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ThanksEgoatdoor said:Because they're not used to seeing women, especially smaller women, lifting any serious weights. Hold your head and be proud. You are doing good things for yourself.
I'm not a "starer", but I do notice when a woman is lifting conscientiously. They are few and far between.
Oh gush, don't even get me started on men and their insecurities.Emma-Leigh said:Because the guys are SCARED that the bigger women will show them up!!
Don't let it get to you- it is just a reflection of their insecurities.
How do you measure things out after they are ecooked? For example if I make a rice/chicken/veggie thing all in one pot, do you just pick out the chicken later andmeasure it, then pick ot rice and measure it..etc. or do you just cok it all seperately?Emma-Leigh said:this is what I do - I make 3 of my meals on the weekend do I can have easy access to them during the week. My fridge is like a tupperware warehouse!
Oh you should NOT be offended. It's soooooo disrespectful! I mean if they want to make a nice compliment that's one thing, but this is just rude and degrading.Emma-Leigh said:That's dodgy... I have no idea why they do it either. Many of my friends get this type of behaviour too, but luckily they seem not to target me! (I often wonder if that is a good thing or if I should be offended! ).
Yeah, I just ignore them. Don't really want to find out that next thing that caomes out of their mouth if I say something.I don't know what you could do. The best solution would be to either confront them (just tell them straight out it is not on) or try to ignore them (The more they get you to react the more likely they will continue it).
Hey!Jenny said:Hey Katia!
Things look good in here Sorry about the nasty men in NYC When I was there a month ago I noticed the same thing, though I was kinda flattered Guess if you live there and go through it everyday it's different though!
Keep working hard
Katia7 said:Diet:
1/2c kamut flakes
1/2T ground flaxseed
1T rice protein
4oz tilapia
1/2c kamut spaggheti
griled zuchini
2 flax oil
soy sauce (2T)
2 egg whites
1egg
1/4c feta
1/4c low sodium canned tomatoe
1/2c raisins
1/c oat bran flakes cereal
1/2c lentils
3oz chicken (raw)
1/2c millet
Total: 1271cals P:100g C:175g F:25g Fiber:27g
Hmmm.... Romanian DLs would just pose the same problem (fatigue)... You could try good mornings?? That way the bar is on your back and the weight is not in your arms (the bar sits low on your traps - not high like when you do back squats).Compound circuit x 3 (6-8 reps)
SLDL
6 x 30+EZbar
11 x 40 (sed 2 20lb DBs)
5 x 20+EZbar
I'm not sure what to do here? My hands fatigue faster then the hams/lower back.
LOL - It is not pathetic - it is hard for you and that is what matters! You'll get there! Soon you'll be doing them on your toes and with one arm!Knee Pushups
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How patheric!
Cardio: 30 min elliptical Had no energy for HIIT
I knowEmma-Leigh said:Where did your protein and fats go?? No fishies?? 25g fat is really, really not enough for you Katia!! You will make yourself hungry (same with the lower protein intake - it will also make you hungry)... and you know what that means...
Hunger leads to snacking... leads to dessert... leads to guilt.... leads to starving yourself the next day.... leads to hunger... leads to snacking... leading to DESSERT!!
You have to get off the cycle - feed yourself during the day and you will not get hungry during the night! Which means you will not feel as tempted by dessert.
And oatbran flakes and raisins??But
I thought you couldn't eat either of these missy?
What will your doctor say??
Oats I can have once in a while (just not on daily basis) and raisis... he said it's fine to have a little bit of fructose if I really want something sweet, just to stay away from the "bad sugar". Are raisins bad for fat loss though?
I can do pulley hip trusters and glute-ham raisesHmmm.... Romanian DLs would just pose the same problem (fatigue)... You could try good mornings?? That way the bar is on your back and the weight is not in your arms (the bar sits low on your traps - not high like when you do back squats).
Or else - try one legged SLDLs. But still hold the DBs or bar with two hands - that way you use the same upper body strength to hold the weight, but you halve the lower body...
You could also try glute-ham raises... Or what about pulley hip thrusters?Are hyperextensions the same thing as then glute-ham raises? The seat thing is a bit more at an angle reather then horisontal.
I know.LOL - It is not pathetic - it is hard for you and that is what matters! You'll get there! Soon you'll be doing them on your toes and with one arm! :thumb
But if you want to get stronger you have to feed your muscles a little more.![]()
I bought more food this time so it should last me the whole week. So no more eating out!
I've always waned to be able to do pushups! And one arm pushups..OMG I WISH!
I know you don't think so - but I believe part of the reason for this is because you are half starving yourself!
You really need to reassess things in terms of your eating... Don't deprive yourself so much! Don't get so hung up on counting your vegetables....
If you are not comfortable with higher calories every day then, as I suggested, why not increase cals (on purpose and not due to binge eating) every 4th or 5th day? You could do it on your workout days!
