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So Im GETTING DIVORCED

well I mean... I hate to put it this way.. but she just got busted with drugs right? so KOS is definitely going to get custody if anyone contests it.. it's not all bad bro you still got your boy.
 
Standard Donkey said:
well I mean... I hate to put it this way.. but she just got busted with drugs right? so KOS is definitely going to get custody if anyone contests it.. it's not all bad bro you still got your boy.
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Not true. The system works for the woman.
 
Shitty. I remember my first divorce. PTSD owned the marriage i suppose.
The whole process just sucks
 
Talk to your mortgage company and tell them you want to do a workout or modification. It will buy you time while you gather what they need and they'll either lower your interest rate or reduce your principal, depending on what loan you have. Getting behind is the only way to get a workout. They don't do it for people that pay on time, odd huh? Plus now your income is less than half and you have a hardship, perfect time to ask for a modification. PM me if you need help.
 
Man bro have y'all had a sit down and talk? Not a yelling pointing fingers match, but a genuine talk and lay everything out.
 
I am truly sorry to hear this man. I have only been around for a short time but can tell from your posts how much you love your son and wife.

You messed up. You know you messed up. If you truly want to keep your family together then fight like hell to do it. Try anything. To to counseling if she wants to. Show her she is the most important thing to you and you made a bad decision in a time of weakness.

Show her that you are willing to fight for her. Maybe that is what she wants to see right now. With everything that has happened, showing her that you want her more than anything else in the world will help with the situation.

It will not be a easy road but nothing that is worth it in life ever is. I hope whatever YOU want and the best thing for you and your son is the outcome. As others have said, no matter what, be the bigger person and never say anything derogatory about her in front of your child.

Good luck my friend
 
when did she lost her job?and why you are not getting 2nd one to make sure you are not loosing the house?
 
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bigmoe65 said:
Not true. The system works for the woman.
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and its this mentality, which isn't totally true anymore, that keep guys from even pursuing custody of their kids

sounds like a cop out to not put up a scrap to me
 
BRO if u love her, u can get her back, you can choose pride and lose her or fuck pride and get her back, i guess it just depends on how much u love her.

First thing to remember, if u fall apart and into a heap of shit, lose ur job, start drugs or boozing, then why would anyone want u back, stand tall and show her ur worth wanting back.

It will involve ALOT of begging and admitting ur an ass to do what u did.............then years of this being thrown in ur face.......
 
someone please start a "KOS holiday" thread, we all pledge a few $ and get KOS a plane ticket to toowoomba...........at least he will smile that day.....and we can watch the video of azza getting bashed lmao
 
^^ actually...this kind of reminds me of another board I belong to where we all chipped in for a bro's legal defense to get custody of his kid.
 
KILLEROFSAINTS said:
Strange pussy on top of our tradgedy caused this
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.....We all fuckup, I don't want to sound like a pussy but it helps to forgive yourself & her...I'm more than twice your age Joey, and have fucked up everything in my life.
Don't jump into anything, wait for the dust to settle, don't make decisions while sad or angry,and my wife blames me for all wrongs and I need to be patient with her & try to see the good things I know she possesses. We all need to change, give her a little space & don't get crazy...
 
One piece of advice: never trust a goddam junkie.

They will say or do anything to keep their habit going and hidden. No matter what, keep that in the back of your mind.

Your transgressions pale in comparison.
 
KILLEROFSAINTS said:
Im trying...THIS IS TOTALLY HER DECISION
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Hey man,

I had this happen about a year ago to me.. Wife told me she wanted a divorce wouldn't try shit to try and keep our marriage together.. Don't flip on her or anything... My ex tried to use steroids against me.. Also stay away from rec drugs, they may help at the time but it doesn't let you heal.. I ran into this..

Anyway a year later I'm moved on and happier without her.. My biggest issue is having to split custody with her!

what does make me feel good is the chump she was cheating on me with broke up with her yesterday!! Talk about sweet revenge!! Some fire fighter that she was all sprung on..

But pm me if u want to talk bro
 
SheriV said:
and its this mentality, which isn't totally true anymore, that keep guys from even pursuing custody of their kids

sounds like a cop out to not put up a scrap to me
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Bullshit. Shes not a junkie and all that would happen is a lawyer sucking kos dry.
 
You reap what you sow. Learn from your mistake and move on. Life can still be beautiful if you are willing to make it.
 
I to divorced in California keith...lost everything..she gained it all
 
No one else will say it, but shame on you.
I've watched you strike people down as weak time and time again, and now this?
It sounds as though you threw a fit and went out looking for a way to make yourself feel good.
Hiding a problem like she did and sticking your dick where it doesn't belong are two completely separate things.
You betrayed her in the worst way one can.
Thats a lot of time thrown away for your quick fix.
You aren't going to be able to fix this yourself.
You need to look for professional help, if not to fix the relationship, but to try and fix yourself.
The issue is bigger than this one incident.
You say she is your heart and soul, but you are so quick to turn your back on her.
It sounds as though the cheating was premeditated, and you did it to spite her.
Sorry to seem like an ass, but this is how I view it.

Good luck with everything. Hopefully the outcome is the best possible for your family, especially your child.
Now would be the time to log of IM and start dealing with this in the real world.
 
c4x said:
I to divorced in California keith...lost everything..she gained it all
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Ya man I got pretty fucked too! It's hard not to be to bitter towards my ex but I have made peace with it and know my boy needs both of us in his life.. Although she is always trying to get him to take him more and more which I do if I can become I'd take full custody of him if I could.

But ya man divorce sucks! Idk if I will ever remarry
 
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