Relationship ISSUE , abuse?

[adamatiron]

I try my best to be healthy in mind & body but my partner makes it difficult ,...
before marriage She put on the show that she's interested in fitness , exercise , harmony in intimate life,...
after few weeks She let me find out pretty brutally ( calling me various bad names & things ) that ,...
She hates everything about - physical and/or mental health - or intimacy ,...
I could not watch nothing where are any - in shape woman ,... even TV commercials!
no : fitness , bodybuilding - magazines or Webster,...
no : sport contests , music or exercise show's ,...
- just because contain people who care about themselves
I could not listen even songs where is a soft - feminine , woman voice or lyrics about love life
She is inactive and zero partner or friend to me ,...
because She is so conservative - prude - ,... She does not dress, move or behave like feminine woman should - and
intimate life is "in coma" ,... She does not let me do foreplay - shut down my music , candle, massages , slow moves ,... and just rush me - pump and go ,...????
She is telling me that she's ok ,... with a large group of girlfriends backing her up
but I feel the opposite
I'm just wondering there are many "walking in this shoe's" ?
I really appreciate Your opinions
Thank You

 

[tucker01]

sucks to be you sucker Hahahaha

 

[GFR]

Rule #1 use a condom, every time with this bitch
Rule #2 Get a divorce , go to the lawyer TODAY.
Rule #3 Get a divorce...now

 

[Twigz]

As a police office I have delt with this before. She is not OK. She is controlling you, and has selfesteme issue that she is making into your fault. You are not the one that needs help. She needs to get proffesional help. I would incurage you to seek some counseling as well so that they can explain what you can do to keep your self sane. They may also be able to help you to get her to strt getting some help. i hate to tell you this but f you just let it slide it will get worse, and you probably won't notice until its to late to change it. She will subtally impose more restrictioins on you, and demean you until she has broken your spirit, and you pretty much just do as she says to avoid conflict.

I am sorry for you in this situation, but please find a phy doctor to help you threw this asap.

 

[GFR]

Don't seek counseling, just be a man and get the hell out.
She is a lier and disrespects you, its time to move on and enjoy life.

 

[P-funk]

I agree, fuck counseling. That chick has gone postal!! You need to get the hell out.....NOW!!

 

[min0 lee]

She sounds like a keeper.

 

[naturaltan]

I hope this is a first post joke ... if not, it's time to re-evaluate the situation and ....................... run fast and far.

 

[Jenny]

Yeah, that's just not a way to live.. Get out now!

 

[Little Wing]

hmmmm. i think you need to LEAVE HER.

 

[adamatiron]

Thank You all for suggestions

I grew it up to be very expendable,... all my life ,...
I was use to do by myself and do not expect so,...
- She does not to clean the house evens she's pets do a huge amount of mess , do not need to wash dishes ,
- She does not need to do laundry or
food - I do everything myself and - really happy ! ! ! -
I just want some friendship and partnership , growing , leaning and improving in the relationship !
- So after the first part of big scam and misleading ! ( I was already married and I experienced the same in the previous marriage too! even was my first love and really I hoped will be ok - my good partner/friend - not just a wife - a title ) ,... She presented to me that ,...
if I ever want to try other Way I do not have chance ,... because ,... She told me that !
1. women are materialistic and I am being a worker with unstable job (private sector) and low- average wedge - so I am frugal ,... so no chance
2. I am not good looking : not tall enough ,... loosing hear ,... my face is not attractive,...
I found out these after I tried to tell her nice that I wish to have a recreational partner , that like hobby I with to exercise out and inside BUT NOT ALONE ,... that my intimate life I really to be a joy -relax - good time ,.... not just duty ,...
- Was not a discussion to talk about and what to do together - like team ,.... no
- PUF She calls me names - curse on me - and told me point 1 & 2 ,... "what do you thing who do you find - no women want to be with you" ,... and so
Thank You for attention/advices/understanding and support and I really hope You will do better !

