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    Unhappy what to do when you're too big?

    in no way am i trying to brag or sound macho, but my wife and i have a serious problem. we both love sex, but my large penis is ruining our sex life. every time after we have sex her vagina becomes raw and irritated and causes her much discomfort. we've trying using extra lubrication but it never remains moist. just wanted to know if anybody has ever experienced anything like this before or could offer any suggestions. she's offered to continue having sex but there is no way i could ever hurt her like that. please help us both!!!

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    Re: what to do when you're too big?

    Originally posted by rebel
    but it never remains moist.
    Curious...if a "marital aid" (dildo) were used, does the same thing happen? Because from what you wrote, it doesn't seem like a size issue, but more like a lube/chafing issue. Have you tried other lubes, or even using condoms? Latex is smoother than the skin, and most likely would slide better.

    Also, I've read and see specials on women who just can't have sex without irritation. It was quite a long time ago, and I cannot recall the name it was given, but I do recall it being similar to your situation. Sever discomfort during/after sex.

    How about the doctor? Gyno? He/she should be able to offer much better opinions than me.

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    I would try different types of lubrication. Did you try KY?

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    I agree, this sounds more like a lubrication issue.

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    Well, there is such a thing as too big, (can't belive I said that).........I hear from women about that "Mambo Ear of Corn"...the one the looks good, but just doesn't fit. I have a friend in San Diego, a fitness competitor....she dreds sex with her husband.........what she calls "Two beer cans end to end" Her solution is to relax with some alcohol and ibuprofen.


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    Cheer up mate. Would have been worse if it had been too small, ye? Lubrication is important especially if the woman is the dry type

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    I had the same problem with my ex, and he was not too big and lubrication was not a problem. I have cum to the conclusion that one can actually develop an allergic reaction to their mates semen (secretions, whatever). One friend of mine a few years ago had the same problem with her man. She's now been with another man for a few years and no problem. I've also had no problem with anyone else (when I actually do get sex), no matter how big they may be.

    Must be some kind of irritation that develops. Could be wrong, but that was my experience.

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    Get a knife and lop a few inches off.

    That ought to sort it.

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    you find a new mate.

    see, there are males that have small, average and large units, and there are also females that have small, average and large units.

    if you put a large unit with a small unit in either case (male or female) you are going to have problems.

    this sounds like a case of a large unit with a small unit, if it was a average unit with a large unit it would probably be okay.

    make sense?

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    I'll have to go with trying different lubrication and see how that works

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    Originally posted by CLPgold
    I have cum to the conclusion that one can actually develop an allergic reaction to their mates semen (secretions, whatever).

    Must be some kind of irritation that develops. Could be wrong, but that was my experience.
    Maybe this is why I am always irritated when I wake up and they are still there in the morning.

    I guess it isn't just me after all.

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    Is there any cream to make them go away?

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    Re: what to do when you're too big?

    Originally posted by rebel we both love sex, but my large penis is ruining our sex life.
    I do not have this problem. No, definitley not.

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