ForemanRules said:
Yes.............she has her own money....she is the top of the food chain!!
So your point is just stupid......women go for the best they can get....Alba can get almost any man alive.....so why would she settle for a rich red neck
Bottom line.....$$$$$ is the best thing to have if you want hot chicks....with money fame and power usually also follow so they are all intermingled..
I suggest you go to a rich community ( you know the kind you have to be worth 20 million or so to belong to) then look at the women their.......way hotter than the upper middle class moms you see.
so who does a girl like her go for then? the good looking, confident, charismatic guy, assuming a match of personalities.
women and guys go for the best they can get. i'll give you that there's a biological need for a woman to find someone who can support her in the sense of shelter, food, children etc, but do you honestly think a girl will pick the guy who's rich, but average looking, nothing special about his personality, or the guy who's perfect, great body, face, sense of humor etc, who makes 30-50 grand a year? long term, i would bet that the girl will ALWAYS choose the better looking, more charismatic guy over the boring rich guy.
i know girls who can get any guy they see, yet they've all hit on me and been disappointed when i didn't give it to them ('nother story altogether) and they date just normal guys who have nothing spectacular about them other than a discernable air of confidence, one guy from a rich family, one guy not....as for whether the guy makes a lot, from what i've gathered listening to girls talk, the actual money means less than the fact that the certain guy MADE IT, which is where the status thing would come in, which i would indelibly link to confidence. yet i know a guy, a good friend, who's "made it", has a lot saved up for his age, buying an upscale condo, nice car etc, is even well known for having a big dick, yet he is in awe of, in his words, the "amazing girls that are interested in" me.
i'd probably put status at the top of the list of what turns girls on, with a note that one can't achieve status without confidence. my buddy who has the status has no confidence with hot women tho, even tho he's fairly good looking (bald, but in a lex luthor way), tall and well built, so he "settles for the girls he knows he can get"
now admittedly i'm talking about my peer group of women which is university age to about 25-27, so maybe it changes with older women......but i can't help but think if a girl isn't "taken" by the time she's 30, she's not worth me thinking twice over anyway. either she just ain't all that, is a skank, or is one of the money whores, or has ridiculous standards.