Personal Attacks on Forum Members

[Randy]

Very kind words Vieope..... You're not so bad yourself my Brazilian friend.

[Vieope]

[Jeanie]

Originally Posted by OceanDude

Everyone knows that there are people here at IM who are registered as multiple users and who play both sides of an argument and set people up and start hate threads and play games. I would be in favor of having a mechanism to show all names as aliases anytime somone posts with an IP that is duplicated by a different account in the same day. There is a small chance for false positives but it would flush out a lot of the loosers out there playing both sides for fun and games.

Jeannie, can you cut Randy some slack and kiss and make up? He is a good guy and I like you too and hate to see all this silly fighting...

OD

OD, I appreciate your concern and I have apoligized to him twice and all I get is more insults which include my private life that he knows nothing about. I want an apology from him. Have you seen the things he has said?

[Jeanie]

And yes, I am Fitgurl3. I am just so frustrated with his attacks that I had to get him to understand that. I simply did that since Randy has me on "ignore". I wanted him to take a look at himself. I hate noone and have never had a fight in my life with anyone( except my ex-husband)

Once again, I apologize to Randy for a 3rd time.

[Pepper]

Originally Posted by OceanDude

Actually Pepper, you my friend were conspicuously silent.


OD

Nah, OD. I thought that thread was ridiculous. You know you are one of my peeps in FLA. Everytime I went in that thread, I was looking for evidence to expose the real poster.

[BoneCrusher]

I have. Conflict avoidence = sorry without blameing anyone else. Blame is removed from the sentances leaving only I'm sorry. No one needs to say anything about being sorry ... just be nuetral to each other and get along. OD has said several ignorant things about me ... as have I about him. I could care less. We are nuetral. If I can help him I would. If I need to flame him I will. We are totally opposed in many issues. So what ... no need to put a bunch of dumb ass bullshit out in other people's way to have to trip over as they go through their days. This is a cool place to hang and need not become a battle ground. You seem like good people Jeanie. Don't sweat Randy, he is actually an OK guy if he is not pissed at you for some real or imagened insult. When he gets pissed he gets pretty mean ... blow him off and enjoy the rest of is. We like ya and respect your hard work.

[OceanDude]

Originally Posted by Jeanie

OD, I appreciate your concern and I have apoligized to him twice and all I get is more insults which include my private life that he knows nothing about. I want an apology from him. Have you seen the things he has said?

Psst, Randy I have echoed her response so you can see it. This women is like most every guys at IM's secret fantasy - if you don't apologize for her I will lol .

Randy - even if you feel like you did nothing wrong just say "hey I am sorry for whatever it was". Jeanie is cool and a woman with her abs gets special privileges around here

OD

[Jeanie]

Originally Posted by BoneCrusher

I have. Conflict avoidence = sorry without blameing anyone else. Blame is removed from the sentances leaving only I'm sorry. No one needs to say anything about being sorry ... just be nuetral to each other and get along. OD has said several ignorant things about me ... as have I about him. I could care less. We are nuetral. If I can help him I would. If I need to flame him I will. We are totally opposed in many issues. So what ... no need to put a bunch of dumb ass bullshit out in other people's way to have to trip over as they go through their days. This is a cool place to hang and need not become a battle ground. You seem like good people Jeanie. Don't sweat Randy, he is actually an OK guy if he is not pissed at you for some real or imagened insult. When he gets pissed he gets pretty mean ... blow him off and enjoy the rest of is. We like ya and respect your hard work.

Thanks man! I needed to hear something like that because I work hard and don't like to be called a man when I work so diligantly to become fit. Its like working on something for years and creating a masterpeice then having someone who has no idea say something to degrade my dedication. I know I don't look like a man but it still bothers me to hear it.....especially because no one has ever said it before. It was just wierd. Maybe I should start a thread taking a poll on wether or not I look like a man

[BoneCrusher]

Originally Posted by OceanDude

Psst, Randy I have echoed her response so you can see it. This women is like most every guys at IM's secret fantasy - if you don't apologize for her I will lol .

