Yes, I am kind of an asshole, that is for sure. But, in my defense I dated this guy that was smoking hot, had a penis, and made me wait a really long time for sex saying he had only been with a few guys and wanted to make sure it was more than just dating/sex. Not a problem, I down with that. Dated for like a month and finally I got some and it wasn't good at all. I have a normal length, fairly girthy member, and this guy so circumcised that I just couldn't see myself in a relationship at all. Now, he was emotionally invested and I was the asshole! he was pissed and thought "once I got what I wanted I bailed." Terrible situation. I want to avoid that at all costs, so normally if a guy is making me wait more than a few dates then I start to wonder how it will play out.
I tried to ask him about the child circumcision even told him about this guy in my office that is jew and trying to decide if c-sion is right for him, and I thinking he would offer up some insight about his situation. Nothing.
See, I don't want to waste his time or get him emotions involved, so this is not just about me being shallow.
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