... I broke up with the wife last night
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Well I did it...
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Was this a long time coming or a shock to both of ya?
It's been a long time coming for me... she has really only known I was thinking about it for about 3 weeks. So it was kind of a surprise for her.
Wow. That's a big move man. I hope things work out for the best.
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I don't know if Canada is like the US in this respect, but if it is, you will be anally violated in divorce court.
It will never go to court. (and we live in Phoenix right now)
We have no kids and she is reasonable. I think one of us (probably me) will just take out a second mortgage to cover the cost of half the house equity, furniture and shit and the other will just take the cash and split. Either way one of us is going to probably just leave everything behind and leave with a $170k check.... it doesn't matter to me if it is me or her
We have just grown apart doing our own things over the years. We still get along fine, I just don't want to be married anymore
Smart man! .. just kidding bro, hope all is well
Kenwood, you can come out of the closet now!
BTW, i wish you the best of luck with this decision.
Yeah, best of luck indeed. I don't know much about your situation, but I think it's a good move to divorce if that's what you really want. So many people live their lives married to someone they no longer love or want to be with without doing anything about it.
it being a surprise to her makes it obvious communication broke down long ago. i hope you can avoid that pitfall in the future. good luck.
I stuck it our for the sake of our son for too many years ... I wish I had done what you are doing long ago instead of a few years ago. My only advice is to take the check and start over with completely new shit bro. I did and wound up with better stuff, all mine ... with no ghosts reminding me of things I didn't want to think of. It was cathartic picking everything out purely for my own gratification ... 
... either way man good luck.
... either way man good luck.
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I like your thinking. You seem to have your shit together man.
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No doubt. All of the posts I see from Neil make him seem pretty intelligent and a nice guy.
I hope you have a sweet welcome back to bachelor hood party with some mates of yours.
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And who will you cheat with while it's proceeding 
Thanks!
You are right.... I'm a douche bag
hmmm... she wants me to leave for a couple of weeks so she can think.
I don't want to leave my house... I am supposed to be getting it anyway. Why the hell should I leave? I can sleep in a different room but I don't want to leave. She is going to be really pissed if I stay though.
What should I do?
I don't want to leave my house... I am supposed to be getting it anyway. Why the hell should I leave? I can sleep in a different room but I don't want to leave. She is going to be really pissed if I stay though.
What should I do?
once you leave it may be hard to take possession of the home again if she decides not to let you. n if as you say she's gonna be really pissed she could get vindictive. on the other hand it would seem a reasonable request considering you are the one that initiated this.
maybe you could give her the two weeks to make living arrangements before you take possession of the home. but write up and sign a contract to that effect n maybe have it notarized or something. a consultation with a lawyer prior to breaking the news to her would have been wise but it's better late than never n will be money well spent.
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Whatever you do, don't assume she's going to play nice.
exactly. even if she says she will n means it ego and emotion could rear their ugly heads n uh oh.
On that thought Tony Soprano went and had a free consultation with ALL the top divorce lawyers in town. Mrs. T had no shot at getting them to represent her after that ...
whatever u do, don't trust her or believe anything she says. DON'T LEAVE HER ALONE IN THE HOUSE FOR A COUPLE OF WEEKS..my dad did this when my mother left us when I was just a little kid and she stole shit..mark my words, don't believe a word she says
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Yea, you could come home to an empty house and a note with some not so nice stuff on it.
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I just watched that episode. "WhiteCaps" The lawyer that was going to sell him that beach house gave him that advice.
I know some lawyers do free consultations, but how much do others charge?
