busyLivin said:correction, you believe neither are right.
The kicker is, you beleive that you're right.
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busyLivin said:correction, you believe neither are right.
Rich46yo said:Did anybody ever entertain the notion that we "create God" and "heaven" out of fear of the unknown of death? Or, to comfort us in witness to the inhumanities of humanity?
And maybe we invented Hell in order to keep a majority of the unwashed masses in decent social order. Sort of like a chimpanzee troop kicking out the one jagoff chimp that keeps fucking up. And while I'm at it with chimps did you know we share 97% of the same DNA with chimps? The reason for that is we both branched off from a common ancestor 6 millions years ago on the plains of east central Africa. Wheres that in your Adam and Eve book?
Scientists recently found the remains of a human ancestor, in the horn of Africa, thats at least 4 million years old. How long ago was Adam and Eve?
And why would it matter, in terms of human interaction, if there even was a heaven or hell? A God or not? What is the relevance? Who gives a shit? The fables behind creationism, at least to me, are the ultimate expression of human arrogance. Right up there with the pope thinking he's got a personal bee-line right to God that none of the rest of us have. When the Bible was written people thought the earth was flat, mermaids and monsters roamed the sea's, the earth was the center of the universe, the stars were the fires of heaven,humans were lucky to live to 40yo, and wannabee scientists were burned at the stake. But gee, why should we question the Bible?
Woman from a mans rib? Whats that about? What are you fucking crazy?...............your loving Uncle....... ...Uncle Rich
Mr_Snafu said:Only a fool would think the Earth was created in seven days.
Maynard Keenan said:Read the bible and ye shall see the truth.
See, this is what I'm talking about. What is truth?..hahaha I don't think truth is the 5000 year old tales of goatherders refined by a priestly caste and portrayed as the autoritative inerrant word of God. These are creations of man for practical knowledge(for 5000 years ago) and control of the gen. populace.Maynard Keenan said:Read the bible and ye shall see the truth.
Decker said:See, this is what I'm talking about. What is truth?..hahaha I don't think truth is the 5000 year old tales of goatherders refined by a priestly caste and portrayed as the autoritative inerrant word of God. These are creations of man for practical knowledge(for 5000 years ago) and control of the gen. populace.
I'm a firm believer in life before death. That has meaning for me. Promises of glory in heaven after I'm dead smacks of resounding bullshit. Just keep shoveling shit your whole miserable life and you'll be rewarded on your deathbed with eternal life. What a deal.
Hey im a committed person to friends and family. Just caught my wife cheating on me so im starting to question it myself lately. It seems good people finish last in this world. (why would that be)Decker said:See, this is what I'm talking about. What is truth?..hahaha I don't think truth is the 5000 year old tales of goatherders refined by a priestly caste and portrayed as the autoritative inerrant word of God. These are creations of man for practical knowledge(for 5000 years ago) and control of the gen. populace.
I'm a firm believer in life before death. That has meaning for me. Promises of glory in heaven after I'm dead smacks of resounding bullshit. Just keep shoveling shit your whole miserable life and you'll be rewarded on your deathbed with eternal life. What a deal.
Decker said:Just keep shoveling shit your whole miserable life and you'll be rewarded on your deathbed with eternal life. What a deal.
I'm sorry that your wife did that to you. I hope you come out of it a stronger man. Life is not just. Live it with abandon though...and strength. Good luck Maynard.Maynard Keenan said:Hey im a committed person to friends and family. Just caught my wife cheating on me so im starting to question it myself lately. It seems good people finish last in this world. (why would that be)
Thanks I appreciate it.Decker said:I'm sorry that your wife did that to you. I hope you come out of it a stronger man. Life is not just. Live it with abandon though...and strength. Good luck Maynard.
I told you what I believe in...life before death. Not some decadent religion whose life denying focus hits payoff after you croak. Who said anything about absolute truth. When it comes to questions of ontology, I don't roll over for fairy tales b/c they assuage my everpresent existential discomfort, i.e., I don't bullshit myself to feel better.busyLivin said:By all means.. state what you believe, but don't for a second assume that you know the absolute truth.. what God would & would not do, what the Bible is or isn't, or suggest that 80% of the world is dillusional, believing in, as one said, 'bullshit'.
No one KNOWS anything, this is a matter of belief... that includes atheism.
Decker said:You are wrong. We humans know a lot of things...look at science, philosophy, hell even rhetorical debate is a useful knowledge...I think so anyway.
Maynard Keenan said:Hey im a committed person to friends and family. Just caught my wife cheating on me so im starting to question it myself lately. It seems good people finish last in this world. (why would that be)
LW83 said:What? you mean like 77 virgins? O wait, that's not christianity. My bad. I get the two confused sometimes.
John H. said:Hi Maynard,
That is always tough. Yes, you can look to yourself but you also need to look at the WHOLE picture too. It just could be that she has found someone else and that has absolutely nothing to do with you at all - it just could be. It does happen. YOU may have had absolutely nothing to do with it at all. I agree good people do seem to "finish last" but I can tell you I would never change being a good person because of that because a good person knows what is good and what is not. If you try (meaning anyone here) to "live up to" the "standards of this world" you would be very wrong because much of those "standards" are based on pure bull and not at all true or right.
People who REALLY LOVE AND APPRECIATE you for you will always BE. Those that are against you you would want to be away from anyway. It is a waste of your precious time here on this earth to try to "change" what is not meant to be. You can love someone but you can not make them love you if they really do not. And you would not want that anyway.
