Fantasize about your mate??

[Pitboss]

Hey my first poll!!!! uhm this year LOL

Okay let's see if I can pull this off in one shot.

Here lies my problem. I have recent come to an end of a up and down relationship. But one that I felt could have, should have been a life together.. better or worse type thing. I know this is the sexual health forum.. I'm getting there.

I have never been so sexually attracted or sexual compatible with anyone else. I have always fantasized about her, sexually. Even when we were together or broken up. I loved watching her get dressed, or undressed. I love just watching her every move and she knew this.

Like I said I fantasized about her. Even when I was home alone and watching .... porn yeah I watch porn so???? Sometimes I would think that the couple of the TV were her and I. Or if there was a threesome she was involved.

Anyhow my point to all this is that everyone that I have asked "do you fantasize about your _____" They general say no.
I mean I have never had sexual thoughts about anyone I was with. Maybe before or after I was with them but not during. Was this not normal or was me fantasizing about my girl while I was with her no normal??

answer the damn poll. This applies to all sexes!!!

 

[maniclion]

Originally posted by Pitboss

Okay let's see if I can pull this off in one shot.

He's lies my problem.

You trying to hint at something?


I just got done watching my gf get out of the shower and I watched as she wiped her body dry, then she wrapped the towel around her head and turned to look in the mirror. The way the setting sun was shining on her ass made it look like silk, she had a drop of water right in the middle of her back so I walked over and kissed it. We have vanilla scented body wash and as I drew away I got a buzz from it, I stood up straight and ran my hands up the side of her thighs to her hips and pulled her towards me bringing my right forearm under her breasts and my left hand right below her navel brushing my fingertips across her welcome mat *poof* then I woke up

 

[Eggs]

I fantasize about my girl... nuff said

 

[PreMier]

Yes, I have. I also fantasize about others mates too! haha

 

[Eggs]

Premier fantazises about anything with two legs, two arms and a head... and the arms and legs are optional

 

[PreMier]

Haha! Thats funny. Because the other day my friend thought it would be cool to have a GF with no arms or legs. So he could "position" her. I thought it was rather sick!

 

[Eggs]

Eww, keep that boy away from the hospital bro!

 

[PreMier]

Yea, I try not to hang around him too much... oddball.

Are you going to start a new journal soon? Or are you going to Sweden? Whats the plan stan!

 

[Eggs]

I'll be in Sweden for the Summer. Plus, with Jenny and I being all close I'll probably not be on IM too much... Jenny will still be around and what not with her journal and I'll probably drop in and say hi, but right now I'm not going to be starting up a new journal or posting alot over the summer. After the Summer is over perhaps I'll rethink that and get a journal going again Good luck with your lifting bud!

 

[PreMier]

Thanks Justin, and be safe in Sweden. If I had a girl like that to hang out with, I would not post much either. Well.. thats a lie because I am at work while I post

 

[Crono1000]

I do. Even if we're watching porn together it's her that I'm focusing on. Being comfortable with her and her knowing my body so well makes me focus entirely on her.

 

[Pitboss]

Okay so far from what I can tell I'm normal!!! yeah!!!

 

[Spitfire]

I dont know if this is the same thing, but there was this girl who, well, she umm... was on my bed and I made a joke about masturbating and she said how she does it bla bla bla... well then made a joke about doing then, and there. well not to say it was the greatest thing that ever happened to me. Now if Im in a situation where I need some encouragement, yeah she is there havin her way with her self. Yeah that was great.

 

[maniclion]

Originally posted by PreMier
Haha! Thats funny. Because the other day my friend thought it would be cool to have a GF with no arms or legs. So he could "position" her. I thought it was rather sick!

A Sit and Spin

 

[Burner02]

 

[Burner02]

Originally posted by PreMier
Haha! Thats funny. Because the other day my friend thought it would be cool to have a GF with no arms or legs. So he could "position" her. I thought it was rather sick!

heh eh..I've got a great joke about that...but its one you tell in person...remind me when we are in Vegas..

