Hi Everyone, I'm not a new member. I am an old one and i'm in quite the dilemma and need your opinion of what to do. i just needa get this off my chest and talk to someone. Unfortunately i'm embarrassed to say who i am because some may think differently after hearing this.
****Warning the word "fuck" comes up alot towards the end of this thread sorry prince(Robert)******
so here i go....
ya, i got a girl who likes me/said she practically loves me and that i like very very much. I have an underage GF(17) and i'm over age (19) and her parents are crazy(not in the sense of strict but in the sense of not all there in the head) so if i break up with her i go to jail for a long long time (but thats only one problem). Well, i've hooked up with this girl we'll call her Betty. Betty is my age (over age) while being with my gf (we'll call her Suzie). It happened a couple of weeks ago and was something i wished for since the day i saw her(love at first sight type thing). and if you didn't notice this is where i become a fuck up. (thats not the problem either well it's one of em as well) for a side note it gets worse. It seems that my best friend liked this girl alot. Me, my friend "bob" and "roger" all met this girl at the same time she was in our college class. "bob" took some classes at my JC to transfer to his university and we took them together while he was home from school for the summer. Well, Unknown to me Bob had sex with her about a month ago. But thats not all Bob doesn't know we (Me and betty) hooked up. You'd say it couldn't get worse then that? Wrong! Betty,tells Bob every time they see each other to leave her alone that she likes me. well cause Bob is my best friend he tells me that he trusts me never to hook up with her totally sucks having to lie to your best friend.
Re-cap:
can't dump gf. betraying best friend. next on the list: "her real personality was discovered"
ya so i fall deeply in like with this fake person that i thought she was to find out she was so plastic a fake (well judging from how she acts around her best friend) and what she does (attitude wise) thats the real her.(Assumption). But a key thing that helped with that Assumption is the way she now treats Bob. It's like if Judge Judy and that guy from American Idol had a baby and raised it to be mean to Bob all it's life and well the other thing thats she is a beauty queen of a couple county's and ya i'm using the stereotype on this one. And usually thats a true one. But once again my heart is filling me with doubts.
Another Problem: She is all my school classes. so giving her a ride to school the other day Roger was; she makes us late and Roger and her get in a big escalating fight which ends up with roger throwing on the e-brake at 60mph and telling her to get the fuck outa the car and on the corner where she belongs. Well that not going over too well(with her i didn't really care i was pissed too i was late to an honors class on the first day com'on!) i convince him to keep her in the car and we head to class. Then she stands in the parking lot throws a tantrum and says she's not going to class well i'm in an honors class screw her tantrum i went to class along with roger. (ya i know that sounds mean but schools my life and top priority right now so it's what i had to do) She calls her brother in law and leaves.
Us (the three amigos) being cool guys a month or 2 before we got this girl a job at our gym. Where i spend every minute of everyday, so she goes in there and tells the story of what happened to my close personal friend. which he, in turn, tells me. but what does he tell me?
One of the things she said was "if that mother fucker fucks me over i'm gonna fuck him over with his gf" well we all knows what happens if "me" gets fucked over with his gf "me" go to jail.
since, i can't really fuck her over at this point without being fucked. I devised a plan thats in play right now. well starting today, i told her i broke up with my gf and came clean with her about the cheating (well right now i'm in the process of it)(roger and that close personal friend are playing along(they hate her)). so she can't fuck me on that front cause she thinks that everything has already been said and can't call my gf and try to fuck me over.(she doesn't know her but she's been looking through my phone book for her name but me being a little ahead of the game deleted Suzies number because i have it memorized)ok, next thing i'm still leading her on saying i'm gonna still be with her for about a week till Bob leaves to go back to university. In that time i'm getting hold of her phone and deleting Bob's # so she can't get a hold of him and fuck me over there i know this sounds juvenile but it's the only way i can do it with hurting as little people as i can.
(but before we go on i like to state that i did cheat on my gf. yes, but i'm going to break up with her on my own terms very soon without stirring up alot of dust and keeping me away from bars(yes i know you think i'm a evil person, i'm am sorry for that. this has happened and people make mistakes mine just seem to pile on top of each other.))
But, finding out one day Bob and her had sex. I brought it up jokingly; she swore to me that she didn't have sex with Bob. which was a flat out lie cause, i've questioned Bob and Bob doesn't lie period and especially to me. I can trust him i know that sounds hard to believe but thats a person you trust and he's never let me down or lied to me before.(and he gave me accurate details about what she does.... and thats as far as we'll go there). So now i'm bringing up how she lied to me and that i can't trust her and that will be the reason i can't date her.(but this will not happen until Bob leaves(1 week university))
so both fronts are covered but just for some self gratification and seeing how she knew everything that was going on and tried to turn friends against friends. I have something else in store, remember that close personal friend i told you about that told me everything? well he's my instructor and the gym manager and were firing her so the problem will disappear. and she can't do this to anyone else. (well he was going to fire her anyway cause she sucked at working but he really wants to even more now)
well the plans pretty dam good, but my heart is still with her and may be the monkey wrench and i still have feeling for her even through all this
would this just be time to swallow my feelings and go on as planned?
