Well...I don't know about looking desperate...but as a girl (lol)...if I gave someone my number and he didn't call w/in like 4 days I'd think he wasn't interested and wasn't gonna call, and um...maybe think he's a jerk.....but um....I've never given anyone my number so I really wouldn't put too much w8 on what I'm saying
Thank you everyone I have not been in the dating seen it about 8yrs so it's all new to me again. So i appreciate all your input on this question evry little bit helps and I always come to this board when i need a little help or pep talk.
Originally posted by urso8up
I am getting ready to call her thank you all and i will let you know how it goes. I am getting butterflies in my tummy is taht good or bad
It's good, but don't screw up....she may be as nervous as you are.....telling her you are a tiny bit nervous because you like her and it is your first telephone "may" be a good thing......and it will break the ice!
Well i called her she was not home so i left her a message and i figured that was it i would never here from her because she was screening her calls, but then my phone rings an 1/2 hour after i left the message. We talked for and she sad she was glad i called her. I told her i was nervous and wasn't sure if i should have called then we got into the when is it the right time to call is it to soon we laughed and she thought it was pretty funny how i go nervious. I found out taht we work out at the same gym and we go about the same times but we have yet to see eachother or meet eachother until NYE at a friends party. I called and now we talked and hopefully we will go out soon. It seems we like the same things she likes cars and crap like that. She has a 5 year old boy. Oh well that's about all for now I will update you all if i herar anything else. But I guess this is a good start for the New Year.
Depending on the how the conversation went... BTW, did you ask for the number or did she just give it to you?
- If she gave it to you wt/ asking.... call THAT NIGHT!!!!
- If you asked for it, I would wait one day only.... Most likely you'll get an answering maching or VM and leaving a message is good bc/ it allow her to hear your voice again... hopefully it's a GOOD thing for her!