This is Spark's wife. We are reading these and I wanted to answer honestly. I have dated other men, spark is included in this statement. He wanted my honest answer so her it is.
It has never affected a man's "fella". Never caused one to shrink that i know of. Some times i think it swells up as other parts do. Or maybe thats just me. Sex drive is alway good. Now the m&m comment or raisins as some chicks call them. Yes, that is true. I have seen some in rather bad shape.
Just a lady's opinion. You guys are "nuts" by the way.