How do you guys deal with bullies?

[lucifuge]

IMO, fighting at school is pure ignorance. The best course here is to really just ignore the jackhole... when he says shit, just kinda smile, look him in the eye and walk away. Don't get mad, if he knows he's getting to you, he'll just keep it up. However, if you simply cannot deal with his mouth any longer, you find him outside of school. it doesn't matter if he leaves earlier than you, if it's really that important to you, you'll find a way. Track his ass down, or even wait for him and put the boots to him.

 

[mike456]

what if it is a little kid that is bullying you like half your size (literally) and about two years younger, you know you can whoop his ass, and he knows you can whoop his ass, he punches you and acts tough towards you (but the punches dont bother you), but it makes you look bad infront of other people, do you beat him up, do you beat the shit out of the little kid?????????

 

[AKIRA]

Actaully, a friend of mine had to deal with exactly that. My friend is 6'1..the kid..5'5. About a 30lb weight difference too. 2 years younger. When we realized who he was going to fight, we thought it was a joke. But. Apparently, my friend implored that this lil kid was a lil bastard that just wouldnt quit.

 

[mike456]

Actaully, a friend of mine had to deal with exactly that. My friend is 6'1..the kid..5'5. About a 30lb weight difference too. 2 years younger. When we realized who he was going to fight, we thought it was a joke. But. Apparently, my friend implored that this lil kid was a lil bastard that just wouldnt quit.

how old were each of them... did he woop his ass?

 

[AKIRA]

My friend was 17 or 18. The kid was 15. It was a planned after school fight too, with lots of people. Pathetic, yes, but it was pretty funny. And no he didnt woop his ass. He won, just not like GSP's last win.

 

[BigDyl]

Yes, I have a pplied to a few colleges at this time and waiting for their response, which is part of the problem.

Request denied.

 

[BigDyl]

Here's what you do:


Provoke him so he trys at shoot at you with a wrestler style single leg takedown. Counter with uchi kari "karo" style, and throw his ass on the ground. Get to mount position and take your pick of submissions from there.

 

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Here's what you do:


Provoke him so he trys at shoot at you with a wrestler style single leg takedown. Counter with uchi kari "karo" style, and throw his ass on the ground. Get to mount position and take your pick of submissions from there.

Do you mean for him to position his ass up in the air??

 

[Sexybeast777]

Man , call him out... I used to love knocking out bullies. Seriously, right in front of all his buddies just tell him what a bitch he is etc. Then make a meeting place for after school and tell everyone to show up so the fight is fair and then rock him old school. Thats how we ended all our beefs when I was in Highschool. You will get your satisfaction and its usually the final word so to speak if everyone witneses it.... Plus now he has to show up or look like the bitch he is. Then it will be done, he wont ever say shit again and you will have the respect you deserve.

You are a true tough guy, in life you gotta be a man, earn your respect, that's what life is all about, and even if you lose a fight, you'll still earn your respect. No one knows how good it feels, to fight for your honor, to win a fight...lol...it's the best feeling in the world, it's even better than sex...

 

[Sexybeast777]

what if it is a little kid that is bullying you like half your size (literally) and about two years younger, you know you can whoop his ass, and he knows you can whoop his ass, he punches you and acts tough towards you (but the punches dont bother you), but it makes you look bad infront of other people, do you beat him up, do you beat the shit out of the little kid?????????

You talk first, in a serious manner, you ask him to stop, you try to intimidate him, making it clear that it's not funny...He doesn't stop, you pop him in the face, hard, or you get him in a head lock and choke him until he is desperate for air, then let him go...
I did that once to a bully, and it felt good..he turned purple...

 

[Sexybeast777]

Btw, bullying can go on anywhere, not just in middle school and high school, it can happen to grown adults, to old people, at work, it can happen to women, women can be bullies too...etc

 

[largepkg]

Dear God!

 

[ponyboy]

Bullies are generally the same - step up to them and they will back down like a big pussy. Next time you hear him talking shit just simply walk right up to him through all of his friends, look him straight in the face and dare him to say it again right to your face. He won't. Then laugh in his face and walk away and he'll look like a little bitch in front of all of his friends. If he says anything as you're walking away, turn around and do it again. And again. He'll shut up eventually or get sick of looking like an idiot every time and find easier pickings.