Randy - even if you feel like you did nothing wrong just say "hey I am sorry for whatever it was". Jeanie is cool and a woman with her abs gets special privileges around here

OD

OD there you go again dude ... we are agreeing here.

[Jeanie]

Originally Posted by BoneCrusher

OD there you go again dude ... we are agreeing here.

thanks guys!

[Johnnny]

Just using this as an example of non sense & BS IMO

Jeanie

I am all for it. People should know the truth about what others think. Sure, everyone may have 1 2 or even 3 peeps on the forum who dont like them but when it is more then that they really need to start taking a long look at themselves....consider it a reality check.

I personally would not ban anyone no matter how much of a jerk they are.

Personally I think that personal attacks are a huge waste of time.

This is the internet & we're all here for one reason & that's to learn from one another & chit chat about this n' that.

IMO all flaming threads & personal attacks should be closed & removed as IMO they are a disgrace to this forum.

I think that we all need to be more mature so that these types of childish threads, insults & attacks end.

For those who say they're jokes, there are better jokes to tell than this type of BS.

[Jeanie]

Originally Posted by Johnnny

Just using this as an example of non sense & BS IMO

Jeanie



I personally would not ban anyone no matter how much of a jerk they are.

Personally I think that personal attacks are a huge waste of time.

This is the internet & we're all here for one reason & that's to learn from one another & chit chat about this n' that.

IMO all flaming threads & personal attacks should be closed & removed as IMO they are a disgrace to this forum.

I think that we all need to be more mature so that these types of childish threads, insults & attacks end.

For those who say they're jokes, there are better jokes to tell than this type of BS.

I agree that some attacks are childish but I still believe what you quoted from me. Seriously, if a bunch of people didn't like me I would take a look at myself and wonder why? It doesn't mean you have to take it to heart but we all need to check ourselves now and again. I have and I take my feedback and put it to good use.

[Johnnny]

Jeanie

I agree that some attacks are childish but I still believe what you quoted from me. Seriously, if a bunch of people didn't like me I would take a look at myself and wonder why? It doesn't mean you have to take it to heart but we all need to check ourselves now and again. I have and I take my feedback and put it to good use.

You would actually waste your time wondering why a bunch of ppl on the internet didn't like you?

I wouldn't waste my time.

Ppl online don't know you for shit. They've never met you in person or spent quality time with you in PERSON. So they can't say they really truly know you online.

The only way that they may have some idea of how a person is, is if they take the time to get to know them a little through PM's & then eventually
e-mail &/or Instant Messaging.

& even then they don't fully know you as they haven't spent time with you in person.

Just MO.

[Randy]

Originally Posted by OceanDude

This women is like most every guy

Ok Ocean since you phrase it this way.... I have no need to apologize that I called her a Man


But BC, I do agree to be neutral.


And Johnnny,
Your words make sense buddy.

[Jeanie]

Originally Posted by Randy

Ok Ocean since you phrase it this way.... I have no need to apologize that I called her a Man


But BC, I do agree to be neutral.


And Johnnny,
Your words make sense buddy.

That is three times that I have apoligized for something that I don't feel I did any more wrong then he. He doesn't want to apologize, as you can see. Randy, you are the only one who feels this way so ........

[Randy]

Jeanie,

You're right and I am sorry, I couldn't resist on that one.
I apologize for any hurtful things I said to you. But so you know, I did say them cause you attacked me first. But when I did make my comment that I thought girls who had muscles like a man were a turn off to me. I did not by any means mean that as an insult to you or your character. It seems clear that the two of us are on opposite plains . I would like to end this sensless verbal circle between us. So I will make every effort on my part not to say anything offensive to you, but in return you must respect me as well. With that said, if you agree then we both have a mutual understanding.

