Motivation...hmmm well for me, I look at myself, I am 22 and lost in life. I have no idea where I am going in life , but I work in a call center with people of all different ages and size. The majority of them are content with sitting in a chair and eating donuts, chips, and getting up to go have a ciggerette, then *****ing about there life, or talking about web porn. I cant see myself living a life like that, there is so much to do, so much to expereince. This is what got me in the gym, because i didnt want to end up that way. I mean thats them, and im not trying to down them, but i couldnt be happy with that lifestyle. Once i went to the gym for about two weeks, and started a good diet, i couldnt see any dramatic changes, but i felt alot better, physically and mentally. I have been going ever since. I use the gym for motivation with life. I am a real shy person, quite. When your in the gym, its a nice feeling, everyone is there to do the same thing "Improve" themselves. I have gained alot of respect for myself, and have become more open and outspoken because of the gym. Confidence comes with time I have learned.
You said about the magazines and things of that nature. Put those to use, dont just look at the pictures, try to read the articles and before you know it, you will be in the gym. You mentioned girls, trust me, get in the gym and you will have girls. Its amazing how many stares you get when your at the mall, or out. Its a great feeling and once you have experienced, you will be in the gym everyday
One downfall, some girls are intimidated by size and strength.
I say you owe it to yourself. Even if it feels like a hassle, Go to the gym! Give your self and your body a month of it and good dieting, and if you dont like it then you know its not for you, but i bet you will love it. Sorry for rambling I hope that you will find your own motivation like i did. Man its a short life, so take advantage of it. Get to the gym..
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