Shae said:
Slippers as in a condom?
Hi Shae,
Maybe, but I do not really think, in this instance.
A real good Male friend of mine who NO ONE would think EVER had ANY form of Sexual relationship with another Male, told me when he and I had been drinking, that a Man who was also a DAMN good Bodybuilder as IS he, "made me wear slippers".
To this day (because he told me this a long time ago) I have not been able to figure out what he was telling me or wanting me to know and I do not want to ask him because I do not want to upset him in any way. If it is brought up I want him to tell me BECAUSE HE CAN TRUST ME COMPLETELY. ABSOLUTELY. I THINK he was trying to tell me that he had Sexual relations with this other Man. And that he LIKED what happened with the both of them BUT... I think he WANTS me to UNDERSTAND about it happening and all aspects of why. He told me that this other Man "fucked everybody" (meaning had anal intercourse with everyone - because he emphasized "fucked everybody" - other Males AND Females). This real good Male friend of mine is NOT someone who would WANT someone to do that to him I am pretty sure - he is NOT a Man that would want that happening to him BUT I think he might have been AT THE TIME glad it happened IF it happened but later on felt extreme guilt over the entire incident. My good friend HAS had Sexual relationships with other Males since this and I think even before BUT does NOT EVER want anyone to know about any of it. I think it may have started early on when he was a young teen or even earlier and it may have started out as masturbation only. I think there is a part of him that KNOWS it is right (having Sexual relations with Men) and another part of him, that because of societal damning and religious damning and all the hatred that exists and is directed against Men who have any Sexual relations with other Men even if they LOVE the other Men they are with TRUTHFULLY, is somehow we are TOLD, wrong. I think he is very conflicted about all of it and "lost" and wants help but does not know how to go about it. Yet I think TRUTHFULLY he KNOWS Men having Sex with each other IS RIGHT but can not get past the guilt he feels is thrust upon him and others...
I THINK what happend is that my good friend and this other guy were seeing each other and were working out at this other guys home in the basement together and one thing led to another innocently in all honesty. They BOTH were extremely well built and I know appreciated each other as Men and what they both accomplished. They both were damn good friends.
I have never heard this term "He made me wear slippers" so I was wondering what it means and if anyone has heard this before. And how it is applied.
Take Care, John H.