Hey there Lacey - first up, MAJOR props for the sixty pounds lost - that's PHENOMENAL!!!
What you are discovering is that the journey from "obese" to "normal weight" is different from the journey from "normal weight" to "lean". The rules change, and good for you for agreeing to track your intake. I'll echo everyone here when I say it's a ROYAL pain in the ass at first, but it becomes second-nature within a matter of days.
FitDay - Free Weight Loss and Diet Journal is free. Enter a "typical" looking day and report back on the "macros" - the total calories, and the grams of protein, carb and fat.
Your training is also due for a change. You have trained your body to become efficient with all that cardio. Now you need to train it to be INEFFICIENT - let's get a proper lifting programme going for you.
Can you describe the lifting you currently do? It'll make it easier for us to tell you how you might switch it up.
Your height and weight are well-matched. For now I'd diet in such a way as to neither gain nor lose while you bring up your lifts. You can resume dieting in a few months, okay? A "good" bodyfat depends on whom you ask, but most men are probably fairly happy with their appearance at around 10%, which you would hit at around 165 if you lost no muscle at all - which WON'T happen if you continue to do the amount of cardio you are doing - you need to drop that back, ramp up the weights and tighten up your diet.