There are many people out there that will truly care about you. Focus on that.
Take Care, John H.
John H. said:Hi Luke,
There is not a whole hell of a lot of difference. Insanity is insanity. You ARE NOT CONFUSED AT ALL.
Take Care, John H.
I know you meant that. I was awkwardly making the point that we have knowledge which can, in spite of empirical proof--something much like the quandry string theory faces for example-- provide us with a reasonable foundation for making certain claims regarding our origins. Granted, as far as epistemology goes, these discussions, for the moment, are limited to the province of reasoned debate---like you'd said, no true scientific proof. I agree with you. But the poll did state that the 'Bible will never be wrong' and I think that's an affront to any thinking person.... I mean how do you know? B/c the bible says so is circular.busyLivin said:I meant in terms of this debate. Debate away, but no one KNOWS the answer. Science will never proove it, neither will belief in God.
busyLivin said:I find it comical how people here are talking so matter-of-factly.
By all means.. state what you believe, but don't for a second assume that you know the absolute truth.. what God would & would not do, what the Bible is or isn't, or suggest that 80% of the world is dillusional, believing in, as one said, 'bullshit'.
No one KNOWS anything, this is a matter of belief... that includes atheism.
Also, just because you don't believe in something, putting down someone else because of it is ridiculous. I've seen John H. several times ask people not to offend him regarding certain subjects.. children, his service, etc.. yet when it comes to religion, he has no problem ripping into many people's most charished beliefs. Hypocrisy, John H.
Thanks John. The fact is I did catch her cheating and with a very unattractive scrawny little weasel? I dont get it and she calls everynight crying on my voice mail. I do love her more then anything. We also have an adorable 2 1/2 year old son together. He was also born deaf. Basically I put every pain or hurt into the gym. She really hurt me though. Married 4 1/2 years. Whats funny is she was so controlling and possesive it wasnt even funny. Now I think I know why.John H. said:Hi Maynard,
That is always tough. Yes, you can look to yourself but you also need to look at the WHOLE picture too. It just could be that she has found someone else and that has absolutely nothing to do with you at all - it just could be. It does happen. YOU may have had absolutely nothing to do with it at all. I agree good people do seem to "finish last" but I can tell you I would never change being a good person because of that because a good person knows what is good and what is not. If you try (meaning anyone here) to "live up to" the "standards of this world" you would be very wrong because much of those "standards" are based on pure bull and not at all true or right.
People who REALLY LOVE AND APPRECIATE you for you will always BE. Those that are against you you would want to be away from anyway. It is a waste of your precious time here on this earth to try to "change" what is not meant to be. You can love someone but you can not make them love you if they really do not. And you would not want that anyway.
There are many people out there that will truly care about you. Focus on that.
Take Care, John H.
seven11 said:how do we know what the truth is, how we supposed to know what god wants from us and what god said to us.... the kuran and bible and other hole books carry gods words but how we supposed to interped it corectly if we dont realy under stand it... see in my opinion we miss understood god because we dont understand god, because we aint gods we're only human.... we cant understand dogs... why ....because we aint dogs.....
we cant undertands cat why?.... because we aint cats
peace and love hehe
7-11
Maynard Keenan said:Thanks John. The fact is I did catch her cheating and with a very unattractive scrawny little weasel? I dont get it and she calls everynight crying on my voice mail. I do love her more then anything. We also have an adorable 2 1/2 year old son together. He was also born deaf. Basically I put every pain or hurt into the gym. She really hurt me though. Married 4 1/2 years. Whats funny is she was so controlling and possesive it wasnt even funny. Now I think I know why.
Thanks for the advice. It has been a very difficult past 2 months. If she would stop calling me crying it would be easier. Cause every couple weeks I break and I go sleep with her and kick myself after. Another bad thing is I think shes one of the hottest women I have ever seen too. (sucks bad)John H. said:Hi Maynard,
First, the most helpful thing you can do IS working your ass off in the gym BECAUSE this will help you get the anger out of you and put that energy to GOOD use - DEVELOPING YOURSELF EVEN BETTER. The end result of that is YOU WILL GET EVEN BETTER health-wise overall.
Second, this helps you to clear your head and see things AS THEY REALLY ARE. You can NOT force someone to love you. If they do not they will not. Even if YOU love THEM to "pieces". It could be that THAT ALONE might be something that will drive them away. Everyone is different. People react differently to everything. I know this - you have a son you LOVE. He WILL KNOW THAT FOR SURE no matter what happens between you and your wife.
You can try to give your wife a chance and see what the problems may be - look at ALL sides of it HONESTLY. Hear what she might be saying to you and see if there is any truth to it. BE HONEST. She also may be someone who wants everything HER way or no way. Certainly SHE has put the seed of doubt about herself in your mind now by HER actions.
As for HER controlling that IS ABSOLUTELY NO GOOD. Some of that is ok but too much IS TOO MUCH and something you can NOT live with - nor your son.
THINK HARD about it ALL from ALL sides of it. It could be that you will have to move on. But you son will always BE your son and he will love you as you love him - he will know that because you will let him KNOW that. Don't try to force the issue - HE WILL SEE things for what they really are HIMSELF. Just make damn sure he knows you love him.
Take Care, John H.
Maynard Keenan said:Thanks for the advice. It has been a very difficult past 2 months. If she would stop calling me crying it would be easier. Cause every couple weeks I break and I go sleep with her and kick myself after. Another bad thing is I think shes one of the hottest women I have ever seen too. (sucks bad)