Embarassing a bully, especially in front of all of their friends is the best way to turn the tables and get them to STFU. Bullying is all about power. Take it away and they have nothing.

 

[Double D]

I say you hit him with the good ole traditional, FTB! (Flying tea bag).

 

[goandykid]

Bullies are generally the same - step up to them and they will back down like a big pussy. Next time you hear him talking shit just simply walk right up to him through all of his friends, look him straight in the face and dare him to say it again right to your face. He won't. Then laugh in his face and walk away and he'll look like a little bitch in front of all of his friends. If he says anything as you're walking away, turn around and do it again. And again. He'll shut up eventually or get sick of looking like an idiot every time and find easier pickings.

Embarassing a bully, especially in front of all of their friends is the best way to turn the tables and get them to STFU. Bullying is all about power. Take it away and they have nothing.

I like that.

 

[Burner02]

Bullies are generally the same - step up to them and they will back down like a big pussy. Next time you hear him talking shit just simply walk right up to him through all of his friends, look him straight in the face and dare him to say it again right to your face. He won't. Then laugh in his face and walk away and he'll look like a little bitch in front of all of his friends. If he says anything as you're walking away, turn around and do it again. And again. He'll shut up eventually or get sick of looking like an idiot every time and find easier pickings.

Embarassing a bully, especially in front of all of their friends is the best way to turn the tables and get them to STFU. Bullying is all about power. Take it away and they have nothing.

Think we've got the winning post here.
Turn the tables on him in front of his friends and all in ear shot...either put up or shut up...

 

[mike456]

Bullies are generally the same - step up to them and they will back down like a big pussy. Next time you hear him talking shit just simply walk right up to him through all of his friends, look him straight in the face and dare him to say it again right to your face. He won't. Then laugh in his face and walk away and he'll look like a little bitch in front of all of his friends. If he says anything as you're walking away, turn around and do it again. And again. He'll shut up eventually or get sick of looking like an idiot every time and find easier pickings.

Embarassing a bully, especially in front of all of their friends is the best way to turn the tables and get them to STFU. Bullying is all about power. Take it away and they have nothing.

this isn't a disney movie

 

[pengers84]

Just ignore him, bullies aren't worth the time. Six years ago when I was at school I woud have let it bother me but I've come to realise that the people who bully are mostly insecure types who are not happy with who they are and take it out on others. These sorts may be popular and respected in high school but afterwards are usually the ones addicted to drugs and unemployed. These sorts of people are not worth getting in trouble for. Just swallow your pride and put your enegy into something constructive.

 

[ponyboy]

this isn't a disney movie

No - if it was a Disney movie then music would stop and the entire school would appear behind the guy getting bullied. The bully would see he was outnumbered and decide to have a change of heart, start crying and apologize, and the guy being bullied would hug him and the music would swell. Then they would go share a glass of milk and pet their dogs who can play basketball and dancing rats would jump and sing. Good family fun.

 

[Sexybeast777]

I have been bullied in the past, but at the same time, I was a bully too at one point...Let's face it guys, we've all been bullied at one point or another AND we have been bullies also in the past too...Don't lie!
....It was fun though, but I would never do it again..lol...

 

[BigDyl]

I have been bullied in the past, but at the same time, I was a bully too at one point...Let's face it guys, we've all been bullied at one point or another AND we have been bullies also in the past too...Don't lie!
....It was fun though, but I would never do it again..lol...

I'm a bully killer son.

 

[big native]

okay here's my story.
I been bullied before at some points and I was a bully 2.
Yeah, one time, I just got tired of being bullied I didn't give a shit about his bro's and I bumped my way 2 him and just stare him in the eye and said "I'm not afraid of you anymore, what you gonna do? Punch me? Well go ahead then do it. or i will". So I did smoked him out 4 good. He was one of the toughest guys in the school. Oh what i mean by "smoked" I meant by being punched out.
Yeah, don't let any1 push you around.
But you gotta be smart about it.

