But that's exactly where I'm disagreeing with you, Gaz. I absolutely, positively, without doubt can activate the clavicular head, and only the clavicular head, with the exercise I mentioned above. Maybe it's just me and the way I'm built.
Here's a youtube video showing separate activation of each head:
If you look at the bottom picture on this page:
Cable Flyes - Pecs Workout
It shows an incline cable flye, which is close to the exercise I do. My pulleys are a bit higher, and instead of my body being between the pulleys, I'm a step or two back so it's my hands between them.
If you stand near the edge of a wall, extend your arm so your hand is about forehead height and push sideways (cross body) slightly upwards, you'll feel the top half of your pec stiffen up, while the bottom remains loose and unactivated. Keep pressing sideways but now push down a little, and you'll feel the lower part of your pec go taut. If you feel anterior deltoid involvement, your arm is a bit too high, lower it a bit and try again.
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