OK, the first part is rough.
So I'm lucky. The wife loves porn and of course so do I. She has her ideas and so do I. She does stuff alone and I of course do as well. When we get together I mix internet porn videos through my understanding of the technology. What happens is that I mix her likes with my likes. I try not to go overboard with mine but I can/have spoiled the flow with my likes.
I consider myself a problem solver and I love her. So what I came up with was a compilation of her likes and mine started by a deeply romantic vid. The success has been lasting.
She said, "So what do you have this time?" I said, "I have how much I love you and the song I want us to have."
So problem solved. I won't play any compilations but here is the beginning..
For my/the ladies..
BTW, At the end of this vid(in the group) I placed our names. Also, tears and hugs at 1:20 sealed he deal.