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Should i send a message, poke her, add her to friends or do nothing?
You need to watch the movie "Hitch" 4 or 5 times.![]()
It's a little early for that.![]()
lol i know but i remember back in september some other cute girl randomly poked me one time and i didn't know who she was so i didn't do anything. Well, the next day i saw her as i was walking to class and ya it was pretty awkward.
Did ya end up bangin her.
baha thats funny. Thats how i met 19inchpump. I was just on my way home listening to music and APPARENTLY he tried tlking to me but i didnt hear him. But whatever, second time around I remembered him and the rest is history
That girl is playing the courting game. In fact, It is best you didnt go and talk to her because girls like a challenge. She's not going to forget wh you are thats for damn sure, and attraction doesn't usually fade that quickly.
Next time you see her smile again and if she smiles back approach her.
In summary you didnt blow it you just made yourself a challenge...which is essentially ideal.
She should have just stopped and said hi.is up with the games that young girls play? I never got that. If I thought someone was cute and wanted to talk with them, I never had problems approaching them. There is no reason to play silly games.
Sorry, not the opinion you asked for but my opinion nonetheless.
Serious replies only please. I am kicking myself in the head for possibly blowing my chance but i want to double check with you guys to see if i blew it or i'm just over thinking it.
As i left the gym after my workout, i saw a really cute girl about 20 feet from behind me and we both looked at each other and smiled but i just continued to walk as she was behind me. As i was walking, she sped up a little bit and walked by me until she was about 10 feet in front of me and then all of a sudden slowed down just to maintain enough distance so she wouldn't get too far ahead. What caught my attention was that she kept looking sideways and kind of peeking to see where i was at but i was unsure of what she was doing. She had her ipod on so i figured it was nothing. As we continued to walk, you get to a point where you either go straight to the dorms or take a left which is a shortcut to another dorm and dining hall (where i was going) and it looked like she was going straight but all of a sudden, she slowed down and looked back pretending to look at something else behind me but i clearly knew she wanted to see where i was going.
So, she moved over to the left side and continued to walk at a moderate pace while turning her head slightly sideways just enough to see me at the corner of her eye. Now, at that time i was thinking "does she want me to approach her and just talk to her" or is she just tuning in to the music and just looking around. As we got closer and closer to the dining hall, she started to slow down some more until i was basically 5 feet behind her but i slowed down too because i didn't want to walk past her since i was a little confused what her intentions were. Once she took a right turn (the long way back to where she was supposed to go if she had continued to go straight instead of a left where i was going like i described earlier) ... i just continued to go straight and into the dining hall. I looked over at her while i was walking away and by judging her body language, it seemed like she was disappointed that i didn't do anything but i don't know.
At that point, i was like "what the fuck am i doing?" "Was she doing that on purpose hoping i would talk to her or am i out of my mind here?" The girl is really cute and i'm hoping i didn't blow my chance or anything but i didn't want to come off as a stalker and interrupt her since she had her ipod on.
What'd you guys think? Did i blow it or was it nothing? I see her like once in a blue moon when i walk to classes or at lunch/dinner and we usually make some eye contact but i never have the balls to do anything about it.
You could always break the ice with a trick.
Say hi, ask her if she has seen the elephant trick.
Pull out your left pocket so it flops down like an ear, then the right pocket.
At this point she'll ask "Where's the trunk?"
And you simply unzip your fly and whap it out.
No worries though, it happens to the best of us.
This trendy dress shop moved in to my old office next door. Right before we moved out the owner (35 year old cute blond gal) would be in and out of the spot making preparations to move in. I was nice and let her come in and measure, plan, show the spot to her employees, etc... Anyway, one day she came in and was thanking me for letting her do all of that. She was dressed extremely sexy that day, in a low cut dress that showed a lot. Soooo, she proceeded to lean waaaaay over my desk and said: "Thank you so much for your help, I know I was probably such a bother, but I have a gift for you, and I know you're gonna like it."
Now me being the goofball I am completely dismissed it, made a joke and she was on her way. A few minutes later, my helper (he's 17) said to me out of the blue. "You blew that one dude!"
I was thinking what did I blow? Then he said "Whatever she wanted to give you, she sure didn't want me to see."
Then and only then did it dawn on me that an older lady was kinda throwing herself at me, and I missed it completely.
I'm an idiot.![]()
Damn dude...that's painful just hearing about it.
Surprisingly, i just came across her profile on facebook (for those of you who know what that is)
Should i send a message, poke her, add her to friends or do nothing?
LOL most of us are more intimidated by a 118 pound female than a 250 man. Odds are if some guy in a club gives you the eye (the fuck you eye ... not the fuck me eye) you are not gonna let him outta there with out a response, yet a lil female gives you the eye then what? She leaves with the bass player ... STOP BEING A PUSS AND GET BUSY!!!!
I still dont think it was shit.
Good advice Bone. I am terrible with eye contact. I still want to work on it...
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This is why i carry a bologna sandwich on me at all times. Next time offer the bitch half and if she says no u still win cuz u got 2 halves to eat. keep boppin.
ALL attractive females past the age of 10 know the effects they have on the male species. LOL ... ask any male here at IM how many times he's been hit on by a woman and he can prolly count it out pretty quick. Ask any women here? She'll have no idea because the numbers are in the thousands. Guys tend to be dopes when it comes to knowing when a woman is trying to get something going so you missed it. She ... on the other hand ... knew the chemistry was in the air and worked you waiting for you to catch up.
If she doesn't blow you off when you make eye contact with her then she is still waiting for you to get the balls to take your shot. Take it. Women know we are idiots. If she is the kind of woman you wanna hang with she'll allow you to be you, but not for ever.
Dude ... wtf is she gonna do? LOL most of us are more intimidated by a 118 pound female than a 250 man. Odds are if some guy in a club gives you the eye (the fuck you eye ... not the fuck me eye) you are not gonna let him outta there with out a response, yet a lil female gives you the eye then what? She leaves with the bass player ... STOP BEING A PUSS AND GET BUSY!!!!
Just walk up to her with a smile on your face. Not a stalker kinda walk up, make it casual. Once you make eye contact keep it ... it's always about eye contact. Be gentle, read her body language ... then look her right in the eyes and tell her how she makes you feel. The worst thing she'll do is pull out a .45 and shoot you in the head ending your misery ... but I'm betting she'll smile back and nudge you along somehow till you ask her out![]()
This is why i carry a bologna sandwich on me at all times. Next time offer the bitch half and if she says no u still win cuz u got 2 halves to eat. keep boppin.
This is why i carry a bologna sandwich on me at all times. Next time offer the bitch half and if she says no u still win cuz u got 2 halves to eat. keep boppin.