IronMagLabs Osta Rx

          Follow Us on Facebook        Subscribe to us on YouTube        Follow Us on Twitter        IronMagLabs on Instagram        Sign Up for our Newsletter


my pseudo-girlfriend is a meth head.

Page 1 of 2 12 LastLast
Results 1 to 30 of 34
  1. #1
    Registered User


    Join Date
    May 2005
    Location
    Frieburg
    Posts
    437
    Rep Points
    10

    my pseudo-girlfriend is a meth head.






    i just found out today
    (on the golf course no less) that my psuedo girlfriend does meth. i thought she was bluffing untill i watched her pull it out of her pocket. i was disguested. i felt sick. and i went home as soon as the hole next to the parking lot came up.

    i dont know what to do. for now i am just not talking to her anymore, but i dont have any idea what to do. anyone got any advice, or has anyone encountered a similair situation? thanks for all your help.

  2. #2
    Registered User


    Join Date
    May 2005
    Posts
    12,542
    Rep Points
    15370977

    Don't ever talk to that loser again...
    I highly recommend all IronMagLabs supplements!
    www.ironmaglabs.com

  3. #3
    Monochromatic Bunny
    Vieope's Avatar


    Join Date
    Oct 2003
    Location
    drinking coffee..
    Posts
    15,084
    Rep Points
    17103987

    Quote Originally Posted by ForemanRules
    Don't ever talk to that loser again...
    Said the guy on PCP.

  4. #4
    Monochromatic Bunny
    Vieope's Avatar


    Join Date
    Oct 2003
    Location
    drinking coffee..
    Posts
    15,084
    Rep Points
    17103987

    So because she does meth, you don´t talk to her anymore?

  5. #5
    Registered User
    nikegurl's Avatar


    Join Date
    Mar 2002
    Gender
    Female
    Location
    LA, CA
    Posts
    5,653
    Rep Points
    6361997

    chances are very good that it will only get worse. you don't want to look back on the day on the golf course and think how you WISH you'd gotten out then.
    "If you want others to be happy, practice compassion.
    If you want to be happy, practice compassion." -- 14th Dalai Lama

  6. #6
    Voodoo Doll
    ELITE MEMBER
    Little Wing's Avatar


    Join Date
    Mar 2004
    Gender
    Female
    Location
    Bangor, Maine
    Posts
    36,717
    Rep Points
    2111034614

    don't date a druggie. period. no exceptions. and recently clean is risky.

    you don't get what you wish for ~ you get what you work for

    ...






  7. #7
    Registered User


    Join Date
    May 2005
    Posts
    12,542
    Rep Points
    15370977

    Quote Originally Posted by Vieope
    So because she does meth, you don´t talk to her anymore?
    Yes!
    I highly recommend all IronMagLabs supplements!
    www.ironmaglabs.com

  8. #8
    Registered User
    god hand's Avatar


    Join Date
    Apr 2005
    Location
    Dallas
    Posts
    4,217
    Rep Points
    2683753

    Quote Originally Posted by ABLQ2
    i just found out today
    (on the golf course no less) that my psuedo girlfriend does meth. i thought she was bluffing untill i watched her pull it out of her pocket. i was disguested. i felt sick. and i went home as soon as the hole next to the parking lot came up.

    i dont know what to do. for now i am just not talking to her anymore, but i dont have any idea what to do. anyone got any advice, or has anyone encountered a similair situation? thanks for all your help.
    What are u waiting for! Tha skies the limit! Buff Buff my friend!
    Quote Originally Posted by ForemanRules;


    Men respect people who deserve respect, simple as that.

  9. #9
    Is Doin It 4 Da Shorteez
    LAM's Avatar


    Join Date
    May 2002
    Gender
    Male
    Location
    Las Vegas & Florida & St. Croix
    Posts
    16,312
    Rep Points
    923581149

    Quote Originally Posted by ABLQ2
    imy psuedo girlfriend does meth
    that is the quickest way to a very shitty life. crystal meth is 10x worst then both cocaine and crack
    William F. Buckley describes a conservative as, "someone who stands athwart history, yelling Stop." - and then proceeds to drag civilization back to times best left in history's dungheap.

