PROBLEM: You want her to know more about your outrageous sexual fantasies than the video-rental clerk does.
SOLUTION: Gear down. Remember back when you were first dating? You didn't let her see all your strange quirks and unpleasant habits at once. First you told her about your preference for tube socks and--much later--you unveiled your lifelong dream of becoming an igloo architect. To encourage a shy woman to buy into your sexual fantasies, introduce props or role-playing in small doses. In other words, you have to ask her to put her hair in a ponytail and chew bubble gum well before you break out the pom-poms.
SOLUTION: Gear down. Remember back when you were first dating? You didn't let her see all your strange quirks and unpleasant habits at once. First you told her about your preference for tube socks and--much later--you unveiled your lifelong dream of becoming an igloo architect. To encourage a shy woman to buy into your sexual fantasies, introduce props or role-playing in small doses. In other words, you have to ask her to put her hair in a ponytail and chew bubble gum well before you break out the pom-poms.
