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Approaching guys Pt.2???

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Ok, so lately my topics have been about sex and dating . . . men. So here is another one. Lately i have noticed that I have been doing the approaching, does that make me a "man-eater" or something? I guess I can't wait around for these guys to ask me out can I?? If I see a cute guy then I will find a way to approach him and BAM . . I have a date!
 
Just be careful that you are not putting out the wrong message. Most guys will assume that if a girl comes on to them that they can get in a quick one-nighter and move on with their lives.
 
No I'm not saying that. Just don't act (for loss of a better word) slutty.
Make sure that they know your intentions are to go out for a date and that's all they'll get for the night. ;)
 
ask them to lunch or something non evening first, coffee at a bookstore maybe.
 
Excellent idea. :thumb:
When I worked at a bar and women approached me to do anything in the evening I would always assume that I would be having sex with them later. And I was usually right. Asking them to do something during the day time would greatly reduce that notion.
 
irontime said:
No I'm not saying that. Just don't act (for loss of a better word) slutty.
Make sure that they know your intentions are to go out for a date and that's all they'll get for the night. ;)
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Unless, of course, your intentions are to get laid, then you're sure to succeed. ;)
 
irontime said:
Most guys will assume that if a girl comes on to them that they can get in a quick one-nighter and move on with their lives.
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Um... maybe this is my misinterpretation but Anna said she finds a way to 'approach' guys, this doesn't mean she is coming onto them in a provocative manner and acting slutty and I don't think 'most' guys would assume that she was after a one nighter just from that.
To me 'approaching' can be anything, even just opening up the lines of communication... hell, thinking back I think I've initiated just about all of my relationships but then I'm an impatient fucker! :laugh:
 
Witmaster said:
Unless, of course, your intentions are to get laid, then you're sure to succeed. ;)
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HAHA! Exactly!!! :D
 
Well ya, if that's the case then you can usually just motion for a guy to come over and grab his nuts. You'll succeed every time :thumb: Unless he's taken.
 
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BritChick said:
Um... maybe this is my misinterpretation but Anna said she finds a way to 'approach' guys, this doesn't mean she is coming onto them in a provocative manner and acting slutty and I don't think 'most' guys would assume that she was after a one nighter just from that.
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:shrug: Just speaking from experience. But then again most of my experiences came from working in a bar and that's what the women were after :p
 
It's not slutty for a girl to be a playa, unless you're letting several guys run trains on you. Women have just as much right to be manizers as men have to be womanizers. I've been a womans boy toy before, she only called me when she wanted to fuck and that was it. She was a professional and just didn't want to make time in her life for a full on relationship, I respected her for that cause I know guys who do the same.
 
thanks for all your answers!

I guess guys do think about sex ALL the time, because I am not looking for sex, just a date .. I want to get to know someone first, plus its always good to have friends
 
AnnaDTX said:
thanks for all your answers!

I guess guys do think about sex ALL the time, because I am not looking for sex, just a date .. I want to get to know someone first, plus its always good to have friends
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Yes, guys think about sex all the time, and any guy that says he doesn't, don't trust him.
 
SPIKE1257 said:
Yes, guys think about sex all the time, and any guy that says he doesn't, don't trust him.
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And don't shake his hand because he probably just got done stroking one out.:laugh:
 
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