the government can't tell my church what doctrines to preach.
nor should it. i absolutely agree with you there. i just think the line got drawn a lot further back than it needed to be. don't some churches refuse to marry people who have been divorced? that should be their right, they should not have to cow down to anything contrary to their beliefs. at the same time there are other people in the world with different beliefs and they should have the right to live as they desire to also. free from the restrictions placed on them by the beliefs of others just as you are asking that your church be allowed to do. if the lawsuits were the issue they should have been addressed but the easier thing to do was throw the baby out with the bath water i guess????
in the links you posted there was a lot of if it passes this "may" happen that "may" happen. maybe in the future a better understanding of both sides needs and fears will make it possible for people with opposing views and lifestyles to coexist in harmony... IF people are willing to even try.