brunette said:
or maybe not... for some guys being alone is quite satisfying
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or maybe not... for some guys being alone is quite satisfying
im so over this lets just end this forum. im done
brunette said:
All the girls who got married and years later found out their husband secretly had a cowboy on the side.... that is what they thought too
brunette said:
awwww.... we were just starting to have some fun
i asked yall because i wanted a male perspective. now i feel stupid for asking for advice and alittle unpretty and unattractive.
brunette said:
I'm not sure why you would feel that way. I told you that you are very attractive. If you were my girlfriend, I would be up there EVERY weekend... and no falling asleep at 10.
I don't agree that you have to lower your standards at all. In fact I think you may have them too low right now. Settling for a guy that treats you like that just isn't right. You need to meet and make friends with lots of guys and eventually you will find one that is good for you... because this guy doesn't seem to be.
Who cares if he is some hotshot "chiro"practor? 
I'd break his back. How about that irony. 
I'd break his back. How about that irony. 
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i wanna come back to this post later because I don't have much time right now and I think I can contribute, but you're going to get the "guys are dogs" reply alot, and I think it's true but you need more to back that statement up. I don't know your boyfriend, and he may be a great guy so with all due respect I have to say that I wouldn't put it past someone, particularly a guy, to actually be involved in some shady affairs. Too often women get caught up in "love" when a guy for some reason is able to turn his back, keeping you as a trophy he can dust off when he wants. And the thing is, women fall for it. Dr. Phil this past week or so has had lots of themes since Valentines about "players" and their mentality, methods, etc. Regardless of how you feel about Dr. Phil, you get to see interviews with how guys ("players") operate and how they actually think. They can say they love a woman, backstab her and be caught red handed, and the dumbest, simplest lies will bring the girl right back around to him. And while there's lots of good guys out there, they're the exception. I'd say statistically you have a jerk(***luckily there's a test. Q1. Does he have a penis?).
all I'm saying is, be cautious. But don't let him know, that just lets him blame you for his actions.
but also, you're young and shouldn't be thinking about family yet. You need to get out and experience dating and socializing first. You don't want to be 30 at your sexual peak and never got to experience the 18-21 thang. You might say it doesn't interest you now, but when you can't go back you'll realize you skipped something.
all I'm saying is, be cautious. But don't let him know, that just lets him blame you for his actions.
but also, you're young and shouldn't be thinking about family yet. You need to get out and experience dating and socializing first. You don't want to be 30 at your sexual peak and never got to experience the 18-21 thang. You might say it doesn't interest you now, but when you can't go back you'll realize you skipped something.
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I kind of agree with this statement, but actually I think the guys here have the right idea, but they don't know how to put it correctly. It's one thing to talk shit and say he's a fag. But what this translates to is that men on average can't be trusted and no matter how convinced you are that he's a good guy, and no matter how much he truly is a good guy, there's a likely chance are he's not being loyal. What's affection to you, is obsession to him. My advice wouldn't be to follow your heart, but you're going to do it anyway. Women are motivated by their hearts, men are motivated by their brain (the one in their head and the one in their pants). To not listen to your heart would be to deny yourself happiness. It works for you, and eventually it will lead you somewhere happy, but don't expect not to run into a few dead ends on the way. As long as you accept that things might not always be what it seems, you can go on following your heart. Otherwise, you'll end up cynical and never find anyone who wants to be around you, which is rather counter productive.shiznit2169 said:
brunette said:
get a life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Crono1000 said:
You have to admit though... if you only saw your girlfriend once a month, she wouldn't have to be the one instigating sex and you wouldn't be falling asleep at 10.
This guy sounds like he is either getting some other action on the side or possibly gay. That just isn't normal behavior for a heterosexual male. Not saying he is gay... but the possibility is there.
If he is getting upset at any questions about future, it is possible he is feeling smothered and think she is taking things too fast.
MyK said:
yeah that is helpful
NeilPearson said:
apparantly it is more profound than you can comprehend!
MyK said:apparantly it is more profound than you can comprehend!
I expected so much more from a fellow Canadian
IainDaniel said:
He's not really a Canadian?
NeilPearson said:
why? I cut to the issue and gave her advice that will solve her problems. I didnt piss about with the symptoms of her problems like the rest of the thread responders. it seems that you are like the majority of canadians and inable to identify genius when you see it!
IainDaniel said:
correction! I am a canadian, and a wannaba American!
oh yeah why didnt i think of that? i need a life. because working, staying positive and wanting marriage isnt having a life...ok that solved all my problems thanks...
brunette said:
so your happy being miserable?
Brunette this guy has the worst advice on every topic here so I wouldnt advise you listen to him at all......hell he still lives with mommy and daddy so he has no idea what the real world is about. Bottom line is you are way too young to be thinking about having babys or worring about love.....date and have fun, your family and friends will give you love so you dont need some guy for that...yetshiznit2169 said:
ForemanRules said:
I agree 99.99%!
i disagree about being too young to love. i grew up with basicially noone there for me and no parental love so my family loving me isnt an option and love from "friends" is most definitially not the same as a man loving me unconditionally...
brunette said:
it is horrible that you grew up with out parental love! but you have to understand that the object of you desire will not fill that void!
Why don't you ask your boyfriend where the relationship is headed?
Make him jealous, start going out with the girls on weekends, go out the night he comes down to see you. You need to show him that you can be indepedent , then if he wants the relationship to last he'll start doing more to make it that way. Right now I think he has you on lock and doesn't need to work for your affection.
Make him jealous, start going out with the girls on weekends, go out the night he comes down to see you. You need to show him that you can be indepedent , then if he wants the relationship to last he'll start doing more to make it that way. Right now I think he has you on lock and doesn't need to work for your affection.
your right
this is a very true thing he knows he is "safe" knowing i wont go out while he does and he knows i wont leave and ill drop everything to see him and pay for everything
maniclion said:
this is a very true thing he knows he is "safe" knowing i wont go out while he does and he knows i wont leave and ill drop everything to see him and pay for everything
shiznit2169 said:
We are 100% true. People want what they can't have, and they like a challenge. The challenge a man likes is getting a hot woman to like him. The challenge a woman gets is taming a man. The problem is, once the woman has given it up, challenge over for the man, just starting for the woman. Men are wired to spread the seed, women are wired to nest, generally. Your response should be to move on, but your instincts are telling you to tame him. You should move on. Don't try to make him jealous or anything. Just tell him over the phone, say you are not happy where this is going and you are not right for each other. You feel you are wasting your time and it would be better for you both to just end it. That will get an naswer for you, if he says ok, then you are no longer wasting time, if he says you need to work it out, make him whip into shape.
BTW, whoever said he is tending to school is a moron.
brunette said:
Actually, you look quite attractive in your picture, and if you feel stupid just read some of Foreman's posts, that should make you feel better about yourself.
Brunette,
Im 20 and marriage/kids are the last fucking item on my list... If you think your relationship is on the rocks, just go out with your close friends and have a fun night and dont worry about him and try to meet some other guys.
And for the record, long distance relationships never work.
And btw you look quite attractive from what i can see. I dont think you have anything to worry about. So stop moping around and go out and have some fun.
Im 20 and marriage/kids are the last fucking item on my list... If you think your relationship is on the rocks, just go out with your close friends and have a fun night and dont worry about him and try to meet some other guys.
And for the record, long distance relationships never work.
And btw you look quite attractive from what i can see. I dont think you have anything to worry about. So stop moping around and go out and have some fun.
What? You are beautiful, you shouldnt worry about that. Damn, you look good. :bounce:brunette said:
