Recent content by Victoria

Actually, Mudge, Im printing the whole thing out.

:cry: you guys are amazing. pogo- you made me cry... screw it, you all made me cry. i needed to have a good bawling. you all really made me think. mudge, i need to print out that quote. And live by it. :( I have never heard something more true in my life. That rings true in all aspects of life.

Ok. I will breathe. Im going to really try to stop thinking about it today. Its like, the more I think about it, the bigger a mess it becomes. And when I dont think about it, Im fine. Thinking thoughts is the problem here anyway... I will put this to rest today. This is good. Its almost like...

:cry: it would be nice if i could get a grip. a PERMANENT grip. i need to be hypnotized.

See what confuses me is that I dont know if I want to leave because I "should", or if I want to leave because Im running away from fearing thoughts in my mind. One one side of the scale, I think taking time apart will help us both appreciate each other and ourselves - and the other side, I...

He is 27, I am 25. Sometimes I am grateful that we just been living together for three years. We have known each other for 7 years, and its amazing what you find out about yourself when you live with someone like that. No matter how much you know a person, its amazing how different you can both...

Re: Re: I need some serious relationship advice. This is what we do. We get mad at each other because we put ourselves out for one another. Like, (just a small example) - and i know im really putting my life out there people, sorry if this is getting way too personal - but im trying! - -...

This is exactly how it is. And whats ironic is I thought this was "giving" yourself to someone. To become 100% vulnerable to them and to not hold anything back. I think somewhere along the lines of giving myself entirely, I gave up my whole sense of "me". I think we did that wrong. When I am...

Thank you :(

Thanks Tank. :cry: Thats good advice. Heartbreaking, but I need that. I wish there was an easier way. :( Im tired of being afraid all of the time. The progress we had actually, was of myself being too INdependant. For as long as I can remember, Ive taken care of myself, and can do it all...

Yea :( Thats true. I think we have spent way too much time together and have made ourselves wayyyyyyyy to dependant on each other. its as if one of us were to go away just for a night or two, the other is sincerely (no joke) at a loss. That CANNOT be healthy. Its like sometimes I feel stuck. I...

Tank, we talk about this all the time, and he has even promised to get through this together. (he's wonderful) - but its as if the vision is stronger than the vibe. Does that make sense? Like, I see it in my mind, then I feel it like it happened. I dont feel first and then visualize it. I know...

Thanks Leslie.. Im beginning to feel as though I cant just battle this myself. I need help or else my heart will get broken for good and it will be no ones fault but my own. Mudge, we actually HAVE discussed marraige. He has already made me pick out my ring and has been planning out when a good...

No dg, please be mean. I dont need sugar coating for this. I need brutal honesty. I think I need to grow up A LOT. Because Im stuck in the life I used to have and I cant see that he is different.. Its like, if all your used to are apples and all of a sudden an orange falls in your lap, what the...

Hi guys. I know Im not around much, but Im a loyal IM member, and I really trust your opinions. This may come across as weird, but I really need to talk to people. And it cant be anyone I really "know". I know this is a bodybuilding site, but I also know you guys will give some sound advice...