i am the girlfriend of a graduate school chiropractic student. We have been together for a year this April. I am very supportive of my boyfriend. I never see him, he drives 200 miles to see me about once a month. I feel we are very strong in keeping our relationship together. When he has exams I leave him be and dont call, i let him study. I give him space, cook him food when he wants, clean everything, i love his family and when his mom got cancer and he couldnt be there i stayed by her side everyday. my question to ask for advice is why would a 28 year old not want to even think about marriage or a family or even say he loves me? I feel like I'm wasting my time. I'm 19 and ready to have a family of my own and he is 28 and is like frat boy...So truthfully is this something I'm doing wrong? I innitiate all sexual encounters, he falls asleep at like 10 and im like ok...im really confused and need mens opinions? I'm starting to think I'm just not loveable? Am I attractive? Is that the problem. He says I'm beautiful, but im wondering...?