****Warning the word "fuck" comes up alot towards the end of this thread sorry prince(Robert)******
so here i go....
ya, i got a girl who likes me/said she practically loves me and that i like very very much. I have an underage GF(17) and i'm over age (19) and her parents are crazy(not in the sense of strict but in the sense of not all there in the head) so if i break up with her i go to jail for a long long time (but thats only one problem). Well, i've hooked up with this girl we'll call her Betty. Betty is my age (over age) while being with my gf (we'll call her Suzie). It happened a couple of weeks ago and was something i wished for since the day i saw her(love at first sight type thing). and if you didn't notice this is where i become a fuck up. (thats not the problem either well it's one of em as well) for a side note it gets worse. It seems that my best friend liked this girl alot. Me, my friend "bob" and "roger" all met this girl at the same time she was in our college class. "bob" took some classes at my JC to transfer to his university and we took them together while he was home from school for the summer. Well, Unknown to me Bob had sex with her about a month ago. But thats not all Bob doesn't know we (Me and betty) hooked up. You'd say it couldn't get worse then that? Wrong! Betty,tells Bob every time they see each other to leave her alone that she likes me. well cause Bob is my best friend he tells me that he trusts me never to hook up with her totally sucks having to lie to your best friend.
Re-cap:
can't dump gf. betraying best friend. next on the list: "her real personality was discovered"
ya so i fall deeply in like with this fake person that i thought she was to find out she was so plastic a fake (well judging from how she acts around her best friend) and what she does (attitude wise) thats the real her.(Assumption). But a key thing that helped with that Assumption is the way she now treats Bob. It's like if Judge Judy and that guy from American Idol had a baby and raised it to be mean to Bob all it's life and well the other thing thats she is a beauty queen of a couple county's and ya i'm using the stereotype on this one. And usually thats a true one. But once again my heart is filling me with doubts.
Another Problem: She is all my school classes. so giving her a ride to school the other day Roger was; she makes us late and Roger and her get in a big escalating fight which ends up with roger throwing on the e-brake at 60mph and telling her to get the fuck outa the car and on the corner where she belongs. Well that not going over too well(with her i didn't really care i was pissed too i was late to an honors class on the first day com'on!) i convince him to keep her in the car and we head to class. Then she stands in the parking lot throws a tantrum and says she's not going to class well i'm in an honors class screw her tantrum i went to class along with roger. (ya i know that sounds mean but schools my life and top priority right now so it's what i had to do) She calls her brother in law and leaves.
Us (the three amigos) being cool guys a month or 2 before we got this girl a job at our gym. Where i spend every minute of everyday, so she goes in there and tells the story of what happened to my close personal friend. which he, in turn, tells me. but what does he tell me?
One of the things she said was "if that mother fucker fucks me over i'm gonna fuck him over with his gf" well we all knows what happens if "me" gets fucked over with his gf "me" go to jail.
since, i can't really fuck her over at this point without being fucked. I devised a plan thats in play right now. well starting today, i told her i broke up with my gf and came clean with her about the cheating (well right now i'm in the process of it)(roger and that close personal friend are playing along(they hate her)). so she can't fuck me on that front cause she thinks that everything has already been said and can't call my gf and try to fuck me over.(she doesn't know her but she's been looking through my phone book for her name but me being a little ahead of the game deleted Suzies number because i have it memorized)ok, next thing i'm still leading her on saying i'm gonna still be with her for about a week till Bob leaves to go back to university. In that time i'm getting hold of her phone and deleting Bob's # so she can't get a hold of him and fuck me over there i know this sounds juvenile but it's the only way i can do it with hurting as little people as i can.
(but before we go on i like to state that i did cheat on my gf. yes, but i'm going to break up with her on my own terms very soon without stirring up alot of dust and keeping me away from bars(yes i know you think i'm a evil person, i'm am sorry for that. this has happened and people make mistakes mine just seem to pile on top of each other.))
But, finding out one day Bob and her had sex. I brought it up jokingly; she swore to me that she didn't have sex with Bob. which was a flat out lie cause, i've questioned Bob and Bob doesn't lie period and especially to me. I can trust him i know that sounds hard to believe but thats a person you trust and he's never let me down or lied to me before.(and he gave me accurate details about what she does.... and thats as far as we'll go there). So now i'm bringing up how she lied to me and that i can't trust her and that will be the reason i can't date her.(but this will not happen until Bob leaves(1 week university))
so both fronts are covered but just for some self gratification and seeing how she knew everything that was going on and tried to turn friends against friends. I have something else in store, remember that close personal friend i told you about that told me everything? well he's my instructor and the gym manager and were firing her so the problem will disappear. and she can't do this to anyone else. (well he was going to fire her anyway cause she sucked at working but he really wants to even more now)
well the plans pretty dam good, but my heart is still with her and may be the monkey wrench and i still have feeling for her even through all this
would this just be time to swallow my feelings and go on as planned?
but i am so sure that this seems like a huge deal to you and its really traumatic and bothersome, like everything is at that age. i also read what dale mabry wrote "nip this thing in the bud" or something like that. sorry, my attention wasnt good enough to read your story but it was to read the thread 
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j/k
i knew as soon as I posted in a thread about a 19 yr old I'd be the first accused