 

[zombul]

I have no reason to lie to you man when I was in school I was probably considered a bully.I think I had self esteem problems so I started fights because it made me feel like I had some respect.If someone didn't like being "bullied" and stood up to me than we would fight because I had to much pride to loose.So keep in mind when you call him out he may take you up on it.I have been there and am telling you the brutal truth.
I think I have changed drastically now and honestly feel bad about alot of things I done to kids in school.I remember one kid not wanting to fight me so I made him get on his knees and ask me not to hit him and I done this in front of everyone.The funny thing is that this kid probably had 50lbs on me and I don't even know if I could have taken him,but I knew he was scared and that was all I needed.At the time that was cool and now I think of how degrading it was.Not to go on and on but the shit bothers me every damn day man,I think of being forced to my knees in front of my girlfriend or being embarrased in front of my friends.That stuff probably scarred them for life,it has me.I would love to see some of those guys and treat them right but I am sure they hate my guts for being the way I was.So avoid the situation man and it will have all blown over by the time that reunion rolls around.

 

[BigDyl]

I have no reason to lie to you man when I was in school I was probably considered a bully.I think I had self esteem problems so I started fights because it made me feel like I had some respect.If someone didn't like being "bullied" and stood up to me than we would fight because I had to much pride to loose.So keep in mind when you call him out he may take you up on it.I have been there and am telling you the brutal truth.
I think I have changed drastically now and honestly feel bad about alot of things I done to kids in school.I remember one kid not wanting to fight me so I made him get on his knees and ask me not to hit him and I done this in front of everyone.The funny thing is that this kid probably had 50lbs on me and I don't even know if I could have taken him,but I knew he was scared and that was all I needed.At the time that was cool and now I think of how degrading it was.Not to go on and on but the shit bothers me every damn day man,I think of being forced to my knees in front of my girlfriend or being embarrased in front of my friends.That stuff probably scarred them for life,it has me.I would love to see some of those guys and treat them right but I am sure they hate my guts for being the way I was.So avoid the situation man and it will have all blown over by the time that reunion rolls around.

True Story. One of these guys have probably taken your experiences and become some unstoppable MMA fighter, or alternatively became a depressed emo, but who are still just as capable with a gun. One of them will get revenge one day. I know I would.

 

[zombul]

True Story. One of these guys have probably taken your experiences and become some unstoppable MMA fighter, or alternatively became a depressed emo, but who are still just as capable with a gun. One of them will get revenge one day. I know I would.

When BigDyl got on his knees in school it was in the locker room and it wasn't to fight.

 

[BigDyl]

 

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When BigDyl got on his knees in school it was in the locker room and it wasn't to fight.

 

[zombul]

 

[Sexybeast777]

okay here's my story.
I been bullied before at some points and I was a bully 2.
Yeah, one time, I just got tired of being bullied I didn't give a shit about his bro's and I bumped my way 2 him and just stare him in the eye and said "I'm not afraid of you anymore, what you gonna do? Punch me? Well go ahead then do it. or i will". So I did smoked him out 4 good. He was one of the toughest guys in the school. Oh what i mean by "smoked" I meant by being punched out.
Yeah, don't let any1 push you around.
But you gotta be smart about it.

Aleast someone is honest. Tell us your stories about being a bully.....Did you enjoy it, was it pleasurable??...Come on, be honest, we all have done it..It's true...
lol!

 

[Sexybeast777]

I have no reason to lie to you man when I was in school I was probably considered a bully.I think I had self esteem problems so I started fights because it made me feel like I had some respect.If someone didn't like being "bullied" and stood up to me than we would fight because I had to much pride to loose.So keep in mind when you call him out he may take you up on it.I have been there and am telling you the brutal truth.
I think I have changed drastically now and honestly feel bad about alot of things I done to kids in school.I remember one kid not wanting to fight me so I made him get on his knees and ask me not to hit him and I done this in front of everyone.The funny thing is that this kid probably had 50lbs on me and I don't even know if I could have taken him,but I knew he was scared and that was all I needed.At the time that was cool and now I think of how degrading it was.Not to go on and on but the shit bothers me every damn day man,I think of being forced to my knees in front of my girlfriend or being embarrased in front of my friends.That stuff probably scarred them for life,it has me.I would love to see some of those guys and treat them right but I am sure they hate my guts for being the way I was.So avoid the situation man and it will have all blown over by the time that reunion rolls around.

That guy will get you someday...Just be a man about it, let him punch you in the face once, and let him go, you know you deserve it for being such a f*cking asshole