  10. #10
    Bohemian Extraordinaire
    ELITE MEMBER
    maniclion's Avatar


    Join Date
    Aug 2003
    Gender
    Male
    Location
    Mēns Incognita
    Posts
    26,846
    Rep Points
    800780946

    I had a girlfriend who got into that terrible habit, at first it was cool because she wanted sex alot and she worked 2 jobs with all the energy she had so she bought me things and gave me extra spending cash. Then a few month's later I tried to get her to take a break from it to come down and stop the fry out but she was already gone so I slowly weened myself from her,(hard because of the money/sex she was pouring onto me). A while later I saw her in my apartment building and she had aged 5+ years in less than a years time. She had been so hot, Korean girl looking almost like the girl in Mino's avatar with perfect implants, tiny waist, her eyes were so exotic, but now she's probably haggard looking at the rate she was going.
    Coarse edged youth, the irish pendants string from their smiles
    not yet plucked as to slacken the seams
    and drag down the features of age,
    no folds or creases from unkempt wear
    eyes of tranquilty, crystalline-beads
    no sign of despair in their hair, nor their hearts
    but oh they have yet to be experienced and that makes aging so very worth it...ML circa2012

  11. #11
    Esprit de Corps
    ELITE MEMBER
    Witmaster's Avatar


    Join Date
    May 2004
    Location
    Oklahoma
    Posts
    5,072
    Rep Points
    18685917

    What the hell is a pseudo-girlfriend?
    NEVER write a check with your mouth that you can't cash with your ASS!!

    I can run faster mad than you can scared

    "All right brain... I don't like you and you don't like me. So let's just do this and I'll get back to killing you with beer" ~ Homer Simpson

  12. #12
    Registered User
    musclepump's Avatar


    Join Date
    Nov 2004
    Gender
    Male
    Location
    America! Fuck yeah!
    Posts
    6,671
    Rep Points
    7076325

    Run away dude.
    Let's all join together and SPEAK ENGLISH IN AMERICA.


  13. #13
    Registered User


    Join Date
    May 2005
    Location
    Frieburg
    Posts
    437
    Rep Points
    10

    Quote Originally Posted by Witmaster
    What the hell is a pseudo-girlfriend?

    more like close friend with benifits. did i make that word up? maybe. oh well.

  14. #14
    Senior Member
    ELITE MEMBER
    cappo5150's Avatar


    Join Date
    Sep 2003
    Location
    Venice, CA
    Posts
    2,410
    Rep Points
    48905730

    Give her a donkey punch next time she hits the pipe.

  15. #15
    You Lack Intensity!!!!
    ELITE MEMBER
    gr81's Avatar


    Join Date
    Mar 2003
    Location
    Just below our civil disguise
    Posts
    6,378
    Rep Points
    10428088

    [QUOTE]that is the quickest way to a very shitty life. crystal meth is 10x worst then both cocaine and crack


    maybe try and help her. I agree, this is the dirtiest drug out there, its straight disgusting. It snowballs very quickly also. Try and let her know your feelings, and tell her she needs to get herself into treatment, see what she says about that. you defn don't want to form a relationship with this person thou, its the drug of violence and aggression. she needs help

  16. #16
    Magical Apelikemenace
    ELITE MEMBER
    The Monkey Man's Avatar


    Join Date
    Mar 2005
    Location
    New Delhi, India
    Posts
    14,421
    Rep Points
    14936998

    Help her by forcing her into a rehab program...

    But first, dump her!

    Have Problems?... Chances are its due to overpopulation
    Save The Oceans, Save the Planet, Save Your Family, Save Yourself!



  17. #17
    Windy City
    ELITE MEMBER
    Big Smoothy's Avatar


    Join Date
    Jan 2004
    Location
    South America
    Posts
    5,536
    Rep Points
    224541817

    Where I am from, Meth is a major problem. 3rd worst in users in the country (so the studies say).

    Very addictive, and people go down the drain quick.

    I am not talking about a teen or a person in the early 20s who goes on a wild spree for a while.

    I am talking about people who are in their 40s and lose everything. Lost their house to foreclosure because they couldn't pay the mortgage. Lost good jobs. Can't work. They don't eat. They don't sleep. They are zombies. Walking dead.

