You have it wrong. That's just your misconception. Men don't want women to be so thin that they can't have T&A. I don't mind a healthy body fat level. You don't have to have a pan flat stomach or anything.
That's nonsense that very few women qualify as being naturally beautiful. Why can't you be beautiful with minor flaws? That's ridiculous. I would much rather see the flaws than the makeup. I've seen plenty of girls without their makeup on, and they always look better without fail.
I don't wish to dictate anything, I just expressed my opinion in response to a question. It's sad that women think they have to live up to some impossible standard of beauty when they don't. There are plenty of men out there that would show you attention if you wore a piece of shit on your head so long as you had some cleavage to go with it. Now that I think about it, that's kind of turning me on...