Lippy tuck..............
When you think about how much sex somme of the more red blooded cpls have between themmselves.. and how many a week every week and how many times and ways each hit.. spreading the same type of .. wear and tear over thirty itermitttent partners.. would probabbly mean she was even tiighter and having lesss sex than alott of girls who were having lots of sex but in a one and only ever even but long term sexually active relationship.....
Dont stop isn't having those conversations alone anyway.. and apparently those tyypes of conversations are just something that ppl maybe need to viisit for how ever long they need to talk about it for to gett a healthy perspective about the other side of how to pull offf a good relationship .. and probably why being a slut or talking like one or having new partners all the time until one might get there.. or one's ideeal partner might(
)... is just what it does look like at that point .. and for a whollle lotta reasons ppl prefer cheap sex and chats to hash it out .. until it's sorted between the ppl feeling and acting like that ..
and I think about the attention seeking.. that we talk to aanyone about anything at all on-line kiind of means we all have a bit of it in ouurselves.. what's wrong with wanting company and conversation anyway.. it's just a shame some ppl only do that and neglect so much other stuff to get and keep it.. which means they don't get the company they reeally wanted while they're so busy not doing what that means they're doing instead of putting themselves into a better position to be wiith the person or ppl or tyype of person or ppl that they initially reeally wanted to ...
which briings me to what was said between Bonecrusher / LW and Jodi
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Originally Posted by BoneCrusher
Ohhh come on now. A female I knew for a few said that all men were like houses on a piece of land. Some few are in great shape and perfectly built. Some are fixer uppers, that with a little work become great places to move into. Many are others are just a complete tear down. A woman has to have the resources to get what she wants, or deal with the fixer uppers she said. She also told me that she gets stuck with the tear downs too often. She left me soon after that ... ... IDKWTFIUWT.
i think it is a huge misconception for a woman to think she can change a man. men are grown ups. it's up to them to repair their faults and i think many are not going to do so even at the risk of losing a great girl. a woman can speak up and tell a man where the weak points in the relationship are. the rest is up to him.... except the walking away that needs to happen if he doesn't work toward making the relationship work. same goes for her weaknesses. self improvement is a common term.... partner improvement? who's ever even heard of that?
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.. if there 's no foundation .. even if it's only the laand that has good consitution or slants or position of whatever that a woman thinks she can work with or rebulid on.. or even make into a comfortable space for herself to function in herr ideal movement needs.. then there's no point bothering.. like house shopping..
but If you doo fiind that.. with enough that you can work with.. imo it's worth a little refurb or settling in and trying on... sometimes it works and as you move things in the space works with you and it doesn't and sometimes you move..and in the meantime the land or property changes and wee go about redefining what we calll ideally useable space or we just collect and upgrade our bits to furbish it and our plan about what goes where why.. and what we can and plan to do around it..
I agree that a guy needs a women to bring some stuff out in him to try on .. and how well it it works in a partnership isn't even something she's dooing so much just bringing out..
I have no idea if that makes any sense for any of you .. but that's myy 2c worth anyway.
Blooming tianshi lotus.
