oh and Robert taught me a year long valuable lesson for which I feel is also a gift...you see, it isnt how much you can ridicule someone, even though it easy. Someone needs to turn the other cheek once in a while. If a wrong is being done, talk the wrongdoer. See if he can see the err of his or her way. You'l be better for it, and that person will feel better that you cared about the person. That will go a long way in showing people that feelings matter, and that although sticks and stones can indeed break bones, names hurt just as much.