'Could Mr. Right be white?' More black women consider 'dating out'

[vortrit]

This has to be one of the funniest threads I've ever seen...

 

[BoneCrusher]

i came on line this morning to google another look at the merit of the total gym having rememberd getting a kick ass workout from it many yrs ago, and having found this, I can say that i do understand why you'd believe it too be convoluted under the provision of convolution meaning involved and complex or intricate and complicated.
I am getting annoyed at the level of accusation, and while it hardly makes yourselves friendly or communicating on grounds that would have me see you as being respectful, I dont know what else to say to you all. There is an albeit complete philosophy dissertation's worth of hermenuetic behind the perspective I'm trying to share with you all, and I hardly even expect alot of you to understand most of it.


Kelju , this is getting slightly intimate, butt, in the Frued practice of intensive psycho intevention therapy, consistent with scientology auditing and buddhist methods of progressive enlightenment, it's not unusual at times of self confrontation to find oneself respond aggressively or temporarily uncooperative in the assimilation of the new perspective.
I am more than happy to have you lay out your discord or fault my synopsis and would be happy to address your queries surrounding it.

I dont think anyone is of less consequence in the total scheme and i even believe each point of evolutionary growth to be neccessary to maintain the sign posts throughout time for ppl to progress through. Scientologists believe that each onme of those points in a person's personal evolution corresponds to a planet that shares a quantum physical frequency and battles through one's life for ownership of the person in question.

if I have to break my point down to more palletable terms, then I would say that I believe gay is hurt and dissapointed in the performance of the opposite sex in life in general. . and I believe the nature of that discord or abandonment of further compatibility hope is quite similar to what goes on beyond the surface or forefront minds of native assimilation in relationships. Go read about Zion and the river sluts..
I also believe that it's perfectly okay to leave it in god's hands when accepting those circumstances as something to commit to of a relationship.. I just couldn't perrsopnally do it before hell froze over., as couldn't I not follow through in pushing beyond my doubts in the opposite to accept a gay relationship for mysellf as being the best logic I could come up with.

I expect you to lash back at my having said that.. I can talk to you through that though and I do vehmently mean what I've said.
Totally open to your arguement.

Blooming tianshi lotus.

p.s. my elder half sister is black and so is her husband. They've recently divorced after 20 + yrs and 4 kids and hee apparently is still trying to figure out if he likes boys or girls .. as he has been for over 20 yrs.

So now you substitute tpoys adn ysntax errors for a more sophisticated method of obfuscating the subliminal intent underlying your overtly simplistic attempts to congregate a minor thought process out abroad a composite of excessive vowels and consonants organized in a self indulgent mental fantasy world. Your obligation, ostensible to give the thought process a felicitous go, is in essence a mental masturbatory expression of your innate desire to stuff four pounds of bullshit in to a 30 pound bag. The ejaculate of your monotonous manipulation of mankind's highly developed written word is then rendered impotent from the excess of letters and spaces. It is this very energetically worked up collection of unconnected events that color the tapestry of deception you unknowingly created which illustrates that fact that you are bogus and in fact the converse of that impotent ejaculate which you uselessly discharge. You are 30 pounds of shit in a four pound bag.

 

[vortrit]

So now you substitute tpoys adn ysntax errors for a more sophisticated method of obfuscating the subliminal intent underlying your overtly simplistic attempts to congregate a minor thought process out abroad a composite of excessive vowels and consonants organized in a self indulgent mental fantasy world. Your obligation, ostensible to give the thought process a felicitous go, is in essence a mental masturbatory expression of your innate desire to stuff four pounds of bullshit in to a 30 pound bag. The ejaculate of your monotonous manipulation of mankind's highly developed written word is then rendered impotent from the excess of letters and spaces. It is this very energetically worked up collection of unconnected events that color the tapestry of deception you unknowingly created which illustrates that fact that you are bogus and in fact the converse of that impotent ejaculate which you uselessly discharge. You are 30 pounds of shit in a four pound bag.

 

[Blooming Lotus]

So now you substitute tpoys adn ysntax errors for a more sophisticated method of obfuscating the subliminal intent underlying your overtly simplistic attempts to congregate a minor thought process out abroad a composite of excessive vowels and consonants organized in a self indulgent mental fantasy world. Your obligation, ostensible to give the thought process a felicitous go, is in essence a mental masturbatory expression of your innate desire to stuff four pounds of bullshit in to a 30 pound bag. The ejaculate of your monotonous manipulation of mankind's highly developed written word is then rendered impotent from the excess of letters and spaces. It is this very energetically worked up collection of unconnected events that color the tapestry of deception you unknowingly created which illustrates that fact that you are bogus and in fact the converse of that impotent ejaculate which you uselessly discharge. You are 30 pounds of shit in a four pound bag.

