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    "updated" Question for anyone who wants to answer "updated"

    When a guy meets a girl and she gives him her phone number is there such a things as calling to early. How long should you wait to giver her a call? You know so you don't look to desperate.
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    Well...I don't know about looking desperate...but as a girl (lol)...if I gave someone my number and he didn't call w/in like 4 days I'd think he wasn't interested and wasn't gonna call, and um...maybe think he's a jerk.....but um....I've never given anyone my number so I really wouldn't put too much w8 on what I'm saying

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    Ummmmm...
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    If it is a girl that I really liked, I would call her that same night man. Some other guy may take the lead if you think about it too much and u don’t want that to happen right

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    Thank you everyone I have not been in the dating seen it about 8yrs so it's all new to me again. So i appreciate all your input on this question evry little bit helps and I always come to this board when i need a little help or pep talk.

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    Next day...same day is too anxious.....two days can be too long!

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    Originally posted by Dr. Pain
    Next day...same day is too anxious.....two days can be too long!

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    I am getting ready to call her thank you all and i will let you know how it goes. I am getting butterflies in my tummy is taht good or bad

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    It's good and good luck! Nice to see that guys get nervous too
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    Originally posted by urso8up
    I am getting ready to call her thank you all and i will let you know how it goes. I am getting butterflies in my tummy is taht good or bad
    It's good, but don't screw up....she may be as nervous as you are.....telling her you are a tiny bit nervous because you like her and it is your first telephone "may" be a good thing......and it will break the ice!

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    We expect a transcript BTW

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    I think it depends on the girl and the situation.

    If you meet a girl and really hit it off and talk, etc., I think it's okay to call the next day.





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    Don't wait more then 2 days to call her..........
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    Well i called her she was not home so i left her a message and i figured that was it i would never here from her because she was screening her calls, but then my phone rings an 1/2 hour after i left the message. We talked for and she sad she was glad i called her. I told her i was nervous and wasn't sure if i should have called then we got into the when is it the right time to call is it to soon we laughed and she thought it was pretty funny how i go nervious. I found out taht we work out at the same gym and we go about the same times but we have yet to see eachother or meet eachother until NYE at a friends party. I called and now we talked and hopefully we will go out soon. It seems we like the same things she likes cars and crap like that. She has a 5 year old boy. Oh well that's about all for now I will update you all if i herar anything else. But I guess this is a good start for the New Year.

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    Well good for you. I hope everything works out fine. Good luck!
    Be patient, as she may have to give up some of 'your' time together because her boy will be number one.
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    Depending on the how the conversation went... BTW, did you ask for the number or did she just give it to you?

    - If she gave it to you wt/ asking.... call THAT NIGHT!!!!
    - If you asked for it, I would wait one day only.... Most likely you'll get an answering maching or VM and leaving a message is good bc/ it allow her to hear your voice again... hopefully it's a GOOD thing for her!

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