 

[Little Wing]

Originally posted by PreMier
Haha! Thats funny. Because the other day my friend thought it would be cool to have a GF with no arms or legs. So he could "position" her. I thought it was rather sick!

Have you seen Boxing Helena? A surgeon does just that Julian Sands is in it.

Genre: Drama / Mystery / Romance / Thriller (more)

Tagline: A deep, dark obsession that bares a woman's body and a man's soul.

Plot Outline: An obsessed doctor captures a former girlfriend, and cuts off her arms and legs.

 

[buff_tat2d_chic]

Usually no.

There is past 'love' from high school that I do think a lot about.

 

[Little Wing]

No I fantatasized about Conan n other such Barbarian type males when I needed an extra kick, but when I was with someone I don't remember fantasizing about them because we were very active in that dept. 2 or 3 x a day.

 

[irontime]

Originally posted by Crono1000
I do.

Ya me too I fantasize about Crono's girlfriend all the time.....too bad I usually end up getting sucked in the hole.

 

[Grant_73]

I have fantasized about my wife's friends. Hell I know we most if not all have fantized about our mate's and one of their attractive friends in a threesome. That is why it is a fantasy. Having sex with one of her friends, or having a threesome will never happen to me.

 

[OceanDude]

Well I was unsure about this poll since it looked to me like a semantic situation and British slang and a setup for humor. "Mate" I interpreted to mean the American equivalent of your "buddy". So I answered "no" but only becuase I could not find an option for "hell no!". Now I am waiting for the poll initiator to come back and say that is precisely what he really meant and that the rest of you that voted "yes" have gay tendencies.

-OD

 

[Grant_73]

Well I was unsure about this poll since it looked to me like a semantic situation and British slang and a setup for humor. "Mate" I interpreted to mean the American equivalent of your "buddy". So I answered "no" but only becuase I could not find an option for "hell no!". Now I am waiting for the poll initiator to come back and say that is precisely what he really meant and that the rest of you that voted "yes" have gay tendencies.

-OD

I have heard in British lingo "mate" refering to friend. I hope in this poll it is refering to your significant other, lover or wife. I hope this is what the poll is about.

 

[Redsol1]

All the time!!!

La'
Redsol1

 

[ZECH]

If you don't fantasize about your partner, what attracted you in the first place? Yes I do!

 

[ALBOB]

Okay so far from what I can tell I'm normal!!!

You? NORMAL??? BWAAAAAAAAAAAAA

Hey DG, thanks for ressurecting this thread. I needed a good laugh.

 

[ZECH]

You? NORMAL??? BWAAAAAAAAAAAAA

Hey DG, thanks for ressurecting this thread. I needed a good laugh.

LOL I thought the same thing!!

 

[OceanDude]

If you don't fantasize about your partner, what attracted you in the first place? Yes I do!

The reality that I would not need to ever fantasize about the perfect woman and I would never again need to worry about money and she looks so good, and smells so nice, and cooks wonderful, and dresses up pretty, and gives nice back rubs seems to really like me and besides she puts up with me?



OD

 

[SJ69]

I usually fantasize about other woman (now that I'm married that's the only way to get some "strange") I always loved the anticipation of the first time with someone new.
I guess I don't fantasize much about my wife because it's laways there, not because there isn't an attraction.
Pitboss, FWIW, IMHO I found that if you always act head over heals with a lady (even, especially, if you are) it causes problems.

 

[f1tness]

No better feeling in the world...

Yeah Pitboss, I'm with you...I never thought it possible to be so deeply infatuated with someone and lust after them even after the "honeymoon" stage until I met my boyfriend of five years...It's the greatest feeling to know you will ALWAYS be that attracted to someone, lust after them, and want them THAT bad, no matter what.

Wow...I suddenly feel a great urgency to call him now and tell him to come home...