Even if it something very small like:
Mon- kickboxing class + circuit (HIGHER INTAKE - 1400/1500)
Tues- step cass (NORMAL - 1300)
Wed- circuit (NORMAL - 1300)
Thurs- REST (SLIGHTLY LOWER - 1200)
Fri- circuit + HIIT (HIGHER INTAKE - 1400/1500)
Sat- Spinning (NORMAL - 1300)
Sun- REST (SLIGHTLY LOWER - 1200)
You should give yourself a 'treat' each week as well - maybe on the friday? When you know you have done a good workout and you are more psychologically comfortable with it....
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I do believe you, my stomach is just retarted sometimes, so it's hard to get more food in when it is already bloated. I've been eating aaaay over 1500 last week on most days (not all healthy either), but I cooked enough food to last me the whole week, so I'm all set.
If you are having cravings then eat! Just eat something healthy - if you are going to eat fruit (raisins) then just eat REAL fruit - An apple would be a better option, so would some blueberries with some cinnamon and goats yoghurt.Katia7 said:I'm still having cravings...grrrrr. So I tried to replace them with more healthier things (the cereal and raisins). I've also been eating waaaay over 1500 cals last week, so I thought a lower day would balance it out just a little.![]()
Oats I can have once in a while (just not on daily basis) and raisis... he said it's fine to have a little bit of fructose if I really want something sweet, just to stay away from the "bad sugar". Are raisins bad for fat loss though?
No - hyperextensions are completely different. If you look at the glute-ham raises again you see that the movement involves bending at the knee (and not really at the hip) while your hypers bend at the hip...I can do pulley hip trusters and glute-ham raisesAre hyperextensions the same thing as then glute-ham raises? The seat thing is a bit more at an angle reather then horizontal.
Good to seeI know.I bought more food this time so it should last me the whole week. So no more eating out!
I've always waned to be able to do pushups! And one arm pushups..OMG I WISH!
Just TELL yourself you will do it! Don't let yourself get away with cheating and weaseling out of being sensible with your diet and training...I do believe you, my stomach is just retarted sometimes, so it's hard to get more food in when it is already bloated. I've been eating aaaay over 1500 last week on most days (not all healthy either), but I cooked enough food to last me the whole week, so I'm all set.
Oh YUM! Ok I'll do that.Emma-Leigh said:If you are having cravings then eat! Just eat something healthy - if you are going to eat fruit (raisins) then just eat REAL fruit - An apple would be a better option, so would some blueberries with some cinnamon and goats yoghurt.![]()
Like the table sugar (not fructose).Also - if you try to 'make up' for overeating, what will start to happen is that you start a 'binge purge' cycle... You eat too little and so you 'break out' and binge - and then you starve yourself to 'punish' yourself - and then you 'break out' again. You have to stop the cycle and that starts with you eating sensibly every day, regardless if you 'binged' a few days ago.
what does he consider are the 'bad sugars'?
Next time that's what I'll doRaisins are not 'bad' - but 0.5 cups is ~70-75g, which is ~230 cals (55g carbs and 5g fibre) so they are very calorie dense and you have to really be careful of amounts! If you compare 0.5 cups of blueberries (which is ~40 cals and 10g carbs) then you can see that the blueberries would have been a better option.
No - hyperextensions are completely different. If you look at the glute-ham raises again you see that the movement involves bending at the knee (and not really at the hip) while your hypers bend at the hip...
If you don't have a glute-ham bench then you can use the lat pull down (which he is doing in the video) or the seated calf machine.
OKI'll do that. We also have the lying leg press machine, would that work also? I LOVE that machine, so I was just wondering.
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Which muscle am I working with these exercises? I think I can do the
It's getting a little easier nowGood to seeif you don't give yourself excuses to 'cheat' then you can't cheat as easily!
And you'll get there with the push ups - you know what they say "if you want to do a lot of push ups - you have to do a lot of push ups!"So keep practicing!
Just TELL yourself you will do it! Don't let yourself get away with cheating and weaseling out of being sensible with your diet and training...
Maybe set yourself up a 'breaking the habit' challange? It takes ~21 days to break/make a habit so once you get through those first 21 days it is A LOT easier to stick to it...I think the cravings were coming from the visitor.
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Are you training in a gym where people are not taking the weights off the bar when they are done? If so, that is bad gym etiquette and rude. Do the managers and gym staff know about this? Unfortunately, if its a Ballys, they don't care.Katia7 said:Squats Are there any ther exercises that wil sub for squats? I can't use the smit machine and the squat rack always has these REALLY heavy weights on it and it's almost always busy.
Again, the dumbbell racks should be marked and people should be RETURNING the dumbbells to the racks when they are done...if this a problem and there are not enough benches, are there other gyms you can train at?The gym was sooooo ubelievably full that there was no way I could do weights. I couldn't find any of the DBs I needed and all the benches were full and had people waiting for them. I'm not sure what to do about that![]()
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Unfortunately notEgoatdoor said:Are you training in a gym where people are not taking the weights off the bar when they are done? If so, that is bad gym etiquette and rude. Do the managers and gym staff know about this? Unfortunately, if its a Ballys, they don't care.
Again, the dumbbell racks should be marked and people should be RETURNING the dumbbells to the racks when they are done...if this a problem and there are not enough benches, are there other gyms you can train at?