So Im GETTING DIVORCED

[Bowden]

It would be interesting to hear but if I was her there's no way I'd be posting up anything that could be used against me in court.

There already is enough posted on this board that could be used against both of them in a court of law relative to a judge possibly considering them both unfit parents and possibility ordering that their son be made a ward of the state.
In example what has been pointed in this thread as to the mother being fired for stealing drugs from work is possible grounds for a judge declaring her an unfit mother.

Unless KOS can demonstrate that he can financially support his child and provide a stable home for him their is a potential for a judge to order that their child be made a ward of the state or that his wife's mother be granted custody of their child.
Maybe something that both KOS and his Wife should think over as to possibly loosing their parental rights over their child.

 

[JerseyDevil]

I feel like I'm watching a Dr Phil rerun......

 

[Bowden]

KOS,
IMO, you and your wife are both at fault in this situation.

The one suffering the most is going to be your son as a result of both your actions and combined total lack of responsibility.
Neither one of you considered the results of your actions relative to your primary responsibility as parents.
Children carry a emotional wound their entire lives from situations like this.

Both of you should consider individual counseling.
Your child is going to require counseling as well.

 

[Little Wing]

KOS,
IMO, you and your wife are both at fault in this situation.

The one suffering the most is going to be your son as a result of both your actions and combined total lack of responsibility.
Neither one of you considered the results of your actions relative to your primary responsibility as parents.
Children carry a emotional wound their entire lives from situations like this.

Both of you should consider individual counseling.
Your child is going to require counseling as well.

i like this but would caution being too open in counseling until they know they have someone they can really trust. a lot are cps puppets.

 

[Intense]

I just feel sorry for the kid. I hated growing up with my parents separated.


edit: just saw you cheated AGAIN, what the fuck.

 

[Little Wing]

maybe for the sake of a family a lot of us truly care about this thread can disappear. i wish i could lessen the anguish they must both be feeling. at least we could remove the spectacle of it being played out here and stop anything here becoming a weapon in any way.

 

[KILLEROFSAINTS]

lol..lw melted

 

[Little Wing]

weird somehow that you feel like loling at anything.

 

[KILLEROFSAINTS]

I just had amazing make up sex...im feeling pretty good

 

[Tesla]

A man has to LOL at least a little bit in tough situations. It's therapeutic in a way.

 

[Little Wing]

wow. Tonya, where is your pride?

 

[Little Wing]

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[[SIL]]

wow. Tonya, where is your pride?

so you are not happy that they make up?

 

[heavyiron]

I just had amazing make up sex...im feeling pretty good

Good for you brother but please don't fuck this up.

 

[Little Wing]

Being married to a man without good character, honor or integrity is a tiring, sickening and painful experience for most women... and requires a crippling lack of self esteem. I'm starting to understand the drug use.

 

[Little Wing]

so you are not happy that they make up?

somehow the thought of her under a man that just cheated on her makes me feel sorrier for her and her son than i already felt.

 

[[SIL]]

kos just gave tonya std

 

[Little Wing]

do you guys think a man that's been allowed to get away with cheating twice will stop? truthfully?

 

[Little Wing]

do you honestly think this was make up sex or just tragically low self esteem sex?

 

[keith1569]

do you guys think a man that's been allowed to get away with cheating twice will stop? truthfully?

Nope same goes for women
It's why I will never get back with my ex

 

[keith1569]

I didn't touch my wife since the day she said I want a divorce...

 

[Little Wing]

who thinks they would have just had great make up sex and kos would be all happy if it was Tonya that cheated?

 

[KILLEROFSAINTS]

Good for you brother but please don't fuck this up.

ill sure try....I was good for years...I can do this shit....I doubt there will be life altering mistakes by her again any time soon....gotta forgive her too

 

[KILLEROFSAINTS]

who thinks they would have just had great make up sex and kos would be all happy if it was Tonya that cheated?

ive forgiven her without question or hesitation when I was put in the same position

 

[[SIL]]

now we need sheri and xyz to have make up sex..

 

[Little Wing]

ill sure try....I was good for years...I can do this shit....I doubt there will be life altering mistakes by her again any time soon....gotta forgive her too

and she knows exactly what will happen if she doesn't toe the line doesn't she? and you know she's so brow beaten you can get away with it. a man worthy of her would not lower himself to seeking a revenge fuck when she stumbles.

 

[KILLEROFSAINTS]

Ah...wasnt revenge....it was pathetic though...no excuse

 

[Little Wing]

ive forgiven her without question or hesitation when I was put in the same position

that's it! i'm sending you both to be made into eunuchs.

 

[Little Wing]

looking back on good things that crumbled into ruin i honestly can say no strange anything is worth what you stand to lose.

 

[KingLouie]

I've learned a few keys to our families relationship is unconditional love (easy for us) and forgiveness (tougher to do). Loose your ego's, reminisce about how much you love each other and the good times, think of your children, don't rush into anything (it's easy to do and I'm guilty of it myself), and see what happens. It's never easy; however, the easy road it giving up. Lace up the gloves and get ready for the title bout for you marriage! It's more than obtainable!