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Need help w/wife in another way!!!

Hard to believe that she wasnt a yapper when you first met her. Doesnt sound like something someone grows into after years of marriage (assuming you both have been married for yrs). Sounds to me like your crazy work schedule has you so exhausted that by the time you come home, you are extremely irritable and easily angered. It could easily be more of an issue on your end then hers. In which a very LONG and relaxing vacation is a great remedy!

Along with some great booze!
 
hahaha i read so many funny n silly comments her problem is she just need a break ask her to taek few days off n relax n u both go on a trip n give ur self time if u can support ur family then ask ur wife to quit her work maybe she is too much stressed out from her work or maybe she is expecting a baby
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Why don`t you do the same to her...try to think of subjects to yap about and do that for a week or two....just don`t let her talk and see what she will say to you....
 
In my opinion, a guy shouldnt always shut up and let the woman talk endlessly. It has to have time to go both ways. My husband used to be a non-stop talker, I used to just give up and listen (fighting off dosing off), until I turned the tables. When I knew he was getting revved up, I would interject (just as rudely) and talk and talk about any thing that came to mind, and would let him get a word in. Finnally when he had enough and showed how irratating I became, I decided to work out a nice time to talk during dinner time to catch up on the day. It took a little practice but, he did not notice how out of control he was until I demonstrated back to him what he was doing. You both need time to talk TOGETHER. One person cannot always be the listener, becasue sometimes the listener needs someone listening, too.
Hope this helps.
 
One more thing I may want to add, is, if she is talking alot about people at work, what her friends are doing, blah blah blah, when you can find a quite moment, you may want to put it in a nice way that you would probably like to hear more of HER day rather than the lives of her friends and coworkers.
If you cannot still get a word in for talking to her about this, do what I did......
About 2 in the morning wake her up, and as soon as you know she is alert enough, then tell her you needed a moment to get to talk, and talk about the situation.
give it a try. It may work, or may not work. She just gets excited and forgets that you also have vocal cords. :)
 
I once had a long term relationship where we had opposite schedules. Sometimes it creates a perceived lack of intimacy that can poorly expressed by chatter and share too much too soon. There is definitely a need for time to decompress when you get home and that is not an unreasonable request. I have seen women do this to lovers and friends before when they are not getting enough human contact or if they are feeling insecure about something. The best thing you can do is try to make sure she know that she is still the most important person to you. Setting up quality time for just you 2 should help relieve this. Then again, I could just be talking out of my ass too.
 
emma2train said:
I once had a long term relationship where we had opposite schedules. Sometimes it creates a perceived lack of intimacy that can poorly expressed by chatter and share too much too soon. There is definitely a need for time to decompress when you get home and that is not an unreasonable request. I have seen women do this to lovers and friends before when they are not getting enough human contact or if they are feeling insecure about something. The best thing you can do is try to make sure she know that she is still the most important person to you. Setting up quality time for just you 2 should help relieve this. Then again, I could just be talking out of my ass too.
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:roflmao: Quality timee, lol, When I get home I want to fuck period ! does this count ??
 
Your wife does need a friend. Us gals just talk to talk, or as you call it yap, yap, yap. We are different then men. We like to get it all out, it helps us process what we are going through. Most times we don't want your advice, we just want your ear.
I hear your pain and fustration, but if you love your wife, let her let it out. If she feels like you are not willing to listen to her, she will find someone else to yap to, and it may not be another female.

Good luck :sorry:
 
Gena Marie said:
Your wife does need a friend. Us gals just talk to talk, or as you call it yap, yap, yap. We are different then men. We like to get it all out, it helps us process what we are going through. Most times we don't want your advice, we just want your ear.
I hear your pain and fustration, but if you love your wife, let her let it out. If she feels like you are not willing to listen to her, she will find someone else to yap to, and it may not be another female.

Good luck :sorry:
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:thinking:
 
NeilPearson said:
If you get home and can't stand talking to your wife... maybe you shouldn't have married her.

You say you love her but it doesn't sound like it. It sounds like you can't stand her... otherwise you would look forward to talking to her.
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I agree 100%

Time to sit down and really think about the situation. Think once you reach old age, kids have moved out, and all you've got is her. If you can't stand her yapping now, you're in for some depressing life in front of you. It might be time to move on, dude.

Don't wait 20 years like I did.
 
Pretend to listen. Nod a couple times. Then just start coming on to her. Then give her some VITAMIN D if you know what I mean.:analsex:
 
2tomlinson said:
If your wife regularly spins off into talking jags, following a stream of consciousness, and particularly if she talks mostly about herself, or bitches about others, then it's pathology -- a form of manic behavior -- and you're not being an ass. She is -- unless she can't help herself, then she needs to be diagnosed and treated. I feel for you; I've been around people like this (haven't we all?) and they are exhausting because they rob us of solitude without providing us with companionship. Isn't the opposite the definition of conversation?
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This form of manic behavior you speak of.......Isn't this just referred to being feminine?
I am married too and I have lots of married buddies and there are very few wives that dont act like that. The ones who dont are the ones who like shootin' whiskey and playing video games. I think we pick the ones that nag and talk alot because they make good mothers and are pretty responsible. Maybe a primal form of natural selection?
 
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