I've been conditioned to never hold a bias in social situations. In some cases I find myself wanting to throw that lesson out the window. I've lived in multiple cities and now find myself in my current location. It is probably the only city I've lived in with more grief than none. Well, what I'm wondering is, has anyone been stuck in a situation where you couldn't control situations that got completely out of the realm of normalcy. This mainly accounting for you being alienated from a city that doesn't seem to show any promise in contributing to the good of your own future.