    I would try to find out (if you can) how often she does it.

    In my experience most folks are not "casual" meth users that just use occasionally. It's too addicitve.

    Keep us posted on what you do.
    It's an accurate statement that our current spending will not be increasing the debt We've stopped spending money that we don't have.

    -- Jack Lew, then director of the Office of Management and Budget, in Feb. 16, 2011 testimony before the Senate Budget Committee.

  18. #18
    Registered User


    Join Date
    May 2005
    Location
    Frieburg
    Posts
    437
    Rep Points
    10

    i talked to her about it last night and i guess she said she does it like once or twice a week and i think im gonna try to get her to quit doing it, rather than letting her go to waste.
    any suggestions on how to get someone to quit doing something they dont think is wrong?

  19. #19
    Senior Member
    ELITE MEMBER


    Join Date
    Apr 2005
    Location
    ...
    Posts
    1,865
    Rep Points
    1054879

    Errr, sorry to sound like the true innocent, by meth do you mean : methylated spirit? Coloured purple in the UK to stop people drinking it instead of booze?

  20. #20
    Esprit de Corps
    ELITE MEMBER
    Witmaster's Avatar


    Join Date
    May 2004
    Location
    Oklahoma
    Posts
    5,072
    Rep Points
    18685917

    Sure. Show her the inevitable result of her habit.

    If that doesn't work, have her ass arrested for posession.

    Now, here's a little test for you. Tell her she has a choice to make. You or the Meth. She can't have both. Her response should give you a good idea how important this chemical is to her.
    Attached Images Attached Images
    NEVER write a check with your mouth that you can't cash with your ASS!!

    I can run faster mad than you can scared

    "All right brain... I don't like you and you don't like me. So let's just do this and I'll get back to killing you with beer" ~ Homer Simpson

  21. #21
    The Original Jackass
    irontime's Avatar


    Join Date
    Jan 2002
    Location
    If not here, then on some porn site.
    Posts
    5,292
    Rep Points
    9884476

    Quote Originally Posted by ABLQ2
    i talked to her about it last night and i guess she said she does it like once or twice a week and i think im gonna try to get her to quit doing it, rather than letting her go to waste.
    any suggestions on how to get someone to quit doing something they dont think is wrong?
    Hate to say it, but you can't help her. I've seen it a lot at the bar I worked at. At first it's just a little party thing, and they do it once a week or so. No big deal, then there's a party in the middle of the week so it becomes twice, then what the hell, make it three. These people get on it so gradually that the only way they will want to stop is when they hit rock-bottom. Don't let her drag you down with her. Stay friends with her if you want to and try to help, but get the hell out of the relationship.
    If god were suddenly condemned to live the life which he has inflicted on man, he would kill himself.
    - Alexander Dumas (1802 - 1870)

  22. #22
    Registered User
    god hand's Avatar


    Join Date
    Apr 2005
    Location
    Dallas
    Posts
    4,217
    Rep Points
    2683753

    [QUOTE=gr81]
    that is the quickest way to a very shitty life. crystal meth is 10x worst then both cocaine and crack
    Damn! Worst than crack! I need to try this shit!
    Quote Originally Posted by ForemanRules;


    Men respect people who deserve respect, simple as that.

  23. #23
    The Original Jackass
    irontime's Avatar


    Join Date
    Jan 2002
    Location
    If not here, then on some porn site.
    Posts
    5,292
    Rep Points
    9884476

    Quote Originally Posted by god hand
    Damn! Worst than crack! I need to try this shit!
    You're stupid enough
    If god were suddenly condemned to live the life which he has inflicted on man, he would kill himself.
    - Alexander Dumas (1802 - 1870)

  24. #24
    Registered User


    Join Date
    May 2005
    Location
    Frieburg
    Posts
    437
    Rep Points
    10

    Quote Originally Posted by Witmaster
    Sure. Show her the inevitable result of her habit.

    If that doesn't work, have her ass arrested for posession.

