Nikos,
As a Greek proud of your heritage, do you find yourself historically speaking more attracted to the active penetrator or passive penetrated role related to the active or passive polarization aspects of ancient Greek culture?
Homosexuality in ancient Greece - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Young man and teenager engaging in
intercrural sex, fragment of a
black-figure Attic cup, 550 BC?525 BC,
Louvre
In
classical antiquity, writers such as
Herodotus,[SUP]
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Plato,[SUP]
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Xenophon,[SUP]
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Athenaeus[SUP]
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same-sex love in ancient Greece. The most widespread and socially significant form of same-sex sexual relations in ancient Greece was between adult men and pubescent or adolescent boys, known as
pederasty (marriages in Ancient Greece between men and women were also age structured, with men in their 30s commonly taking wives in their early teens). Though homosexual relationships between adult men did exist, at least one member of each of these relationships flouted social conventions by assuming a passive sexual role. It is unclear how such relations between women were regarded in the general society, but examples do exist as far back as the time of
Sappho.[SUP]
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The ancient Greeks did not conceive of
sexual orientation as a social identifier as Western societies have done for the past century. Greek society did not distinguish sexual desire or behavior by the gender of the participants, but rather by the role that each participant played in the sex act, that of active penetrator or passive penetrated.[SUP]
[5][/SUP] This active/passive polarization corresponded with dominant and submissive social roles: the active (penetrative) role was associated with masculinity, higher social status, and adulthood, while the passive role was associated with femininity, lower social status, and youth.[SUP]
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