Anyone??

[dino]

Does anyone understand life? I don't! Things are unfair. Things are shitty. I've seen more death in the last two years then that of a morg. This morning at 5:30 am I lost my Uncle to a massive heart attack. He was healthy, athletic, fun-loving, and full of zest for life. He was 6 months anway from retiring, and just got his son back home after being away for 1 year in Scotland. Then BOOM he has a heart-attack in his bed at home on Christmas eve! My family just lost my Grandmother Sept 23rd, and I also lost my Dad and other Grandfather under 2 years ago.........I can't handle this anymore.......Everytime someone close to me dies, they take a piece of me with them. I'm hurting!

 

[Rusty]

I'm sorry for your loss, Dino. Nothing can make the pain any better for you. You have to find the strength within yourself to deal with it. I know that is not what you wanted to hear, but it's fact. I know you can do it, YOU are a strong person. Every one of us will go some day. You and your family will be in my thoughts today.

 

[mmafiter]

I'm sorry to hear about your loss...our prayers are with you.

 

[lina]

I'm so sorry to hear dino!! Prayers are with you and your family.

Take care and hugs to you.

Be strong.

 

[Dero]

Dino,I'm so sorry to hear that,I know things have not been too rosy for you.
Look at it this way,it was short,he did not suffer...


DON'T LET THEM TAKE YOU AWAY!!!!

 

[lina]

Originally posted by Dero

Look at it this way,it was short,he did not suffer..

That is true.... my dad died, grand father, grandmother all died within the past 5 years too and none of them suffered which I'm thankful for...

...I guess that's not much of a consolation for those left behind because we still miss them...

...but be strong for your Uncle's family and children...

{{{hugs}}}

 

[ZECH]

Dino, I'm very sorry to hear about your loss. Life is very short for all of us. God never promised us tomorrow! So live like today is your last and enjoy life and family while you can! Have faith that everything that happens is for a reason. We may never know what it is, but God does! Take care!

 

[Dr. Pain]

Dino......I have no explanation why this happens. I lost my Grandparents, father, grandfather-in-law, and 2 aunts....all within a very short period. It NEVER EVER made sense! The only thing I can offer besides my best wishes for you at this time....is the knowledge that with time comes healing. Dino...it just takes time. And when you remember your loved ones, remember them with good and the happiness .....nothing else matters.


DP

 

[Hammerlynn]

Hi Dino! I'm sorry to hear about your uncle! I lost very suddenly too the end of October. Things unfortunately happen that way and there's never an explanation that makes us understand.
Take care of yourself! You will be in my thoughts!

 

[Arnold]

very sorry for your loss.

no, I do not understand life either.

 

[sawheet]

Dino the only thing I can say is that somebody out there has it worse than you. Whenever I feel that life is ganging up on me I look around and think about all the positive things I have. I will pray for you and your family.

 

[urso8up]

Sorry to hear about your loss dino my prayers are with you and your family

 

[bekahleigh23]

very sorry dino....like many have said, time will heal, and everything happens for a reason. Try to think of all the positive memories and good times left behind to cheer you up.

 

[bekahleigh23]

"Some people come into our lives and quickly go. Some stay a while and leave footprints on our hearts, and we are never, ever the same." Flavia Weedn

 

[david]

Dino,

Sorry to hear about that! Unfortunately, the first two close people that have died close to my heart, I seemed to be lost within myself asking why these things in life happen. It such a tragedy and I couldn't imagine how life could go on for me without that someone special close to my heart leaves my like that...

I've came to accept it finally realizing that it is just a part of life and that at our curcial ages (31 for me) I now anticipate those of my elders, close to my heart will be gone forever. Like everyone here has said, "time will heal all wounds and that memories will never die". It's something that you can treasure within your life... to think about all the good times you've shared etc.

Love you, Dino and please take care! I'm sending you a regular email in lieu of this.

DJD

 

[AllenM]

sorry for your loss.

 

[Badger]

I'm sorry for your loss. I know that losing someone close is a terrible thing. What makes it worse is it being a sudden thing. I lost my dad when I was 4 and I would trade almost anything to have more than the 1 memory that I have. I can only say that time will heal you, just know that the memories that you have will carry you through your life and this way you will always have your uncle with you. Please take care of yourself and remember our prayers are with you.