    Now, here's a little test for you. Tell her she has a choice to make. You or the Meth. She can't have both. Her response should give you a good idea how important this chemical is to her.

    she said she would stop if i wanted her to, i was like ya i want you to, but i want you to quit because you want to quit. and besides that, she would probably just say she had quit and never bring it up again. so ya if it gets bad, ill get her nailed for possesion i guess. as mean as that is, it is a good jump start. but ill see if i can get her to quit at her own free will first, becuase she claims she isnt addicted to it.

  25. #25
    Registered User


    Join Date
    May 2005
    Location
    Frieburg
    Posts
    437
    Rep Points
    10

    Quote Originally Posted by Nick+
    Errr, sorry to sound like the true innocent, by meth do you mean : methylated spirit? Coloured purple in the UK to stop people drinking it instead of booze?

    and meth is methamphetamine. also known as speed. they snort it or smoke it and its kinda like crack or cocaine, i guess. if you have ever seen trainspotting, its what spud does right before his interview. i think thats a britt film..

  26. #26
    Senior Member
    ELITE MEMBER


    Join Date
    Apr 2005
    Location
    ...
    Posts
    1,865
    Rep Points
    1054879

    I've never seen 'trainspotting' There are huge gaps in my education......

  27. #27
    Registered User
    nikegurl's Avatar


    Join Date
    Mar 2002
    Gender
    Female
    Location
    LA, CA
    Posts
    5,653
    Rep Points
    6361997

    she's going to say all or most of the things addicts say to the people in their lives who want them to stop. some will even sound convincing - especially if you haven't heard the "lines" before and you'll WANT to believe her. i doubt you can help her. it never seems to work out that way.
    "If you want others to be happy, practice compassion.
    If you want to be happy, practice compassion." -- 14th Dalai Lama

  28. #28
    Senior Member
    ELITE MEMBER


    Join Date
    Mar 2004
    Location
    o
    Posts
    5,449
    Rep Points
    3250659

    As my husband says the difference between an alcoholic and a drug addict is that an alcoholic will steal shit from you to get the means to get his fix, a drug addict will steal shit from you and then help you look for it! (For the record he's been both and hit rock bottom... he knows what he's talking about and he's been clean and sober 13 years this July.)
    Drug addicts are wicked liars, they can be pretty convincing even to the shrewdest and most sceptical of people.
    If you stay with her you're saying it's okay for her to do drugs, even if you tell her you 'want' her to stop. IMO you tell her you 'won't' be with a someone using - period.
    You can still offer her help and support to get clean if you want but not whilst in a relationship with her... just my opinion.

  29. #29
    Registered User


    Join Date
    Apr 2004
    Location
    Houston
    Posts
    503
    Rep Points
    2232941

    i have seen what this stuff does up close. There is nothing casual about it, if she only does it 1-2 times a week, thats enough. Its only going to get worse. You don't want to get mixed up with her, chances are she and her dealer are being watched. Be careful.

  30. #30
    Esprit de Corps
    ELITE MEMBER
    Witmaster's Avatar


    Join Date
    May 2004
    Location
    Oklahoma
    Posts
    5,072
    Rep Points
    18685917






    Quote Originally Posted by Nick+
    I've never seen 'trainspotting' There are huge gaps in my education......
    A very disturbing film to say the least. The movie is focused around Heroin addicts but it does broach into the realm of other narcotics as well.

    It's a real eye opener. Ewan McGregor (the young Obi Wan) plays an amazing role as the lead. I'm not saying it's a "good movie" but it's definately educational as far as gleaning an understanding of how consuming a drug addiction really is.
    NEVER write a check with your mouth that you can't cash with your ASS!!

    I can run faster mad than you can scared

    "All right brain... I don't like you and you don't like me. So let's just do this and I'll get back to killing you with beer" ~ Homer Simpson

Page 1 of 2 12 LastLast

Similar Threads

  1. Replies: 787
    Last Post: 11-11-2011, 10:44 AM
  2. Replies: 8
    Last Post: 04-30-2009, 11:58 AM
  3. Pseudo Specificity
    By DOMS in forum Training
    Replies: 11
    Last Post: 05-08-2006, 05:56 PM
  4. Replies: 3
    Last Post: 07-30-2005, 04:55 PM

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
DISABLED END -->