Well I know personally my wife isnt about the whole fit husband thing. She would just soon me sit home all the time and drink some booze. But hey its not me. For the most part I think women would rather have an undersized guy with a nice set of abs, compared to a guy with 18 inch arms and a not so noticable six pack (Ok guys thats me I am referring to there)......
Doubtful. Its one of those "be careful what you wish for" syndromes. Shed say it, but after she really got it, she may not mind it, but would prefer the 'old you.'
Its true.
When my arms went AAAAALLL the way upto 16" (gasp!) even then my girlfriend thought i was "too big. please dont get any bigger, i dont like it!".
The majority, in my experience, are only really concerned with visible abdominals. As if thats the window into ultimate athletic development and masculinity.
It baffles me how we can be watching tv, and a skinny as fuck guy (with abs of course) comes onto some commercial for a razor or de-oderant, and she says "wow, he's hot, you should look like that!".
Ive been on both ends of the pillar. I am sure the single guys on here have noticed girls like touching big arms, feeling how big they are, how hard, etc. Basically, a washboard stomach goes undetected until you take your shirt off. Arms, however, stick out of your shirts and can be seen by all. Unless theyre un-naturally large, I cant see them being a bad thing.
HOWEVER..
The common look that most girls seem to like are the thinly shaped Brad Pitts. Not too skinny, not too big. But out at the bars or clubs, these type of guys look skinny. It seems women dont care and to me thats just odd. A man should weigh more than a woman, win against a girl in arm wrestling, and have a less feminine face than men.
My ex thought that guy Orlando Bloom was hot. I thought he looked like a girl. Seriously, dress him in drag, without surgery, hed look like a fucking girl. Put the shoe on the other foot and dress a woman up like a man, men will NOT find them attractive.
For me, I dont have a feminine face. I dont have a baby face. Ive got too much masculinity for anyone to control.

My best assets are my body features and my random psychiatric verbalized thoughts. Abercombre & Finch cant help me, but hurt me.