 

[GFR]

I grew it up to be very expendable,... all my life ,...
I was use to do by myself and do not expect so,...
- She does not to clean the house evens she's pets do a huge amount of mess , do not need to wash dishes ,
- She does not need to do laundry or
food - I do everything myself and - really happy ! ! ! -
I just want some friendship and partnership , growing , leaning and improving in the relationship !
- So after the first part of big scam and misleading ! ( I was already married and I experienced the same in the previous marriage too! even was my first love and really I hoped will be ok - my good partner/friend - not just a wife - a title ) ,... She presented to me that ,...
if I ever want to try other Way I do not have chance ,... because ,... She told me that !
1. women are materialistic and I am being a worker with unstable job (private sector) and low- average wedge - so I am frugal ,... so no chance
2. I am not good looking : not tall enough ,... loosing hear ,... my face is not attractive,...
I found out these after I tried to tell her nice that I wish to have a recreational partner , that like hobby I with to exercise out and inside BUT NOT ALONE ,... that my intimate life I really to be a joy -relax - good time ,.... not just duty ,...
- Was not a discussion to talk about and what to do together - like team ,.... no
- PUF She calls me names - curse on me - and told me point 1 & 2 ,... "what do you thing who do you find - no women want to be with you" ,... and so
Thank You for attention/advices/understanding and support and I really hope You will do better !

Brother you are much better than you think. You are just down right now, I know it sounds like bull shit but life will get better. I think you should get some professional advise and start to regain control of the great life you still have to live. I'm going through a divorce right now so I know how defeated you feel. What you are is not: money or looks, its you're heart. You sound like a good person, so don't let one or two people get you down. Get out of that relationship now, and get some help from family, friends or a professional....peace brother

 

[Little Wing]

a good woman will want the same things you do and not judge everything with her greed and her shallow idea of what makes a man have beauty. leave her. seriously.

 

[BritChick]

Why would you even contemplate staying in this relationship?!
Run baby - RUN!

 

[Dale Mabry]

My advice is to not take advice from people on a message board. Of course if you take my advice you won't actually take my advice. Circle of Life.

 

[gr81]

This cat is more in need of the Tom Leykis show than anyone in history, jesus. Stop being a pussy and letting this broad treat you like crap, get teh hell out before she gets pregnant and you mess up more peoples lives. Take your balls out of her purse and ditch that biatch, ya dig. Go meet someone that si gonna treat you the way you need to be treated in a relationship, period

 

[GFR]

This cat is more in need of the Tom Leykis show than anyone in history, jesus. Stop being a pussy and letting this broad treat you like crap, get teh hell out before she gets pregnant and you mess up more peoples lives. Take your balls out of her purse and ditch that biatch, ya dig. Go meet someone that si gonna treat you the way you need to be treated in a relationship, period

OMFG gr81 is a Leykis fan......I knew this guy had his sh1t together. If any man out there are getting there ass kicked by a women in any way ......please listen to Tom Leykis, he is our god.

 

[gr81]

yeah buddy, now I got love for you mayn, no one else here listens to Tom. I used to listen to him religiously, he comes to seattle all the time too so its pretty awesome. He would have a field day with the poster of this thread, thats for sure! alot of times he oversimplifys things, but in cases like this he could really help this guy b/c he sounds like a world class pussy.. lol. i love it!

 

[GFR]

yeah buddy, now I got love for you mayn, no one else here listens to Tom. I used to listen to him religiously, he comes to seattle all the time too so its pretty awesome. He would have a field day with the poster of this thread, thats for sure! alot of times he oversimplifys things, but in cases like this he could really help this guy b/c he sounds like a world class pussy.. lol. i love it!

The bitch of it is I moved from LA to Arizona, and Tom is not on the radio here.

 

[gr81]

oh that sucks, I bet you can stream his show online thou if so inclined. I will ckeck it out. Man his listener partys are so great, he used to be an annual event at The Bite of Seattle for like 12 years, but I guess a few years back the beer garden got so rowdy and too many chicks bairing their titties so they banned him..lol

 

[naturaltan]

too many chicks bairing their titties so they banned him..lol

that is not right!