Beeing you used so many big words ..

did you just accuse me of lacking passion and being essentially cold because i secretly believe the whole synopsis lacks credence BC?????.. lol.. Laaugh ol... that's great. but quite contraire to be frank with you. Without trying to b.s. and patronise my own concention of the scientific merit of the course, i believe I do have both enough anecdotal and mathematical evidence to prove it's credilbilty .. to myyself at least.. whether I want to get into thaat discussion with certain ppl who mightn't be able to follow the sequity as quickly or not aside.
i think for mental health and scientific correctnesses sakes, it's going to remain a balance of entertaining both unless and until further evidence becomes available. Dont mind my skeptism.. it is there and in a strong and healthy place in it all.
Fuck man. At least i'm honest. The rest.. fuck the rest. in my real mind that is my personal challenge to maintain and balance. withouut mind you prematurely disguarding either without enough evidence either side. unless you have better evidence and or math that says or theorizes why I might like like nottt to continue to pursue on such ( intrapersonal) discourse???? .. eat it up BC. . or just dont bother pretending to play at all. Youu're still hanging in after your own personal b.s. and growth miles, so I'm calling b.s. on you calling b.s.
Given up@). sure we should and did and are going to. thx pal. preciate the support.

p.s. jump on. the weather's great

ooh yes.. and passion is probably nott quite something one might not truthfully use in my description... and if we bring it back to sex,.. then maybe that's whyy it's worth pursuingfrom workouts to condition to flexibilty to life management and iit's consequence. .. no shit. i could nearly blush... just not quite..especially when i'm talking equals.
Worst case scenario - warrior disgrace for trying. i can wear that.( shrug)
boddhisattva vs brahmin. scientology 'clear ' vs angel heaven. all good any way it lands whatever who's calling it. somme one somewhere's got a peaceful afterthought for me. .. so i've heard anyway. . cash in on it for yourr conscious self or the results 'll be out after i die. How to long til we know we've succeeded for a whole life time's worth of walking it anyway? .... lonng term BC . Lonnng term. it's about how we wind it up and end up with?????.. wHat laUrels (shug)?!?..??

 

[Blooming Lotus]

Apparently I'm not really up to date on sci-fi heros but would it help if i said that Kelju is like a cyborg singing to a wookie gone ... whatever that other alien is??...

I was just watching an interview with Darren Hayes from Savage Garden though ( and mind off topic thread whoring ), but he's gay. and he got married in Sydney. ..so i'm wondering if you guys came and got married over here if you might not get married status and rights back hm. If you've already investigated and couldn't get it to work for you then you have my empathy.

Blooming tianshi lotus.

 

[bio-chem]

im pretty sure the states dont recognise those marriages

 

[BoneCrusher]

im pretty sure the states dont recognise those marriages

No more than they recognize an Islamic family that has a husband with four wives.

 

[bio-chem]

No more than they recognize an Islamic family that has a husband with four wives.

agreed.

 

[AKIRA]

Apparently I'm not really up to date on sci-fi heros but would it help if i said that Kelju is like a cyborg singing to a wookie gone ... whatever that other alien is??...

I was just watching an interview with Darren Hayes from Savage Garden though ( and mind off topic thread whoring ), but he's gay. and he got married in Sydney. ..so i'm wondering if you guys came and got married over here if you might not get married status and rights back hm. If you've already investigated and couldn't get it to work for you then you have my empathy.

Blooming tianshi lotus.

.....

What a horrible attempt to thread hijack.

 

[BoneCrusher]

I'd have to connect at a cultural level before I'd be able to look forward in a relationship with a woman. I'm most likely to identify with a woman of the caucasian persuasion for that huge reason alone. I've dated many hispanic women, but never a black woman. That whole subcultureal seperation is more than I want to deal with. Lust was the driving factor in my relationship with hispanic women. I've never felt that with a black woman ... so I guess I'm a socially biased bigot.

Nigger, colored boy down the street, that nigra family blah blah blah was how all the adults around me spoke while I was a lil kid. Regardless of my desire to rise above that I'm still bound to it at some deeper level. I was able to raise my son free of those racist tendencies and it shows in how he choses his friends. He picks the people he hangs with because of their character. I can call that a moral victory of sorts an my behalf I guess but I imagine my next wife, if I ever marry again, will not be black.

 

[AKIRA]

I wont date a white girl if shes dated a black guy and "would again." Call me primitive, but its a major major turnoff.

 

[BoneCrusher]

I wont date a white girl if shes dated a black guy and "would again." Call me primitive, but its a major major turnoff.

I don't like that I feel that way ... but I do. I'm right there with ya ... ain't that fucked up somehow?

 

[AKIRA]

No. Its better.

 

[vortrit]

But on serious note...

I've moved around a lot as a kid and partly through my adulthood. Through the many diverse people I've meet I can only think of one or two black girls that have been even somewhat nice to me. Of course they are now considering dating outside of their race. Most black guys won't even date them. Look around. And now because of that it's now okay to date a white guy. Screw that. I seriously don't think I could date a black girl. Sorry but that's just the way it is.

 

[AKIRA]

I dont know if I could DATE one, but Id certainly fuck one.

Yes, its a one sided street (in case someone responds to my other post)

 

[iMan323]

Generally speaking, it's kind of a win/lose scenario if a black woman dates a white man. Black people in the US are nowhere near as established, educated, employed, or have any significant wealth attached to them. The majority live in a vicious circle-jerk loser culture. They're brought up as failures, and grow up to be failures. So, naturally, to a black woman a white man is an escape. That's why it doesn't quite work the other way around. Not many white guys would date a black girl unless she comes from a similar background.

 

[Little Wing]

KelJu's gay?

No.

 

[maniclion]

I've dated more non-caucasian women in all of my years, in fact I lost my virginity to a black girl. I really don't understand peoples irrational reasoning that they should only stick with people of their own race....I don't care if your family may object, hell my family is mostly racist, my father was the only example of open mindedness in my family, even my mom tried to deny that we had african american genes for years as I was growing up even when my dad would tell me that her grandmother was a black woman.