how do the kids feel about having two mothers? I dont think this is offensive, if it is, that wasn't my intention. I have always been curious in regards to this question.
No, not offended one bit!! Our kids have been raised within this family dynamic from the time they were less than a year old, to them nothing is more natural than receiving the love and care of two mothers. When my daughter first started school, she was weary of the comments of her peers but she now embraces the difference and "teaches" the other kids about her situation. Adults are much less adaptable, the teachers sometimes look at us funny at PTA meetings but the kdis like the attention they get form it now! Tis all good!
I dunno about being role models, but we love these kids so much, its easy to put all of our energy into making their lives as "normal" and productive as possible. We are expecting some kinda "rebellion" in their teenage years when they may use our situation as a weapon to manipulate us a bit as most teens do with parental issues, but I think that making this a positive matter throughout their childhood instead of hiding it or calling it something it isnt(like roomates etc) is gonna work in our favor!
Again, not trying to offend you, I just simply have many questions on the topic. Sure everything is all as well when there in kindergarten, but what about 7-8 years down the road when they enter middle school and then high school. Obviously the response is going to be very negative. I have always just thought it was downright wrong to have kids regardless of how, when your a homosexual couple because there is a good chance those kids will be abused throughout there entire life.
Well, right now they're in grade 1 and 2(6 and 7 yrs old) and like I said, the other kids are rarely an issue, as children are quite adaptable, parents and teachers are far more judgemental! Now think about it, what did u get teased about as a teen??? Whatever it is, whether ur short, fat, zitty, tall, cant dress, have a wierd name, whatever, children and adolescents are cruel and I dont know of too many people who werent bugged about something by others in school. The teenage(under 21) population of north america has very little problems with homosexuality in general but ignorance remains and as I said, we are expecting some sort of an issue with this as our kids get older. I also think that raising children in a gay family may require a bit more structure and attention as we have to "measure" the amount of information thats available to them about the subject as they get older...To Daphnee and Nathan, having 2 moms is a heck of a bonus: they have 2 mums, a dad, his gf, 4 sets of grand parents, shitloads of cousins, uncles, aunts etc...who love them and care for them!
hi, cute kids, im glad to hear that they do have a very loving family, I hope they have a good life and dont get hurt from other kids in school... will you let them do fitness or bobybuilding one day if they like to do it? what kind of goals do you have for your kids??
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