Considering i've not e-friended myself either I think we're good. If you need me to stop and help you change your tire on the side of the road I'm happy to help, but i'm going to stick with my original thought of being undecided on accepting your e-friend invite. for now it will remain in limbo. I'm pretty sure God is ok with this
If you make a conscious effort to defend a doctrine of which the fundamental princibles you choose to ignore or disobey, then (according to christian beliefs) you are securing your place in Hell for an eternity of suffering.
Deep down, do you doubt the doctrine or are you just a hardcore pyromaniac?
If I'm missing a piece of the puzzle here by all means feel free to correct me. I'm genuinely curious.