting anything for quite awhile.

QuestionGuy

thats what you do isn't it!!! admitt it I know you do, if you admitt it I will tell u mine!!

You've never lived untill you've almost died, life has an excitement that the protected will never know.

MeatheadSam

Yeah the masturbation before sex thing kinda sux. It does work for lasting longer though.

I've had some luck letting my mind wander and holding out longer.

Just a regular guy.

soxmuscle

You're 2 for 2 with me today

Thanks again, you're a doll...

Age: 20 | Height: 5'7" | Weight: 150 lbs | Penis: 12 inches

Little Wing

just think about it it's only common sense. don't you want her to cum when she's relaxed and it will be best for her? or for her to think about weird stuff to try n make it some type of ego performance art? she wants the same from you. genuine passion.

"MUSCLE IS TRULY GUARANTEED IF YOU WILL HONESTLY work out to BE YOUR VERY BEST -

GO FOR IT!!! BECAUSE YOU CAN!!!!!!

Take Care, John H."

soxmuscle

She'll tell me to come when she figures out that I'm at that point. Not that I'm a dead fish or anything, but I'm definitely more focused on other things.

Excellent advice though.

Age: 20 | Height: 5'7" | Weight: 150 lbs | Penis: 12 inches

HialeahChico305

In other words you bust a nut in 3 minutes, and most (if not all girls) hate a quick nutter. Practice makes perfect, use your imagination and stop staring at her best features.

TrojanMan60563

Sox, I would go downtown before you fuck so she is done before you start. In addition I find rather then thinking about other things to avoid orgasm you can do things like switch postiions. That gives your member time to chill out. Stop for 5-10 second and play with her tits....stop and lick a thumb and rub on her clit and slowly stroke it until the beast calms down a bit. You can do things that calm you down but do not make her think you are not focused on her. Shoot stop and eat her pussy some more!

1. change positions
2. stop or slow your roll and play with her

Those are the things that have worked for me time and time again. There is no need to think about fantasy football or fucking grandma. You can be slick and fool them without them knowing, and they will actually like what you do. (assuming you know what you are doing)

bio-chem

man i hope this is true

soxmuscle

All excellent points.

I can't wait until Finals are over so I can go home and try this shit out.

Masterbating just isn't the same when you've gotten poontang consistently for six months straight.

Age: 20 | Height: 5'7" | Weight: 150 lbs | Penis: 12 inches

soxmuscle

My team is loaded in that league.

I need to do some shoring up before tomorrow but you're going down!

Age: 20 | Height: 5'7" | Weight: 150 lbs | Penis: 12 inches

Dodge

Experiment with breathing extra fast or extra slow, whichever works for you

But my usual technique with an actual partner, not one off fuck(whom id get a blowjob from first), would be to fuck until you cum then concentrate on staying hard til she cums, but if you cant, she knows you can last longer, as she's your gf, and so dont be embaressed.
Next fuck will then last longer, like ten mins more than that
After that every fuck should get her cumming like 14 times and then you stopping cos you cant be fucked to continue.

Excuse my shorthand 'tard' writing, im on mobile and its 3am, i cant be fucked with perfect grammar

adambonnell

what works for me if i get heated to quick is pull out and change the position real quick. gives it time to chill the fuck out so you can just keep on going.

maniclion

When you catch yourself losing focus just pull out and go down on her, there's nothing like mouth to clam resuscitation. If you want to stay in the moment longer then look into her eyes and try to see past your own reflection. I like to imagine our aura's are melding together during a heated love storm, sparks are flying off of us with each pounding of my hammer......


see, see what I did there I write poetry in my head while making love but I focus it on what we are both doing....if you just keep her in your head then the connection isn't lost....

"We are like tenant farmers chopping down the fence around our house for fuel when we should be using Natures inexhaustible sources of energy — sun, wind and tide. ... I'd put my money on the sun and solar energy. What a source of power! I hope we don't have to wait until oil and coal run out before we tackle that."
Thomas Edison: In conversation with Henry Ford and Harvey Firestone

Snarff

. . . . Just Beautiful





(NB: No Homo)

MeatZatk

I wish my lawn was emo so it would cut itself