A very big physical disadvantage, along with the fact that I meant what I said when I threatened him. I'm extremly easy to piss off when it comes to disrespectful shit like that. Especialy when I heard her tell him to leave her alone multiple times. I'm a body builder, I've been doing it for 10 years and I'm not saying I'm a ufc fighter or some street bad ass, but if your engaged you should be ready to stand up for your relationship, and especialy ready to prove the point that no means no when someone doesn't get the message. And personally 9 times out of 10 people never want to screw with the big guy, but not always. If it comes down to it, the day guns were created it made everyone capable of using one equal. I personally don't believe in using guns to solve problems, but I'd be lying if I said I don't think about the possibility of being shot for threating someone who is at a disadvantage. But on topic I'm half asleep and long story short, if your girl doesn't know when to say no to attention she isn't ready for anything long term, chances are if she wants someone elses attention, its giving the guy more of an urge to keep pursueing and eventualy she's gonna cheat on your ass. But then again I'm not Dr. Phil.
Ease off the caffeine. Just because you're a bodybuilder doesn't mean squat (no pun intended). I'm a bodybuilder as well, and I'm pretty certain there are several bbers just as big as you or me. Ever hear of retard rage? I capitalize on it.
I've been a bouncer for well over 15 years, and can probably count the amount of times I've used force. It isnt necessary mostly, especially with dealing with beer muscle. But then you get some asshole who thinks, just because he can bench a house, he's strong. I could probably think of 5 different ways to destroy you and your theory in the midst of a confrontation.
As for threatening me, that shit would only work in movies. I've seen my co-workers dismantle giants with ease and they only stand well under 6 ft.
I don't like violence, in fact, I abhor it. I'm a well read, educated business owner and former teacher. If someone wants to confront me with their hands, that's a very bad move, because we both risk getting arrested, but there also times when someone needs a lesson taught.
Deity, I mean you no disrespect, but you need to remember one very important factor; there will ALWAYS be someone better than you. It's how you handle it that separates you from the asshole.