having said that, its not always easier being a guy. As you were saying before, theres a stigma about guys having to me manly and all that , but at the same time, there are millions of women who think built men are a turn off, and to make this even weirder for me personally,
my girlfriend likes built guys to look at, but tells me (at 160lbs
) that i am getting too big, because deep down she is actually afraid and intimidated by me - no matter how many times i assure her id never lay a hand on her.
if you can understand whatever i just wrote, you all deserve a medal