[Jeanie]

Originally Posted by Randy

Jeanie,

You're right and I am sorry, I couldn't resist on that one.
I apologize for any hurtful things I said to you. But so you know, I did say them cause you attacked me first. But when I did make my comment that I thought girls who had muscles like a man were a turn off to me. I did not by any means mean that as an insult to you or your character. It seems clear that the two of us are on opposite plains . I would like to end this sensless verbal circle between us. So I will make every effort on my part not to say anything offensive to you, but in return you must respect me as well. With that said, if you agree then we both have a mutual understanding.

Deal! is this manly?

[Randy]

Ok good then. I deem this agreement official

And no Jeanie, that photo does not look manly

[Jeanie]

Originally Posted by Randy

Ok good then. I deem this agreement official

And no Jeanie, that photo does not look manly

Well, you know that is me and it is what I usually look like.
Good night Randy.

[Vieope]

Originally Posted by Jeanie

And yes, I am Fitgurl3.

Originally Posted by Fitgurl3

I agree with Jeanie.

Of course you do.

[OceanDude]

Yeah! Now we are back to normal round here! Way to go you Jeanie and Randy.



OD

[Flex]

Originally Posted by Randy

I can say that 99.9 percent the culprit is Jeanie or one of her friends.

I hate to beat a dead horse, but HOLD THE FUCK ON. I haven't been around since early yesterday when this thing was still going on. Again, i don't mean to resurrest this, b/c it looks okay now, but i'm the one who was involved when this bullshit all started, so i wanna throw in my .02 as well.

Randy, do you honestly think "jeanie and her friends" sit around a table together and conspire what to argue about with Randy next??? Randy, this is the internet. This part of the internet is called a forum, where people interact with eachother to have fun and learn a thing or two. When you post things like steroids are harmful to your health, ok fine. Maybe they are. BUT, and i stress BUT, when you give RIDICULOUS reasons like "b/c everyone knows they are" with NO other FACT to back up your claim, it is PATHETIC. Whether they ARE harmful or ARE NOT harmful is not an opinion, like you are convinced it is. It comes down to FACT, which you obviously don't have. What kinda utter nonsense is that?

It ALL started b/c I come in and say what a ridiculous statement that is, b/c there is NO proof that steroids are harmful to your health. Sure, steroid ABUSE is most likely harmful to your health, as is ANY kind of abuse. But you STILL refused to show any fact. And seem to be set in your belief that "everyone knows they are".

Then came the insults. You insult me, i insult you, loddy-dah. You get extremely defensive when attacked, yet seemed to be able to dish them out relatively easily. You can PERSONALLY attack Jeanie on "looking like a man" and being a bad mother with no hesitation, tell Shutup she is ugly with no hesitation, and "threaten" to put me and Gr81 on ignore, b/c we are "punks" and what not. BUT, I say something 'bout your mother, no matter how stupid it was, or how NON-PERSONAL it was (it is the iNTERNET, REMEMBER???), and its the end of the world. Like i told Johnny, again, THIS IS THE INTERNET. DON'T TAKE EVERYTHING SERIOUSLY, ESPECIALLY personal attacks. BUT, if you DO decide to dish out insults, EXPECT them in return.

like i've said 500x's before, the reason my WHOLE arguement with you took place was b/c:
1. you had (and STILL have) NO proof they're harmful.
2. you dish out insults, but can't take them.
and on top of that, you kept "threatening" to put us on ignore, only to KEEP responding to what was being said, like a 6 year old kid that threatens to tattle on another kid, which i actually found quite amusing.

that's it. THAT'S the reason why WE argued with you. No, i'm not "friends" with Jeanie. No, I'm not "friends" with Shutup. Sure they SEEM like nice people, and i like them as much as you can like a stranger halfway across teh country sitting behind a computer. But what have we said 100x's now, this is the internet, right? So take everything with a grain of salt. And yes, i consider Gr81 my boy. He only argued though b/c he is also SICK and tired of people making ridiculous statements about steroids when people know NOTHING about them, not merely b/c we get along well.

Again, i apologize if this stirs anything up, but i felt i needed to get my opinion in. Who knows if Randy will even get this, "supposedly" we, our big group of conspiring friends, are on "ignore".

Peace,

FLEX