Need some serious advice.....please help!

[DOMS]

I behaved myself. Although I did get back to back with her ass trying to pop her back/neck. And I saw her crack!

So, I've gotta ask: Did she posses crack with the intent to distribute?

 

[BoneCrusher]

I behaved myself. Although I did get back to back with her ass trying to pop her back/neck. And I saw her crack!

So you had a shot at her crack and didn't smoke it? Wud up wif dat? You gettin' too old for the game bro?

 

[Flex]

well, she fuckin' IM'd me AGAIN (after I have repeatedly asked her to "please stop talking to me for my own sake......in time we'll be friends)

this time it was about our mutual friend who I met her through years ago.
See, our mutual friend, Mike, unbeknownst to me, had nearly the same thing happen to him that happened to me.
He said she was dating some guy, and they started hanging out/fooling around, and he feel for her. Eventually she broke his heart.

So anyways, I got an IM yesterday saying "I know you talked to Mike, and you can believe anything you want, but his situation and our situation was totally different............you're away message of "beauty is only skin deep" hurts my feelings" yadda yadda.

so i went back and wrote a few things i felt like i needed to get off my chest.

anyways.......help guys, i'm losing my f'ing mind!

 

[ZECH]

So, I've gotta ask: Did she posses crack with the intent to distribute?

I think she might. Time will tell.

 

[fUnc17]

well, she fuckin' IM'd me AGAIN (after I have repeatedly asked her to "please stop talking to me for my own sake......in time we'll be friends)

this time it was about our mutual friend who I met her through years ago.
See, our mutual friend, Mike, unbeknownst to me, had nearly the same thing happen to him that happened to me.
He said she was dating some guy, and they started hanging out/fooling around, and he feel for her. Eventually she broke his heart.

So anyways, I got an IM yesterday saying "I know you talked to Mike, and you can believe anything you want, but his situation and our situation was totally different............you're away message of "beauty is only skin deep" hurts my feelings" yadda yadda.

so i went back and wrote a few things i felt like i needed to get off my chest.

anyways.......help guys, i'm losing my f'ing mind!

stop talking to her, cut all communications off. your gunna drive yourself up a wall

 

[fletcher6490]

I went through something similar to this also, just like any guy who has been in a relationship. We broke up, I was upset and then I kept trying to talk to her and meet her hoping that things would go back to the way they were...BAD MOVE. I just kept getting fucked with, over and over again. She was all I could think about every day and night and it sucked, all I could do was try and figure out what I did wrong and how I could of done things differently. Then one night in a drunken rampage because she was being a complete bitch I called her some names you don't call a girl and that was the final straw. After that she would not talk to me at all, which actually was the best thing to happen. After a few months of not seeing or talking to her I got over the whole thing. I could finally sleep again and started to actually try and bang new chicks.

If you keep up the communication you will never get over her because you will always think that you still have a shot at reviving the relationship. Call her a whore and a cunt so she won't talk to you again, you'll feel better about yourself afterwards and she probably won't talk to you again for a long time.
It's an asshole move but it's something that works and is much easier than weaning yourself slowly away from contact with her.

 

[maniclion]

well, she fuckin' IM'd me AGAIN (after I have repeatedly asked her to "please stop talking to me for my own sake......in time we'll be friends)

this time it was about our mutual friend who I met her through years ago.
See, our mutual friend, Mike, unbeknownst to me, had nearly the same thing happen to him that happened to me.
He said she was dating some guy, and they started hanging out/fooling around, and he feel for her. Eventually she broke his heart.

So anyways, I got an IM yesterday saying "I know you talked to Mike, and you can believe anything you want, but his situation and our situation was totally different............you're away message of "beauty is only skin deep" hurts my feelings" yadda yadda.

so i went back and wrote a few things i felt like i needed to get off my chest.

anyways.......help guys, i'm losing my f'ing mind!

Let me say this: You thought she was the "one", but I'll tell you that when you find the one you won't even know it...you were with this one what 4 months? When you find the one 4 months will turn into 4 years before you're eyes

 

[BigDyl]

Let me say this: You thought she was the "one", but I'll tell you that when you find the one you won't even know it...you were with this one what 4 months? When you find the one 4 months will turn into 4 years before you're eyes

It certainly has for us.

 

[CRASHMAN]

 

[Flex]

If you keep up the communication you will never get over her because you will always think that you still have a shot at reviving the relationship. Call her a whore and a cunt so she won't talk to you again, you'll feel better about yourself afterwards and she probably won't talk to you again for a long time.
It's an asshole move but it's something that works and is much easier than weaning yourself slowly away from contact with her.

You are DEAD right, but against all of my friends advice, I called her tonite anyways after I got home to a pretty mean message from her.

I'm going to have to handle being heartbroken for a while, but I couldn't handle hating her, and she having negative feelings towards me, because I geniunely care about her as a person. So that's why I called, and it actually worked out well (for now).
I was able to get a bunch of shit off my chest (no, noone took a dump on my chest), and we were able to squash all the petty bullshit that we were stupidly argueing about over instant messanger.

I said I want to be friends in the future b/c I genuinely care about her, but she said she didn't know cuz it'd be kinda ackward. That hurt, but we did leave it at no hard feelings, and say goodbye and good luck on a postive note.

I have accepted she's not coming back, and thing's will not go back to the way they were, so not i guess it's just time to grieve a little and move on.

If only this fuckin clomid would be done with already!

I appreciate everyone's help, advice and concern, so keep it comin!