How to have more sex than you can handle
Schedule it. Planning sex doesn't make it less exciting. "If I got you a table at Le Cirque, it wouldn't be any less enjoyable if we planned it in advance," says Allen Elkin, Ph.D., a psychologist in New York City. "You might even anticipate it. It's okay to say, ??I'm tired tonight, but the kids will be gone next Thursday. Let's be together then.' It gives you something to look forward to."
Connect for 15 minutes a day. If you want more sex, you have to keep your relationship strong--and that takes a daily commitment. "Fifteen to 30 minutes a day of private time is the absolute minimum for maintaining a connection," says Judith Seifer, Ph.D., a sex therapist in West Virginia.
Schedule it. Planning sex doesn't make it less exciting. "If I got you a table at Le Cirque, it wouldn't be any less enjoyable if we planned it in advance," says Allen Elkin, Ph.D., a psychologist in New York City. "You might even anticipate it. It's okay to say, ??I'm tired tonight, but the kids will be gone next Thursday. Let's be together then.' It gives you something to look forward to."
Connect for 15 minutes a day. If you want more sex, you have to keep your relationship strong--and that takes a daily commitment. "Fifteen to 30 minutes a day of private time is the absolute minimum for maintaining a connection," says Judith Seifer, Ph.D., a sex therapist in West Virginia.