Sorry, man, but this is for the best, given all that you have written. She has really shown where you and the ex stand based on her actions, and there is no way you could tolerate that.i thought we came to understanding but i guess not..she refuses to stop having a friendship with her ex and said if she wanted to go to lunch with him it shouldnt be a problem...i told her i have to stand by what i believe..so to make a long story short we have decided to end our relationship and go seperate ways.
If he is cool guy then ask her why did she break up with him. I don't think it is about jealous.if you say that you are ok with this then i call bullshit !! NO MAN is ok with his woman hanging out or chit chatin with an ex..you only tell her that your ok with it so that you dont get into an arguement or look like an insecure douche. We all have jealous feeling its a natural thing..some have it less then others and some hide it and control it better but bottom line we all get jealous. its always women that say "you should meet him hes really cool and i think it would be cool if we could all hang out some time " ummmmmmmmm.... NO !! NO GUY wants to hang out with a dude that he doesnt really know OR really care to know or hang out with let alone hang out with a dude that was banging your woman at some time...i dont care if it was 10-20 years ago. So ladies stop thinking its cool that your man doesnt mind and stop thinking its cool that you all should hang out...because in all actuality.. FUCK NO WE DONT WANT TO WE JUST DONT WANNA COME OUT AND TELL YOU THAT WE REALLY DONT LIKE IT !!
Sorry, man, but this is for the best, given all that you have written. She has really shown where you and the ex stand based on her actions, and there is no way you could tolerate that.
If he is cool guy then ask her why did she break up with him. I don't think it is about jealous.
Fuck that bitch its obvious her priorties are fucked,good call all women lie.......I caught my girl liying to me about a friend who said she never hooked up with...she fell asleep and I textd him saying remember alont time ago when we slept together he said yea.So I called him up and threatned his life and put her on blast bitch broke down crying and said she will never lie to me again.If that punk calls text or even fb her I will drive to his house and leave him sleeping in his driveway
Ask her if she's okay with you hanging out with a chick that you were involved with and used to bang. If she says yes, then she's bullshitting just so that you'll give her a pass to do it. Bottom line, if she really wants to have a secure relationship, with full trust, she won't do it. It's one thing if she runs into the dude randomly and chats for a few min. But, if they're going out for drinks and chatting on the phone regularly, it's time to ditch the whore.
WTF wants to be buds with a dude that was fucking your woman at one time. A guy with no balls, that's who!
he broke up with her.. and she still considers him a good friend and heres the kicker that i just found out..she was pregnant by someone else at the time didnt know who the babys father was so she bailed out but didnt want to go to her parents probably because she felt like a whore not knowing who the dad was at the moment..so she went to him knowing that he has always had a thing for her and knowing that he will help her.. she said that they both wanted to try to have a relationship even though she was pregnant by someone else..long story short he broke up with her in 3 months and then she finally went to her parents for help because he sent her packing. but she said the feeling was mutaual even tho hes the one that broke up with her. im disgusted that she let someone else have sex with her while she was pregnant by someone else.. goes to show you her character and his.
hang with my ex GF all the time. not really into her sexually anymore, still care about her.
single, no attached GF currently. My ex is hot as fuck, so yes, I would like to pound her from behind again. However I respect her current guy enough to avoid doing so. A mature gentleman can curb his sex drive long enough to hang out with their ex for lunch or dinner without trying to fuck. I guarantee I could get her to do whatever I wanted, but I know she would feel guilty about it after the fact and I care about her enough that I would not put that on her. I occasionally fantasize about her and that is that.
A good woman is to be trusted. The old saying goes "you can't turn a hoe into a housewife" If your girl wants some other guys cock she will get it whether it's her ex, some co-worker or some random. If you don't have any reason NOT to trust her, and you still cannot, the problem is you, not her. A confident man should not have any worries.